YOU ARE SHOCKED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT PREPARED

You are shocked because you are not prepared, as simple as that. Don't pretend that you don't expect it, don't pretend that it is out of your plan, you are shocked because you are not prepared. Don't pretend that the world is unfair, don't pretend that you are a victim here, you are shocked because you are not prepared about it.

If you are prepared then you will just laugh at every uncertainty, you will laugh at every difficulty, you just knew that it's normal, you just knew that it is part of your life. If you are prepared then you will face every challenges that comes along the way, you will be afraid of something but you will never be afraid to face it, you will give your very best and you will fight back.

Don't worry if you're not prepared, if you have the willingness to fight back then you will be alright.. It's been said a lot of times in this website but I will repeat it again... all you need to do is move forward and you will be alright, you will be able to adapt to any difficult circumstances.

But if you are prepared, if your mind is ready then any challenges or trials in life will not even bother you, it may annoy you for a little bit but you can accept it easily, you will just breathe, think for a moment and go solving the problem right away, it will never faze you, it will never even make you weak, you will still feel unstoppable and capable of surviving anything, you will still feel invincible.

The key here is to always be ready mentally, always stay sharp, make your mind very tough, never think about quitting nor submitting... just keep going no matter what and push yourself to the limits even more. Again, it's ok if you're not ready, just pretend that you're brave, just pretend that you're a hard worker and you are willing to face any uncertainty in life, be willing to suffer ever now and then, what is suffering? it is nothing right? it is just a status in life, it is just a temporary condition in life, it will change sooner or later.

Be mentally prepared, prepare for havoc, prepare for chaos, prepare for uncertainty and discomfort. Life is not suppose to be comfortable, life is suppose to be full of randomness, it is survival of the fittest. The truth is... somebody is suffering more than you, somebody is almost dying in pain but is not complaining about anything. Feel guilty because you can do a lot of things but you're not doing it.

Think about it again, was it really that bad? of course not right? you are still in control, all you have to do is take massive actions and look for what is somehow working.

Life is tough, it will never be easy, get use to it, get use to discomfort. Once you accept that your life will never become comfortable then that's the time that your life will become easy.