Apr 26, 2019

PUT SOME PAIN INTO IT

When things are so easy it will get boring, you will never feel the growth because is not really happening. When there is no resistance anymore and you can get it so fast it means you're not getting anything. That's why champions always look for bigger challenges, that's why conquerors and kings never get satisfied, they already have enough but when they become bored they will look for another risky challenge that may take away their lives. If everything was so easy there is no more growth on it, it feels like dead, it feels so weak and useless.

So if you want some growth, if you want some progress... you need to put a little pain into what you're doing, you need to suffer a little bit, make sacrifices, challenge yourself to grow more and discover a more challenging path... something that may take away your sanity.

Just like in building a muscle, if you're lifting 10 pounds for a month you will get bored with it already, there is no more growth, you already achieve a certain level of strength but that power becomes a plateau, you're stock into that level and the only way to break it is to add more weights into what you're lifting, add one or two pounds so that there will be another room or space for growth. If you will not do it then you will lose the love for lifting weights, you will not become motivated anymore, you will feel that it's too easy and there is no more reason to work.

Life is all about growing everyday, and you will only experience growth if there is some pain. Inflict some pain to your chosen process, not pain that you cannot bear, chose a pain that is tolerable and sustainable and once you don't feel anything from that pain anymore... look for another level of pain, something that will stress you again. Growing everyday is all about facing uncertainty and change, if you're not feeling any stress anymore then it means you're not growing, it means you're stuck on a specific level that is already boring and not challenging.

That's why most people cannot grow, it's because they don't want to face uncertainty, they want to feel comfortable forever. And that kind of mentality is the one that is making them suffer even more. If you're too comfortable then it means you're not growing. Look at those rich kids... they were destroying their own lives even if they already have everything, it's because they can't feel some pain, when they feel it... they were too sensitive about it and they don't know what to do. They want to get pampered everyday but deep inside they feel so weak.

If you're not feeling any pain then it means you're too weak, you're too fragile. You need to feel it so that you will become tougher mentally and physically. It's not that you will kill yourself with it, the idea here is to discipline yourself or challenge yourself everyday so that you will feel that you're growing. Without pain or difficult situations there is no happiness, that's why rich kids cannot become really happy... it's because they haven't feel any pain in their lives, everything was given to them and now they were completely lost with their lives.

So be happy if you're feeling some pain right now, it means there is a growth waiting for you, it means your life will become better if you will only believe that it happens because there is a better thing waiting for you.

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