Life becomes more fun if you are seeing yourself getting better. Anyone can get better if he chooses to. It's just a matter of deciding to get better and sticking with that mindset. You can improve on any given day, it's just a matter of following the principles below and applying it into your life whole heartedly.
1. Stop being selfish.
When I say stop being selfish, you should be generous to people that really love you. Be generous to people that are your true friends, stop being too selfish because it's not creating a positive vibe, you will never even feel good doing that. Share if you have a lot of extra, give more. It doesn't need to be money or something that can be touched. It can be an information, knowledge, time, support, words of encouragement. You will become a better person if you're giving more because it means you have a lot.
2. Learn some new skills.
Any skill that can bring money into your life, learn it. Any skill that can give you a leverage, learn it. Any skill that will be useful in your daily life, learn it. You already have an edge if you know a lot. Opportunities will come if you are well equipped with useful knowledge, even if it's just a general information... it can be useful in the future, time will come and you will be needing a skill for a specific situation. People will love you if you can do a lot of things, your value will increase. You can learn anything you want to, your mind is powerful, your mind can adapt to any information, it's just a matter of wanting it and not giving up until you finally mastered it.
3. Develop a stronger confidence.
You have what it takes to become successful, sometimes all you need is a little more confidence. Strong confidence can be achieved through hard work and focus. If you can become really good in your craft then your confidence will soar high, it will go to another level. Sometimes you will even feel invincible because you're too good. Take risks, this will also develop your confidence, don't be afraid of failing, don't be afraid of trying because it will only make you a better person. Confidence is what you need and you can only get it by setting yourself free, feel free to do anything, feel free to try, detach from the outcome and simply give everything you've got.
4. Erase the bad memories.
Forget the people who hurt you in the past, how can you become a better person if your heart is full of bitterness and resentment. You need to let go of the bad memories. Forget everything that's making you feel bad. You need to focus on creating better memories instead of keeping the bad ones. It is possible to erase a lot of negative memories, all it takes is always thinking about the things or people that makes you happy. Overwrite the negative side of your brain with positivity.
5. Stay committed to your chosen journey.
Commitment creates improvement. You will have a stronger character if you are committed. Once you start something, stay committed. Even if the journey is hard, even if you don't like it anymore, even if it's already boring and not fun anymore... stick with it. Don't give up, don't look for an easy path, stay committed. One day it will become fun again, one day you will become successful with it. Always remember that Napoleon Hill said... "victory belongs to the most persevering". You have nothing to lose if you will never quit, success is guaranteed if you decided to not give up even if the going gets so tough.
6. Keep moving forward even if you don't have strength anymore
Getting better, improving means you have to face stress. Embrace uncertainty and fear, it's really going to become uncomfortable because there is no improvement without resistance. Keel moving forward even if you feel so weak and powerless. Because the truth is you can always move forward even if you feel bad, nothing can stop you. A real unstoppable man is not the one who's so dominant and perfect, the real unstoppable man is the one who's not stopping himself from doing what he needs to do. He can simply force himself to take actions and do what needs to be done. Drag yourself if you need to, slap yourself to wake up, just take it one step at a time, inch by inch, little by little... move forward.
7. Value your time
Never waste your time. You have to treasure it, take care of it and never use it for useless activities that will not even make you grow. Time is money, time is potential, time is growth. There are many things you can do with your time, you can use it to make yourself bigger and better. This is the main reason why you are failing... you are using your time for leisure and stupid activities, you think you have a lot of it. You don't know that it's a mortal sin to Gods of success if you're wasting your time a lot. You will go down if you're wasting your time so stop procrastinating, stop doing nonsense things that will only put you in trouble. You're a grown man now, you have to think right and do right if you want to take your life to another level.
8. Learn to start fast anytime.
This is the best trick you can ever have to become a better person. Start fast, forget about the difficulty of the task, forget about how you feel and just start fast. You should be able to take over anytime you want to. Make it a habit, start fast and stop fast. Be fast in stopping yourself from procrastinating and being lazy, be fast in starting a task and finish it right away. Don't wait, don't act weak, stop being soft and just do it. Because you will still do it anyway later why not do it now? now is the time, just being a fast mover will take you further. Learn to master this habit and you will see your life evolve.
There are more ways to become a better person, it's a mindset, it's a grind, it's hard a little bit but look at the benefits that you will get by trying to improve yourself... it's a lot. So face the pain now, endure the hardship now and just keep getting better all the time.
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