THE KEY TO POWER

You will only feel weak if you don't like your situation, you will only feel worse if you're always looking for comfort.

Every time you're stressed in your work you will always look for an escape. You would want to light a cigarette or take a coffee brake or even worse... drink some alcohol. The reason why poor people become even broke is because they're always looking for comfort, they're seeking for entertainment and fast pleasures all the time. The blue collar workers will always drink after getting their salary, the poor kids will always ask for some money from their parents to buy something, the depressed father will spend most of his money drinking or gambling. It's a funny thing why poor people always tell themselves that they are happier than rich people yet they are always lookin for fake happiness, they're always looking for something that will numb their pain. 

The key to power, success, longevity, long term happiness is to stop looking for a cure. If you're in pain keep feeling it, embrace it, don't be scare of it, don't feel like a victim... embrace it. If you're struggling struggle even more, don't look for help, don't look for shortcuts, solve it by yourself, endure it and soon the help will come naturally, situation will become better. If you're not needy and not making dramas then you will have power. 

Always accept your situation and just try to make it better, just try to improve everyday. Take it slowly, be in the moment and never look for shortcuts. The key to power is to feel the pain, if you can embrace any discomfort then you are invincible, look at those weak people... a little discomfort is making them fold, it's making them crazy, they wanted to get rid of it right away. If you want to feel comfortable your whole life then accept that life is not perfect at all, this perspective will take away some of your stress, it will remove some of your negative judgements about your surrounding, it will make you appreciate life even more. 

POWER IS WITHIN YOU

Power can be felt if you love yourself, believe in yourself and push yourself to the limits. Test your abilities, discover your full potential, see what you can achieve by facing discomfort and pain. Because these things will test you, it will challenge your willpower. And if you don't believe in yourself enough then you will never ever see your real power. Powerful people never look outside instead they look inside, they focus on what they have and not trying to beg for what they don't have. You are powerful, you just need to use your power. The reason why you always feel weak is because you're not even trying, you're exerting lesser effort than what you can really do. You're always giving less, doing less, being impatient all the time. If you want to feel powerful you need to work more, give more than what you can get. Even a construction boy can become powerful if he will work super hard, his boss will love him, more works will come after him, he will even get promoted. Use your power, use all of your energy, don't be afraid to get depleted because you will always get your energy back, your mind and body will recover fast. 

The reason why people feel weak is because they settle, they just accept what was given to them, they don't even dare to try to push themselves, they're not taking risks, they're not looking to get uncomfortable. You will only get a different result if you will make yourself uncomfortable by trying things that you haven't tried before or pushing yourself to the exhaustion. Growth will never happen in a comfortable place or peaceful mind, you will really get stressed a little bit. 

STAY STILL WHILE DOING THE RIGHT THING

It's hard to do the right thing, it's hard to do what is needed because you're not calm. You're always rushing to finish it, you're not even trying to enjoy it. Be in the moment, you have a lot of time, you don't need to become the fastest, you don't need to become the greatest right away, all you need to do is stay calm. Stillness is the key, you will become stronger if you are still even if there is chaos going on around you. You will become more focused if you are calm and collected, so stay calm all the time and never panic. What is the point in panicking? what is the use of being scared? it's ok to become scared but you need to feel it, stop being too emotional about it, stop being too defensive. Just stay calm, focus on your breathing while starting something that makes you feel lazy, feel it, if you're afraid of starting it then just feel it, move your hands and feel slowly, think slowly, you don't need to become great right away, enjoy being slow, stay committed to taking actions. 

Just breathe and stay in the moment, don't think about losing, don't think about how you feel, just stay present and do your very best. 

YOU CAN ALWAYS DO IT BY YOURSELF

You can build a house by yourself, you can finish a thesis by yourself, you can earn by yourself, you can even employ yourself. There is nothing you can't do. So if you don't like the people around you because they are somehow not treating you right or bullying you... leave them, don't be afraid to walk alone. Having the courage to do it by yourself is the real power. It's not about being a loner, it's not about being a weirdo or very hard to work with... it's about giving glory to yourself by treating yourself right because people can't give it to you. Again, this is uncomfortable but just like what I've said before... the key to power is embracing the pain and taking matters into your own hands, it's trusting yourself and simply pushing forward however you can. Never underestimate yourself, you can become powerful as you can be if you will start to believe in yourself. Never feel bad if you failed or got rejected, never get discouraged if things aren't going your way, just believe in the power of moving forward, believe that taking actions towards your goal will save you. 

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO'S MAKING YOURSELF WEAK.

You make yourself weak by thinking that you're weak, you make yourself weak by complaining instead of moving. You make yourself useless by worrying about the future instead of focusing on the present, you make yourself weak by being guilty about the past instead of trying to make your life better and embracing the opportunities that will might come. You're the only one who's stopping yourself living a better life by thinking about the wrong thoughts and committing to stupid actions. Just stop worrying and just do the right thing.