WHAT HAPPENS TO PEOPLE WHO RELY ON THE STRENGTH OF OTHER PEOPLE?

There are lot of people who were already good, they have some powers and skills but because they want comfort... they will rely on the strength of other people, what I mean is... they will join people who were stronger than them because they think that those people will make them happy or give them success. How many times this kind of approach failed? almost all the time. Look at those NBA players who wants championship... they will go to a different team that they think will give them success, but in the end... they will fail. It's because they will rely on other star players, in the end they failed and they were not happier even more because they can't do what they normally do, they can't take charge, they were given roles that they don't like.

If you will rely on other people's strength... it means you're weak, it means you are letting other people to take charge, you can't make your own decision, you are abiding by their rules and you are not free anymore, you are being told what to do which is not good because you also know something else that is better for you.

If you want to become successful then you better do it your way, regardless if it looks impossible... you will become happier if you are doing it your way even if you're losing.

Hoping that life will be easy if you join other people is a sign of weakness. If you want everything to be easy then it means you can't do it by yourself, it means you're a fraud, you really don't believe in yourself.

If you will rely on other people then you will surely fail, you will lose your confidence, you will regret it because you were force to do the things that you don't like, you will have regrets because it's not what you are expecting. The best thing to do is to do it yourself even if it's so difficult. If you will do it yourself then you are free, you can do whatever you want, you will feel even more powerful.