The key to having a successful life is not being afraid to go down. Life is up and down. Sometimes you're up and sometimes you're down. It is what it is, you can never stop the pattern of life. Sometimes you feel good and sometimes you feel bad. But eh good thing about it is you can still feel happy even if you're down, you can still feel good even if nothing is happening in your life. Happiness is all in your head, you should never under estimate yourself if you're at the bottom because greatness happens when you're down and trying to push through no matter what.
The struggle, the defeat, the embarrassment and disappointments... if you can embrace all of these things and simply move forward then you will become unstoppable, as simple as that. If you are willing to push forward even if you're down then you will succeed, as simple as that. There is no special recipe for success, if you can just be happy with what you have and still give your very best every single day without complaining then success will be attracted to you. Don't blame your situation, don't feel bad whenever you're struggling because it's all part of the design, it's all part of the process. The victory will not become sweet if you will not experience some painful situations like defeat and frustrations.
LIFE IS JUST LIKE A ROLLERCOASTER
Sometimes you're strong sometimes you're weak, sometimes you're happy sometimes you're sad, sometimes you're big sometimes you're small. It is an up and down battle, it's ok if you're at the bottom for the moment because you can climb up to the mountain again if you keep working hard and keep believing in yourself. Don't get stunned whenever you fall so hard, you can always stand up anytime you want. Just enjoy the journey and enjoy the ride, things will get better anytime soon if you always think positively.
Like a kid who rides on a rollercoaster, you fall in love with it, you're scared but you're still having fun, you love the speed, you love the adrenaline rush, you love everything about it. You still wanted to repeat it because it's challenging and it gives you an emotion that is very hard to explain. It's a combination of fear, excitement, happiness and nervousness, you don't know when it will stop. Sometimes you wanted it to stop but part of you is still having fun, part of you is telling you that it's ok to experience fear in a very fast pace.
So if you can have a mindset like a kid and you can enjoy every moment then you can adapt to any kind of situation in life, nothing can make you feel bad anymore, nothing can disturb your peace, you will have a very good and happy life.
Nothing is permanent in this world, even if you're the richest man in the world... you don't know what can happen tomorrow, everything can change but if you can develop a mindset of "you are ok no matter what" then everything will become much much easier.
Don't be afraid to go down, give your very best, always take the risk and never be afraid of what might happen next. People can blame you, people can hate you, even you friends and families can hate you but the most important thing is you try and you never get conservative, the most important thing is you feel free doing something that you think is right.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO EXERT STRONG EFFORT
Strong effort equals something, it can change your situation for real, no matter what you do... if you exert a very strong effort then you will be rewarded. People were so afraid to exert strong effort because they were so afraid to get tired and get nothing. Let me tell you, nothing is sure in this world, you have to take risk even if the chance of disappointing yourself is very high, you still have to believe even if there is no more reason to believe. Exert a strong effort and your chance of changing your situation will become very high.
Exerting strong effort will make you a big time, it will take your life to a new heights. Most people cannot exert a very strong effort because they were so afraid to face any difficulty, a little stress is making them crumble.
Strong effort will always be rewarded, strong effort will always get the results, so if you're not getting any results from what you're doing it only means your effort is too weak and soft.
BE HUMBLE ALL THE TIME
Be humble because not all the time you're on top, there will be times when you will struggle and cannot figure out what to do, there will be times when it's really difficult and some people will be very happy that you're failing because you disrespected them in the past. Look at Conor McGregor, he was so arrogant before but now he is getting humbled by different fighters, his career in MMA is falling down, his arrogance was on a different level but now he is getting humbled by Khabib and Floyd Mayweather.
Work hard and stay humble even if you're winning because there will be times when you will lose and you will eat everything that you said, that arrogance will back fire on you and you will feel bad because your haters were even stomping on you even if you're down already.
Being humble means you have nothing to lose and you have everything to gain, just stay humble so that when you fall down... nobody can make fun of you. Be humble if you're successful, be humble if you're losing.
Some people were so fast to become arrogant once they're earning a little money, they were power tripping but when time comes and they don't have money anymore... they look like a powerless loser that cannot even move, they look like cute and harmless puppies.
STOP BEING A CRY BABY
Stop being a cry baby and just do something, wipe your tears, stop looking for sympathy and just do what you need to do. Stop whining and stop making excuses, you're always thinking that the universe is punishing you and unfair to you, you must think that it's normal to experience difficulty in life. Just live your life and push yourself to take massive actions everyday to change your life. Being a cry baby means you're a loser and a quitter, it means you're weak. If you really want some change then do your very best, exert a full maximum effort to make an impact for your life and legacy.
Focus on your strengths not on your weaknesses, your strength is your power to move and make decisions.
What are you made of? are you a robust person or are you the fragile one? if you keep on complaining and asking for things that is not present in your life then it means you're weak, it means you can't carry yourself.
AVOID SUBMITTING TO A DIFFICULT SITUATION
If there is a difficult situation and it seems like you can't figure out what to do with it or how to escape from it... never think about escaping, never think about going to some other places or looking for a rescue, deal with it and never submit to it. Always remember that any difficult situation will just make you better, it will only give you an experience that you might be able to use in the future. Be happy if something is so difficult because it will make you mentally tougher, it will make you a better person.
So don't panic because all you have to do is stop quitting, all you have to do is stop thinking that it's hard. It becomes hard because you're always thinking about comfort and rest. Stop thinking about comfort and embrace the difficulty of life and you will see that everything is easy and difficulty only happens inside of your head. Do what is difficult and everything will become easier in the future.
SHOW THEM WHO'S THE REAL GANGSTER
A real gangster is someone who will fight until the end, a real gangster is someone who will never give up even if his situation is really really bad. Do you want to look weak or do you want to look powerful? if you want to look powerful and feel powerful then show them that you mean business, show the world that you're not an ordinary person who will just quit every time something gets uncomfortable. Show them that you live discomfort and you are hear to conquer any adversity. Make them feel how hard you are make them feel that you are here to give your very best. So stop pretending that you're tough, stop pretending that you are for real if you will just quit when everything starts to get hard. If you're a real gangster then you will never feel anything about adversity, you will just laugh a any kind of problem and continue to move forward. Stop pretending that you're strong if you will just blame someone or make excuses in the end. A real gangster will take matters into his own hands and will never blame anyone once he failed, he will take full responsibility of his actions, he will never trust anyone to do it for him.
FACE THE PAIN
Face the pain, never shy away from it. If it's already too painful then it means you're very close from being successful. Face the pain, it's just a feeling, once you get use to it then everything in your life will be easy, you will no longer be afraid of working for so very long, you will become more patience, you will be able to understand what waiting or getting uncomfortable is all about. Face it because it's the only thing that will make you strong, there is no strength in comfort, there is no glory in easy things. Face the pain and learn to survive and thrive. Pain can never kill you, it can only make you feel alive, it's the realest thing in the world, without pain and sacrifice you are nothing. Everyone can be happy and feel good while winning, everyone can become proud of their achievements but not everyone is willing to face a painful path. Pain is really hard and uncomfortable but it has more rewards that easy things.
Pain will make you feel invincible, face a lot of it and you will no longer be afraid of any kind of fear. Pain equals growth, it's the right way to achieve greatness.
Just feel it, feel it slowly and you will learned that it's not a big deal, you will learned that it's not that scary. It's not even life threatening, it will only give you a little discomfort but will give you a big success in the future.
YOU CAN HUSTLE
When you're down and feeling low, when nothing good is happening... always remember that you can hustle, always remember that you have the power to change your situation, just keep hustling, keep moving, it will never be over until it's over. Hustling is the key to success, keep hustling everyday so that you will become very close to success. There are no rules in hustling, just work hard and do something for your goal and that's it. Hustling will create opportunities, it will show you the right way.
You can hustle even if you're dumb, you can hustle even if you're stupid, hustling can be done b anyone. It all depends on how hard you hustle. The harder you hustle the more successful you can be. Hustling will shape your mind into a different shape, it will change your perspective, it will manipulate the old chemistry of your body and turn it into a more powerful one. Hustling is the only key to success, if you're not forcing yourself to take actions then you will never achieve anything. So don't be afraid to hustle, don't be afraid to bust your ass and force opportunities to show up.
So forget about those technical things, forget the skills that you don't have, never mind your ugly situation and just keep hustling all the time. Hustle and hustle until you finally changed your world.
GOING DOWN MEANS GOING UP
If your life keeps on going down... be happy because the next direction is going up. There is no other direction than going up, going up is the next trend or sequence. You can never go down anymore if you're already at the bottom, the only direction left is up so just keep pressing forward until you get that momentum, keep taking that one step until you find your self successful. There are only two direction in life... going up or going down, which direction do you want to go? it all depends on how bad do you want it. Sometimes you think you're already working hard but if you're life is still going down then it means you're still lazy and not exerting a full maximum effort.
So if you find yourself going down... don't panic, just deal with it, watch it go down even more and when you reach the bottom... keep climbing again, keep working hard again. Nothing can ever stop you from making a comeback, if you can't climb up again then it means you don't want to change your life, it all depends on you and the effort that you're exerting.
YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO LOSE HERE
You don't have anything when you were born and you will never be able to carry anything with you once you die so it's time to lessen the pressure, always think that once you are working hard and giving your very best then you're already a winner. Winning and losing is just an illusion, for as long as you're trying and taking some actions... you're already winning. You don't have anything to lose here, you have everything to gain so just do something and get everything you want in life. Don't be afraid to try because you can try again tomorrow if you fail now, there are no limits in trying, you can try as much as you want and nothing can stop you.
So keep playing with life, keep trying because you have nothing to lose here, you're a freeman free to do anything you want. Make yourself as big as you can be and have no conscience when it comes to taking actions.
GRAB EVERY OPPORTUNITY IN LIFE
Once you see something that will at least make your situation a little bit better... grab it and never hold yourself back. Do it now, try it now and never take no for an answer, never stop until you become successful, keep building that momentum up and try to achieve greatness. Because that opportunity maybe your last opportunity, it may not come back again, grab it while it's still there.
So keep experiencing a lot of things, keep facing your fears, keep conquering those frightening obstacles, have fun pushing forward and chasing success. Life is all about facing your fears and trying to barrel through it, don't be afraid to at least try because you will have regrets even more if you don't try.
Be greedy, be fast, be opportunistic... once there is an opportunity, devour it and never let it go, make it yours, make it your own.
ONCE YOU SEE SOMETHING THAT IS WORKING... REPEAT IT A MILLION TIMES
Repeat it a million times, be fast, be relentless, if it is already working then all you have to do is try to improve it. Repeat it again and again until you become successful. Make it bigger, make it sharper, make it the best as it can be. If it is working then you don't need to replace it anymore, you only need to make it greater than it was before. REPETITION is the key to mastery, it is the key to greatness, that's why only few people were getting great because repetition is boring and an ordinary person can never stick with it for a long time, an ordinary person will lose his appetite for working for something for so long, he will look for results right away and if he can't see it then he will quit without even trying again.
GOING DOWN WILL MAKE YOU SUCCEED
Going down will make you succeed why? because success requires toughness and if you already failed a million times... you will no longer be scared to fail anymore, you're already mentally and physically tough, you will no longer fold on an kind of challenge, you will just enjoy being you, you will even play with the process because you already memorized it after failing a lot of times. So keep failing, keep going down because that is the right path to success.
The truth is... if you're too comfortable and always winning then you're not progressing, you will only create progress through mental fatigue, exhaustion and pain, there is no growth in a very comfortable surrounding.
So don't be afraid of going down, it only looks like you're life is falling apart but if you're still working hard and still believing in yourself then it's only a matter of time before you go back to the top again.
THERE WILL BE A BREAKOUT
Trust me, there is always a relief for every suffering, you will find a way out of no way, you will find the energy that doesn't exist, there will be a break out, you will be rewarded fast for sacrificing for too long. So keep feeling the pain, keep pushing and never quit until the breakout happens. Just be patient because break out will never happen if you're rushing things and always looking for results.
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