Maybe you are wondering how other people can do such things that looks hard, risky or not practical. You are wondering why there are some people who can collect expensive shoes, waste a lot of money, act like it's their last day, do stupid decisions, gamble everything they have and still get away with it. Some people are taking really big risks and it looks like their decisions were stupid but they still thrive in the end. It's not luck, it's not fate... there are levels to these. That's their level, they've been doing it for a very long time, it's in their psyche, it's their mindset, it's what they believe. You can also go to that level, you can reach any level if you will live that way, study what makes you successful and advantage, study what gives you results and you can also play with reality, you can manipulate your life.
STUDY THE CHEMISTRY OF YOUR LIFE
There are sequences, there are combinations. there is a pattern. Once you find out the mix of things that works for you... you already cracked the code, you can become successful every now and then. It's not being perfect, it's finding the right ingredients that makes you successful. Some people look lazy but are succeeding, some people looks like not serious but are succeeding, it's because they find out what works for them, they are just being themselves, they enjoy what works for them and they are just living their lives.
Some people will work hard, really really hard but they can't make any progress, why? they don't have the right chemistry, they're not mixing the right things, they keep doing the same thing over and over again without studying why is this happening or why is that not working. There is a right recipe to your success, and that recipe may work for you only and not for others. Some people keep pushing but they can't make a breakthrough because they don't have the right chemistry. They're not mixing the right things or maybe their mixes are not enough. Just like a juice that has no sugar, just like a soap without water, the right ingredients maybe there but it is not enough there is something missing. And it's your duty to find out what is missing.
Because if you're already working for your dreams, if your intention is right then you're already on the right path, it's just a matter of finding the right combinations.
Because the best thing to study is how you live your life, watch your life, watch your thoughts and behaviors, watch how you react and you will see a lot of errors in your life and you need to correct them to put yourself on the best position to succeed.
ONCE YOU FIND WHAT IS WORKING
Everything will become easier. It will become automatic, people will be stunned how are you doing it, you will make the hard things look easy, people will even ask you what is your secret. Hard work will become easy work, everything will fall on the right place, you will look like a master, you will make success look easy. Stay positive, something will work for you, you need to try a lot of things, you need to experiment like a scientist. There is a process, there is a technique, there is a style that will work for you no matter how weird it look or sound. Find what that process is, find the timing and the rhythm... it will give you success.
So never give up if you keep on failing, always remember that you will only make something work if you work hard on it. Time will come and you will be able to figure out what style fits you.
KNOW THE RIGHT DETAILS (Track some records)
Be meticulous, watch your life, watch what you are doing, track the right habits that gives you results. What time are you getting clients? what did you practice to perform at the highest level? what did you drink? what are your rituals? what process is making you feel good that gives you the best results? what did you think? how did you feel before getting that small success?
The smallest details can become a game changer so don't ever underestimate any small step because it can attract opportunities or make some big progress. A small tweak, a one simple try, a one small change can give you a strong momentum towards victory. So if you want to make a change then change your personality a little bit, create some new habits, build a new philosophy or culture that can make a dramatic change to your life. It's all about not being afraid to try, you really have to give yourself a chance to succeed and you can only do it by not being afraid to try some new things.
Every thought, every food you eat, every small action, every small decision, every way you spend your time is critical. So be aware of what you're doing, list the steps that give you a little bit of progress and repeat them, also list the decisions that failed you and never repeat them again.
DARK NECESSITIES MAY WORK FOR YOU
There is a painter, I already forgot what his name is but this painter is drinking while painting and he is making impressive results. That combination works for him, I am not saying that you should drink too before working, my point here is... your habits may not be perfect but it can still work for you. Because the rule of thumb here is... if it works then it is right. Some people who are even doing some bad things are thriving. Again, I'm not saying that you have to do it because it may backfire at you in the end.
The point here is, you can become really creative, you can use a lot of things or resources or techniques, the possibilities are endless. Some things may work for you even if you least expected it.
You can procrastinate for an hour then work hard the next 10 hours, or maybe you can work for 2 hours procrastinate for 10 minutes then work hard again the next 5 hours. There is a combination that will make you very productive, you don't need to stay perfect all the time, you just need to choose the right timing and sequences that will motivate you to work harder.
Some people are even drinking sodas before they work out and it works for them. They will drink a can of soda and will go hard for 30 minutes. They will exercise like hell, they will burn that sugar. I am not saying that it is good for you, my point here is you don't need to look perfect and clean, you just need to find what may give you an extra motivation that will make you very productive. Because at the end of the day, the bad things that you are doing may have an effect on you in the end. Some people get away with it and some people don't, it's up to you to test something or not. Because at the end of the day, success and making results is what really matters, you don't need a perfect process... you only need to make a progress.