Sep 13, 2018

HOW TO BE YOURSELF WHEN YOU GOT OVERWHELMED

All you need to do is stay cool, stop being needy, stop getting attention from other people. Remind yourself what do you really want to achieve on that day, remind yourself what is your purpose.

Remind yourself that those people no matter how rich or powerful they are were also people, they are no different from you, they will die too one day. All of us were just human beings, no one is invincible.

Remind yourself about your strengths, be yourself and never think that they were better than you, remind yourself that you can control your own world, you can control your own feelings, there is no reason for you to get overwhelmed by them because you are also capable of succeeding and pursuing your own dreams.

Getting overwhelmed is normal, it can happen to anyone, even the president of the UNITED STATES got overwhelmed for whatever reasons.

Enjoy yourself, enjoy what you are feeling, enjoy your emotions, enjoy being scared, enjoy being happy, enjoy every thoughts that are running inside of your head. Forget the outcome, forget how you look, even if you're sweating and scared for no reason... just enjoy it, enjoy looking stupid and dumb, enjoy looking like a clown because you are who you are. The real strong person is someone who loves himself despite of lacking the qualities that you want to become successful or have a great life.

Being yourself means you don't need to impress anyone, it means you don't need validation from other people, you are just enjoying your life, you are just enjoying your journey, you just love what is happening around you and you don't care even if you are struggling or being down by some people.

Just enjoy the process, just enjoy the struggle, have fun with what is going on with your life, be playful and creative. Always think that discomfort is there to make you grow, there are some lessons you will get form there, you don't need to feel bad about it, you don't need to self pity, just have fun with the situation.

It is what it is, you are not that dominant, you are not that powerful but you will become one if you will be yourself and do what you do the best. Focus on your strengths, focus on what you can do and never think that life is hard, never think that you are not capable of carrying yourself.

Uncomfortable situations and circumstances are there to make you stronger, always remind yourself about that, every time you feel uncomfortable... just do it, just keep plodding, do what you want regardless of what people are thinking of you. What they think is none of your business, what they are talking about is none of your business, your business is to control yourself and stop being emotional, your business is to focus on what you want and not on what you don't want.

Forget about the outcome, forget about how ugly it may look, forget about your identity and you will become yourself, you will become free and loose, you will be able to do some magical things, you will make something epic even if you don't have the necessary skills to do it.

Basically it's all about having fun, it's all about enjoying your life no matter what. Never care about what might happen, never care about the future. Just enjoy the moment and you will become yourself.

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