Without growth you will feel like a junk. Without growth you will feel like a useless plant that is waiting to die at any given moment. Growth is part of your life, you can grow everyday, it is a necessity to grow. It all depends on you if you want to grow or die. The power is yours and you have to constantly remind yourself about it, there is nobody to help you but yourself.
Focusing on celebrities, focusing on trends, focusing on who's having a big problem, talking about who's the latest pregnant celebrity or high school friend. Gossips is making you a negative person, it's a waste of time, you don't learn anything from it, it 's sucking up all of your energy. The only story that you should be focusing about is your own story and nothing else. Make your life interesting, make it colorful and adventurous. The sad thing about you is you don't want to focus on your own story and that's why your life is not interesting at all, you can make it epic if you will work hard and try to grow every single day.
2. Lack of focus
You want to achieve something but you're doing the other thing. You want a lot of money but you're spending and throwing away your money, you're lazy and all you do is watch your 52" screen Sony Television, where will that take you?. You want to cut your weight but you're eating Papa John's pizza like a hungry animal. You want to preserve your marriage and stay committed to your wife but you're visiting the playboy mansion every time you hear that there's a new model recruited by the son of Hugh Hefner. What kind of attitude was that?
3. Getting jealous with other people's success.
I experienced this and you may experience this too, or maybe you are experiencing it now but you hate to admit it because you don't want to call yourself bad. It's normal to get jealous with other people's success. You're just a human being, it's in our nature to get jealous but always keep in mind that you need to be aware if you are jealous so that you can stop feeling that way. It's ok to get jealous or envy for at least a minute or too but never let it stick to your system for so long because it creates a negative energy, it will make you stuck, you should be aware that you shouldn't feel that way because it will only make you stuck, you are focusing on other people's lives and not with your own life if you're getting jealous everyday. Be happy with the person who is succeeding, and if you can't because that person is your enemy just keep quiet and never say anything bad against him.
4. Not loving yourself
You don't love yourself enough, why? because you care too much about what people say, you care too much about what people might say, you give too much time to others even though they are not willing to do the same for you. If you really love yourself then you will groom yourself, you will do everything to grow. You will stop eating unhealthy foods a lot, you will stop procrastinating, you will stop thinking about thoughts that doesn't help you at all.
5. Not really trying.
You're doing something but you're not really trying, why? because you're rushing your work, you wan the results right away, you're not giving your best, and that kind of mentality makes you stuck. The saddest thing is you can do more but you are doing less, you can give more but you're giving less, you can push but you are pulling back and that stops you from growing, you're always holding yourself back, you don't want to push yourself and take your life to another level. You should try, you should try to win and not just a try, try giving everything you've got for that one thing that you want.
6. Not wanting to get tired.
If you want to grow, if you really really want to grow then you must accept the fact that you're going to get exhausted, that is a fact. There is nothing you can do about it. All champions become tired, all successful people become tired.
7. Doing too much useless things.
Look at yourself, you're doing too much stupidity in your life, and the funny thing is you can't admit it. Admit that you're wasting a lot of time. In this thing called success... every second counts, you can't afford to lose a minute over some useless information that you found on the internet, you've got to be smarter, you've got to be better. Just because you're doing something doesn't mean you're doing the right thing.
8. Hesitating too much.
Focus on taking actions and that's it. Stop hesitating, trust me... you will regret more if you didn't do what you can do today, stopping yourself from taking actions will never get anything done, what's the use of it. Don't hesitate, life is about creating, if you're not creating you're not growing, you can only grow if you will do something and learn from it. Why will you hesitate? you're afraid to make mistakes? you're afraid to fail? if you're afraid to fail then you already failed... as simple as that.
9. Wishing for a flawless journey.
There is no such thing as an easy journey, there is no easy path to success. You will really struggle, you will be tested, something will try to make you quit, and that's just part of the game. It is what it is, the best thing you can do is to move forward, keep taking risks, keep making a move. There is no such thing as an easy life, you can never get something for free, even growth and trying to evolve a little bit... you still need to work for it, stop wishing for an easy life because it's not real and will never be real, you have to accept that you have to struggle.
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