DON'T THINK ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK

If you are thinking about what other people think of you then it is game over, you already lost, you already give away your power. It's none of your business to think about what they are thinking because it will only make you weak, it will make you unfocused.

If they are thinking that you're not good enough to succeed so be it. Don't dwell on it, don't fight them, don't argue with them. Your main goal is to succeed and you can't achieve it if you're trying to control what other people think of you.

And even if they are praising you... don't think about it too, don't let it go up in your head and feel satisfied about their praises. It's your mission to keep going, it's your mission to fulfill your mission. Regardless if they say something bad or good to you... you still need to take relentless actions.

Because that is what success is all about, it's not caring about what other people think of you because it will only make you slow. If you will be happy with their praises then you will become soft, you will never go hard anymore, you will feel successful already even if you're not. If you will feel bad about their critics... you will not be able to focus, you will get mad and that will destroy your momentum.

You cannot control what other people thinks of you. It's their freedom to judge you but never let those judgement affect your work.

IT'S THE NON COGNITIVE SKILLS THAT WILL MAKE YOU SUCCESSFUL

It's not being smart, intelligent, talented or gifted that will make you successful. It's not what you say you can do or your potential... it is endurance that will make you successful. It's not the cognitive skills, it's the non cognitive skills that will give you glory into your life. 

You can become talented, skilled or gifted. You can even label yourself as the chosen one but if you don't have the endurance and stamina to push further to become successful then you will never become successful. 

Take your mental toughness to another level, always practice your willpower, make your work ethic super strong and you will become successful one day. A man can become super wise or talented but if he can't persevere then will never go far. Because challenges and obstacles will always test you, once you need to do something hard and you don't want to do it... it's over for your journey, you already failed. 

Not all the time you will have the luxury to only do what you wanted to do. Not all the time you can act like a king and feel like everything is in control. There are times when you need to force yourself to do something you don't like in order to get something you need. Keep in mind that not everyday is Christmas, sometimes you need to push through pain and discomfort to achieve a different level. 

You don't need to become smart to push until the end, you don't need talents to decide if you will still continue when the going gets tough. You don't need special gifts and traits to be able to work 16 hours a day or even more. It's your endurance and willpower that will save you, it's your willingness to keep working until you become successful that will make you successful. 

So don't feel bad if you're not talented or smart. Those traits are not needed. You only need mental toughness and perseverance. 

If you can work more and do more until the end then for sure you will become very successful. 

YOU NEED TO BE REAL THIS TIME

You need to do what you are talking about, you need to be real this time. All the talking, all the imagining, all the dreaming... those days are over. It is time to perform and show them what you really are. Show them what you can do.

Everyone can talk but not everyone can perform. What is the use of your words if you will not prove it?

The reason why you can't become successful is because you are fake, you are pretending that you are working hard, you're pretending that you're serious and one day you're going to make it. You're making a lot of stories and you let it fool you. You believe that you can become successful one day but you don't know exactly how are you going to do it.

Be real, do what you are boasting to other people, stop selling wolf tickets now and force yourself to become successful.

You are good in talking before but the moment you felt that it is hard... you can't talk anymore. Where is that flashy person who's trying to make people believe that he can become successful?

Do what you said from the past, prove them that you can prove. There are lot of fakes in this world, don't be one of them. Be different, talking is easy but executing is hard. Choose the hard path because it is the right path to success.

Are you for real? do you want to be called real? stop clowning around and trying to impress other people. Do what you are always saying, it's time to act differently. This time you need to cut the talking and increase the doing.

Because if you're not real then success will not be attracted to you. It will never show on your door, success will only come to people who are real and not pretending to be someone who they are not.

DON'T WATCH THEM, WATCH YOURSELF.

The reason why you can't become successful and free is because you always watch other people's lives. Remember that you have your own life and it's your life that you should place your focus upon. You almost forgot that you should help yourself to become successful and not focus on other people's dreams.

The reason why you can't make it is because you're too much generous with your time. You are giving your time away for free. You will watch other people's journey, you memorize their habits, their favorite food, favorite color, you know what is happening with their everyday life, you know their dramas and shits. You don't know what to do with your life anymore, you're completely lost.

If you want to be in control then you must watch your own life. Watch your growth, watch your own progress, make a very good story of your life by working hard everyday. Watch yourself if you're not doing well and make adjustments, watch yourself if you're taking your life for granted.

Make your own movie about your life and direct it very well. You are the director and you are the start.

Stop watching an ordinary person making it in life and getting jealous with him, stop idolizing someone who is no better than you. You can become anybody if you will work hard and focus on your own work.

You can only become free of jealousy, hatred, laziness and hate if you will watch your own life. Work to improve your life, strive to become better each day.

You can make extraordinary accomplishments out of your life if you will take things seriously and stop being a fan of other people.

Everyday you are growing old, everyday your time is decreasing. Don't wait before you get so very old before you take actions. The right time is now... execute and make your dreams come true.

WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A SMART PERSON?

Being smart is simply being simple, you will just do what is needed and that's it. You will do things on time, never delay what you promise and always give your best. It is basically just doing the right thing, doing it better and focus on getting it done.

You don't need to be a genius or something. Just do what will make your position better and that's being smart already. 

JUST DON'T DO STUPID THINGS. Don't do stupid things and that's being smart already, a lot of people thinks they're smart, they want to do cool things but they cannot even do the right thing. They will impress other people, act savage, show their swagger but in the end they find themselves in trouble. Just stay away from trouble and that's being smart already. 

You don't need to be intelligent, you don't need to look intelligent. Just do the right thing. If you're a student in college, you just need to do your assignments, listen to your teacher, never miss a class and that's being smart already. Stay away from temptations, stay away from so called "friends" that will make your life miserable and will teach you vices. Just do the basic and you will do fine, as simple as that.

Being smart means putting yourself on a better position or at least giving yourself a chance to succeed. You don't need to look cool or dominant, you don't need to look flashy or loud. Just do the basic things that will make your life better than yesterday and that's being smart already. 

If you're doing something that will give you a better future then that is smart. 

You're smart if you will choose delayed gratification, you are smart if you will choose sacrifice over bad pleasures, you are smart if you will simply do what is best for your life. It is really easy to become smart... just do the rightest thing and never do stupid cool things that will only stop your progress. 

HOW TO KNOW IF A PERSON IS REALLY WORKING HARD

If he is making results, if he is making it in life... that is how to know if a person is really working hard.

If a person is working really hard and he is not progressing financially... it means he is not working hard on his financial lessons. He is not studying something that will improve his financial status. hard work have different layers, it is not purely working hard physically, you have to work hard mentally too. You have to work hard in every areas of your life.

You have to dream hard, you have to work hard. You have to study hard too and be courageous enough to study yourself why you are not progressing.

If you are really working hard then you will get results for sure but if you are not getting what is expected of you, it means your hard work is not enough, it means you still need to do something else. Sometimes a single decision can change everything in your life.

Look for what is missing, if you can't see it then it means  you're not looking hard.

HARD WORK PAYS OFF.

If you already have a strong work ethic then you're already good, you can become successful already. If you feel that the results you are getting is not enough, it only means you need to make adjustments. It is either you stop something or you start something new. Don't be scared of something if you are working hard, if you are really working hard then you're already secured, you don't have to worry about anything else.

HARD WORK NEVER STOPS. A person who is really working hard is unstoppable. He is not someone who will just work today and will rest tomorrow. If he can work hard forever then he will do it. He is not someone who will work and always expect something in return, it is in his DNA, he will do it forever if needed. It is already embedded in his system, he is not afraid to get tired, he is not ashamed of doing it even if the results were not showing.

HOW STRONG ARE YOU?

Everyone has a hidden strength inside of them. They just don't know it or maybe they are pretending that they don't know it.

You can only make your strength come out if you will move, if you will challenge yourself and push yourself to the limits. Set a goal and use every ounce of your strength to get it.

You will never know how strong you are if you will not face the discomfort. Real strength will come out if you are weakening, if the hope is not there anymore. Your real strength will show if there is a lot on the line and the stakes are very high.

Real strength will show during pressure times. Some people are only good and can show their brilliance when everything is comfortable, when they are winning and there is no big problem that they are facing.

If you wanna know how powerful you are... you must take risk, you must face the unknown and give your best during hard times. Once you get comfortable during uncomfortable moments... you will be surprised at how good you can be, you will be surprised with what you can accomplish.

What you can do at the moment is not all you can do. You can still do a lot of things, you can push, you can achieve more. It's just a matter of deciding to become strong and giving all you've got no matter what.

Real strength is having the ability to move despite of fears, despite of discomfort and big obstacles on the way. The more you move during problematic times, the more you will become stronger. Your mental toughness will soar to another level.

I've seen a lot of talented and skilled people that were expected to become successful that only crumble during pressure times, they don't know what to do anymore, they freak out when everyone is mocking them. That is weakness, that is a sign of a fake strength. You can all have the hype in the world but at the end of the day, they will know if you are really strong or not.

TREASURE YOUR HARD WORK

Some people are working hard but they are wasting it. They are taking their hard work for nothing. It seems like they're on a rat race and they can't get away from it. Why is that? I thought hard work will always pay off, but not all the time especially if you're wasting you hard work.

People will work hard for a month, they will work for 9 hours a day, some will even work for 12. But after that one month of hard work... they will only burn their salary for stupid things, they will make wrong decisions in handling their money that will result to debts and sometimes even giant debts. They wasted their hard work, it is better if they don't work at all.

If you will only treasure your hard work then it will never be wasted, you can make a significant progress in your life, you will go to another level easily. The reason why you can't change your bum life is because you will work hard and you will waste it. You will work hard in your office, you will impress your boss by doing charity work but after your shift... you will go to starbucks and buy some expensive coffee so that you will really feel like a professional that is earning a lot. What kind of a stupid decision was that?

Another good example... you will exercise for one straight hour, you will force yourself to sweat like a kid constipating in the toilet. You will do a lot of difficult drills but after your exercise... you will drink soft drinks and eat a lot of sweats, you will treat yourself with hamburgers and fries because you think that you deserve it. That will give you no progress, you will go back to zero, your body will not change, the funny thing is it might get even worse.

If you work hard.. make sure that you will gain something from it, make sure you will save your money or will make your situation a little bit better than yesterday because if you keep working hard and not getting any significant progress.... you will quit in the long run, you will get frustrated, you will look for what is wrong not knowing that you are the only one who is wrong.

MAKE IT BREATHE

Pushing too much is not good for you. It is not good for your body, mind and usually it will not produce your desired outcome. Because it means forcing things, using energy and strength even if you don't need it that time.

Sometimes you have to make something breathe. For example, if you are flushing the toilet bowl repeatedly because your shit won't go away... you can't be flushing it successively because the circulation of water will stop. You need to wait for a few seconds or minutes so that the flush will become strong again, you need to let the toilet bowl breathe so that it will become stronger next time.

Just like building your muscles, you can't be lifting weights 7 days a week, you need to make your muscles breathe so it can recover and become stronger next time. If you will go to the gym 7 days a week without rest... you will become depleted, you will feel weak and tired, you need to relax a little bit and rest your muscles. It will grow faster if you will rest it and give it time to grow.

Another example is studying for an exam, you can't be studying 24 hours a day, that will make you go crazy, you will forget all the information you put inside of your head. You need to relax for a few hours, sleep for a few hours and then go back studying again. You're just a human, you're not a machine. You need to give your brain some breathing room so that it can function better and can memorize words faster.

Just like in thinking about problems too much, if you will do it everyday... you will lose sanity, you will hear voices that is not suppose to be heard, you will become crazy, you need to give yourself some time to do some other things. You need to detach yourself from that problem and make your mind breathe. You will be bale to think clearly and find better solutions if you will let your mind breathe.

Same as pursuing a goal, you can't be pushing 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, sometimes you need to rest so your body will be able to recover. Sometimes pushing too much is pulling you, it is making life difficult for you. You need to relax a little bit and be mindful of the things that are happening in your life, trying hard too much will make you hot headed, you will make a lot of mistakes.

Rest is still important but not too much rest, it's ok to work hard and grind but sometimes you need to make yourself breathe so that better things will happen. It's not advisable to keep pushing even if it hurts too much, sometimes you need to think smart and rest what needs to be rested.

HOW TO DEAL WITH FEAR THAT IS SO STRONG

You have no choice but to face it. Face that fear, no fear cannot be conquered if you face it boldly without hesitations. Once you feel it... face it, don't think, forget about the danger. Always remember that if your life is not in danger then there is nothing to be afraid of.

Even if you scared that fear so much... it will subside if you face it. You might get embarrassed, humiliated, rejected or disrespected for trying but for sure you will still feel good because you faced your fear.

Just count from 1 to 5 in your mind if you're going to face it or not. If the countdown ends and you haven't decided yet... don't do it anymore and totally forget it, don't regret it, don't feel bad about it. The fear is also destroyed by ignoring it and not making it a big deal, but make sure that you will not think about it anymore because if you do... it means you are regretting not taking actions. But if you decided that you are going to do it then so be it, embrace it and never look back. Enjoy the fear, enjoy the process of facing it while taking actions. Embrace that negative emotion, enjoy being scared because it will go away little by little the more you face it. Remember that it's not the end of the world, you are not dying, you are just making yourself better by facing fears.

Any strong fear can become weak by facing it, it only has a power because you think that it will hurt you emotionally. And that's true, the fear's main objective is to make life painful for you by not facing it. The more you hesitate and procrastinate, the more fear will become stronger. Fear will eat you alive if you keep thinking about it and not taking actions. The best thing to do is move little by little, face fear little by little until it is fully destroyed.

Your courage will grow stronger and stronger the moment you face fear. Come to think of it, is fear a physical thing? can you see it? can you touch it? it is nothing right? you only build it inside of your head by worrying and thinking about what might go wrong. Just power through and force yourself to take actions and fear is already destroyed. Any kind of fear is the same, it is mocking you, it is treating you like a bitch, it is freezing you and intimidating you. The best thing to do is face it, look it into its eyes, laugh at it and treat it like a bitch too.

EVERY PATH IS THE RIGHT PATH

Any path that you take.. if your intention is good and to make your life better then it is the right path. 

Your parents or friends or partner may tell you that it is not the right path because it's too dangerous and irrational but just stick with it, work hard and never change path... you will become right in the end. They will see that you are right, they will regret that they didn't support you in the beginning. 

All you have to do is endure, make yourself a little bit better each day and you will become successful one day, success may not come fast but it will come big once it come. 

You will look stupid or weirdo in the beginning, you may look like you're out of your mind to many because they don't know what is running inside of your brain. Bust just don't listen to what they say and just keep working. 

It is right if you will stand for it and believe it to the fullest. It is right if you will die for it and work for it until the end. Every positive action that you take is the right action, just be consistent and you will see results in just a matter of time.

Sometimes that path that you choose is hard but don't worry because it will become easier in the end. Just stick with it no matter what, don't give up. Sometimes you have to force things and enforce your will, if that's the case then do it. Never be afraid to go all out, that is what will make your path the correct path. 

Sometimes you will feel that you choose the wrong path, it is normal especially if things are getting harder. But don't worry, if you will keep on taking actions then you will find momentum as the time goes by. 

WHAT IS A KING?

A king is someone who will outwork everyone, a king is someone who is always in control of his life, emotions and thoughts. A king is not someone who just command people and do nothing. A king will always work hard and serve as an example for people. If you want to become the king then you must work he hardest, you must be a good follower so that people will follow you too. You should set the bar so high and become a good role model. No one will follow a lazy king, if someone works harder than you then you don't deserve to be a king. A king as a big responsibility, he is committed to improvement everyday.

A king is someone who isn't afraid of pressure. He is not afraid of confrontations, uncomfortable moments and stress. He will impose his will and take charge when everyone else is afraid to take charge.

A real king will never crumble, he is unshakable and he can decide and move during hard times. His mind is always still, he can even meditate ruing chaos. He can enforce his will and speak his mind, he is not afraid to offend somebody for as long as it is for a good cause.

A king is reliable, when he say he will do something, he will do something. If he promises you something, he will fulfill it. He will never break his word, he has a tremendous amount of self reliance, you can trust him to perform and exceed your expectations.

So if you see someone who is acting like a king but is so lazy, stay away from that person, never associate yourself with that person because he is a fraud. He will only make your life difficult, he will command you with anything even though he can do it on his own. He will act like a tough guy, he will intimidate you with his swagger that was not real. Only follow a real king, you can even be the king of your own world. Just work hard and build your own empire.

YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL

You're not special, you can only become special. And that status will be attained if you work hard and become successful.

You are not special but you can do special things, you can produce special results. Even if you were born with no skills or special talents at all... you can still shine if you work hard and become committed to something that will bring bigger things in the end.

Even if you don't have special support system that will make life easier for you... you can still become special if you keep grinding and busting your ass day in and day out.

It's all about focusing on something special and becoming special to have it. Focus on winning, focus on making yourself better than yesterday.

Never get jealous with other people who has an identity of being special. They can tell themselves that they are special, other people can call them special but if they can't win in the end... their specialty is still useless. There are lot of hyped people out there that were expected to win only to fail in the end because they don't work hard, they never persevere until the end.

You can become special if you are serious in winning in life. It is hard to transform yourself into something special but it is still possible. You can be anything you want to if you will give your life into it.

Start doing something special now, make a special run. You're just an ordinary person but you can do extraordinary things.

ANY UPGRADE WILL HELP

Any upgrade that you can do with your hobby, business or skill will help. If the intention is to grow then that will help. Any upgrade is helpful because the intention is to become better, and you will become better because you're exerting an effort, especially if the effort is so consistent.

Upgrade your body. Any run will do, any exercise will do. It can be yoga, calisthenics, aerobics, sports or a simple walk will do. Any upgrade will make your body better. Just wait for it and be patient, time is the key to become successful. Doing something doesn't mean you will get something right away. Of course you have to endure the boredom of repetition but don't worry, once you are seeing progress... you will become more motivated and have more fun. Any process will become effective if you will do it for so long, you will get improvement in just a matter of time.

Upgrade your mind. It can be a simple meditation, reading books that are positive, reviewing lessons, solving mathematical problems. Anything that will make you think is effective, your brain will become sharper, you will know more, your knowledge will expand. Any upgrade will help, if your purpose is to grow then you will grow if you keep taking positive actions.

Upgrade your financial status. Just save money and you already upgraded it. Do something that will make you earn money, do something that will give you more dollars rather than bills. Not spending is also upgrading because money will keep on entering your piggy bank. Sell something, work, invest, make sure that your money is growing little by little. Remember that any positive action will work.

Growing, succeeding a little bit is what will make your life more fun. If you are seeing progress in your life then you will become happier and more fulfilled. You will live life with a purpose. Look for something that you can upgrade in your life and upgrade it. It can even be your car... repaint it, change the wheels, shine it, anything will do and will work. You will love your car even more, you will appreciate it and will love to drive it more.

Life is all about growing and expanding, if you can look for something where you can focus your energy then your life will become pretty amazing.

Focus on the growth and improvement, that is how to make your life even better.

WHAT TO DO IF YOUR MOTIVATION IS GOING DOWN?

Time will come and your motivation will go down, you will feel frustrated, you will feel like nothing good is happening in your life. It is normal, emotions come and go. Sometimes you are motivated and sometimes you are not. Sometimes you feel like quitting, sometimes you don't want to do anything anymore, all you want to do is make dramas and excuses.

That is the reality of life... you will feel unmotivated, you're just a human being and there is nothing wrong with that.

1. Don't panic. Just relax, motivation will come back again. Remember that motivation is just a feeling. Your feeling of laziness, heaviness and frustration will go away in just a matter of time. Just weather the storm and you will see the sunshine later.

2. Keep taking actions. Even if you feel lazy.. do something, never stop. Even if it is just a mediocre action... do it. Never care if you are progressing or not, never care if you are making results or not, what matters is you keep taking actions and you are still focused with your goals. Taking action will change your emotion, you will feel good in just a matter of time.

3. Watch 3 motivational movies and read one inspirational story. Looking too much for motivation will make you a bum, there is a big chance that you will procrastinate longer. Once you're done watching 3 motivational stories and reading one inspirational story... move right away, start taking actions and never stop.

4. Never think about the remaining steps that you need to do. Forget about finishing, forget about how long it takes for you to become successful. Just keep taking baby steps and that's it. Forget about being perfect, forget about your slow pace. Just keep moving forward, feel relentless and just push through no matter what.

PRACTICING DELAYED GRATIFICATION

Delayed gratification means you will not have instant pleasure at the moment. It means you will sacrifice a little bit for the bigger picture.

Practicing delayed gratification will make you a better person. Your will power will become more powerful. Once you see an opportunity that will make you temporary happy but you know in the end will give you misery... don't grab it. Just do what is necessary, do something that will put your life on a better position in the future and not what will amuse you for a very short time now.

If you're making your body slimmer... don't eat a piece of cake in your refrigerator. Don't even look at it, throw it if you can. Eat the healthier foods... that is how you practice delayed gratification. It is hard to resist temptation but once you were able to ignore the things that will make life more difficult for you... the change in your life will happen.

If you want to have a different life, you must be willing to sacrifice a lot. That's how you do it. It is hard, you must be consistent, you must be good in ignoring temptations. Delaying gratification is like building a muscle, the more you do it the more you become stronger, you will be in full control of your life. You can out muscle any problem, you can over power any challenges in life.

That is the difference between a successful person and a failure. A failure never practice delayed gratification, he always bite the temptation that is presented to him. He always spend his money for useless things, when he saw something in the mall that has a discount... he will buy it. When someone invited him to the party... he will go without hesitation even if he has some more important things to do.

Don't be scared to practice delayed gratification, do what is needed first and get the rewards later. Study hard, don't eat a lot of junk foods, keep your money, stop watching too much TV and work more.

Once you see a temptation... forget it right away and focus on the better things that is waiting for you. Always think about the best things that may happen once you delay the gratification.

JUST POWER THROUGH, FORGET ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE

PUSH FORWARD, use force, forget about anything else. Forget about your body that is deteriorating, it will heal in the right time. Forget about the people that were offended, it is their fault if they were too sensitive. Just power through because that is the only way to become successful. Push yourself if you feel so tired.

You always have a second or even third wind, there is still a hidden power inside of you and you can use it when you feel hopeless and powerless. Push through no matter what, overpower laziness and heaviness. Force yourself to move even if the pace is very slow.

ALWAYS BE PROUD OF ANY WORK YOU DID

Whether it is just about typing 10 pages of report for your boss or making him a coffee.. be proud of it. It is still a work, it is still contributing something to the world. If you are moving then you are contributing something, it may not look impactful but certainly you made an impact.

Because if you will not be proud of your work then you will lost motivation to do it again. If you think that your work sucks then you will never do it again next time, you will get sick and tired of it.

Be proud of any work that you did, it is still a work even if it's  a shitty work. And it will never be a shitty work if you give your best. It may look shitty to some people but who are them to judge you? you will be the judge of your own work. If you know that you take it seriously and you face a lot of stress by doing it then there is nothing else to talk about. You don't need to argue with people that you really give your best in your work.

If you exert an effort, if you sweat for it then you don't need to feel ashamed about it. It's your work, be proud of it and if someone ask you how did you do it.. tell the complete details. Be serious in telling your story.

Because if you will not be proud of your work the who else will? if you are not proud of your work then people will not believe in you. They will feel that your confidence is low and won't buy any story that you tell.

It's not about being arrogant, it's about giving respect for yourself and for the effort that you did. Be confident and never belittle your own work.

The universe will believe you more if you believe in your work and you have the narrative in your mind that your work has a value.  If you sweat for it then never be shy for it.

HOW TO SLOW DOWN WHEN YOU'RE THREATENED

Sometimes you will be threatened for whatever reasons. People, situations, bad news, stress, unfamiliar surrounding, overwhelming intimidation from other people, unexpected events etc. You will be stunned, you will be shocked, you don't know what to say and how to react.

There is only one thing you should remember if you feel threatened... you are still alive. If you're still alive then there is nothing to worry about.

JUST BREATHE. Move in a very slow motion, pause for a while and always remember that you are still alive. This is life, you will always feel uncomfortable and if you are ok with that then any threats will never shake you.

Don't talk, just breath, don't react just think. Think of the best thing that you can do to improve your situation. If you don't need to move then don't move at all. Sometimes just being still will solve any tension.

It's life, there will be instances when something or someone will make you uncomfortable. It is what it is, you don't need to control everything. Just focus on what you can control. Just don't panic and everything will be alright. Focus on your emotions, all you need to do is forget thinking about what they are thinking. Focus on your own thoughts and you will feel invincible.

Always be aware if you are panicking or not, if you are panicking then stop. Don't do anything, make everything around you slow, remember that it's just emotions that is making you freak out and not what is happening around you. You have to control your emotions, emotions is everything, it will make you or break you.

It's ok to look stupid, always remember that. Look stupid for a few seconds and then try to make your emotions a little bit better and a little bit better. It can only be achieved by trying to stay calm, aware and confident. Breathe deeply and slowly, condition your mind that it is life and everything that is happening is just a challenge. Remember that you don't always need to win, you just need to make yourself feel better. What they say and what they do is none of your business, your only goal for the moment is to protect yourself and feel good.

IT'S THEIR FAULT NOT YOURS

Don't ever feel guilty if someone is not making it in life, don't worry about other people's lives because it's their own life, they are the ones responsible for the outcome of their lives. You can't control everything, you can't make everyone happy, you're not a super hero or something, you're just a human who can do what you can do, you can never create a miracle and make life super beautiful for everyone.

Don't feel guilty if your parents hasn't experience a very good vacation yet, don't feel guilty if you can't give it to them. Because they can do it if they want to, it's their choice, even if you want to give them something.. it's still their choice if they will appreciate it, sometimes you are even giving them or offering them something but they can't appreciate it, it's their fault if they can't be happy with their lives, it's their fault if they don't do something about their lives. It's not about being bad or selfish, it's the reality, you're a good person and you know that, it's just happens that you can't make everyone happy even if you want to. Let them live their lives, you know in yourself that you want them to become happy, and even if you do everything to make them happy... it's still their choice if they will choose happiness or not. At the end of the day, even if you don't give them something that they haven't experience yet, it's still their choice if they want to become happy. They are in command of their emotions so never feel guilty if you can't give them a perfect life.

If your friend is suffering from from different kinds of problems... such as financial and emotional problems, don't worry about him, give him help that you can give but don't every worry a lot because he is the only one who can solve his problems. You are only creating your own problem if you worry too much, give him the assistance that you can provide and let things happen naturally. After all, it is his fault if he is having a lot of problems, he created his life, he can't blame anyone because he is the one responsible for his actions and emotions. He feel something bad because he is dwelling on his problems too much, he can't move on and change his bum life because he 's not taking actions. If you already give him all the help that you can give then stop worrying about him anymore. Again, this is not being selfish, this is the reality. You cannot control all the emotions, decisions and actions of people. If they are  full of dramas and shits so let them be. All you can do is live your life better than yesterday and do everything you can to live your life to the fullest. You already did your part so stop worrying a lot anymore.

DON'T TRY TO BECOME A HERO TO EVERYONE

You're not a savior, you're not a Messiah or something, you're just an ordinary human who creates a lot of mistakes. You are not perfect and you cannot control everything. You cannot control how they feel or how they think, all you can do is give them help when they ask for it. For the meantime, just be yourself and do what is best for your life. Focus on your life and become great so you can help a lot of people. Don't ever feel bad if you can't give them what they want. You can only do some things, not everything.

They were already grown up and it's their duty to make themselves happy and successful. It's not your fault if they cannot evolve and learn things on their own. Just be a normal person who is worry free and is not thinking about the problems of other people. You have your own problem and you have to solve it first before trying to help some other people.

You are only hurting yourself if you are thinking about the suffering of other people. You have your own suffering and if you're thinking about them then you're only doubling your suffering. There are better thoughts that you should entertain and not how other people think or feel.

HAVING FUN IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING

Even if your style is not perfect, even if it has a lot of flaws, mistakes and ugliness... if you are having fun doing it then it is right, there is no need to change it, no need to listen to other people. Because at the end of the day, even if you are doing right... if you can't have fun with it then it is still a mistake.

Have fun in anything that you do and life will become very easy for you. If you're having too much fun then you will become more creative and loose. You will feel that it is very easy to move, you will feel that you have the authority to express yourself. Everything will become smooth and easy.

So if you are currently doing your passion and yet you're not on a higher level yet, let's say you're just a beginner... don't worry if they are laughing at your work, don't worry if they are always criticizing you. Remember that having fun is the number one priority and not what other people say. If you love what you're doing then you will become really good at it one day, granted that you take it seriously and you never stop.

Always look for the fun in anything that you do, even if you're just washing the dishes... you can still have fun with it, you can become creative with it, you can add twist on it. For example, you will put a timer on your dish washing activity, let's say you make a goal of washing 50 plates in just an hour or 20 glasses in just 5 minutes, set a timer in your cellphone and let the game begin.

They can say that your way of doing something is right, they can say that you're technically wrong but if you're so much having fun with your own style then why change it? their opinions doesn't matter, your feelings is what matters the most. You need to take care of your feelings, be aware if you're having fun or not, if not then it is time for you to do something about it, it's time for you to look for something that will make the activity fun to do. You can change something, you can add something, you can add story in what you're doing.

If you're just starting to learn something and you're having a hard time... add a story in it. Imagine that you're training to become the greatest in it. Manipulate your mind to become motivated and excited.

You can have fun even when you're just drinking water. Drink the water slowly, taste the taste of it, enjoy the water running in your throat. Enjoy the coldness of it, never rush, feel the water entering your body.

You can have a lot of fun if you're always on the moment and aware of what is going on around you and with your life. Life is fun, just enjoy every process even if it is just a small thing.

The truth is you are the only one who is making your own life difficult, it is your thought process that produces pain and suffering. If you will only think that life is very easy then your life will going to be easy. If you will just do the right things that will put you on a better position to win then you don't need to worry about anything else anymore.

HOW TO HAVE FUN ON A BORING ACTIVITY?

1. Take it slowly. Don't rush it, rushing it will only make you go crazy. Move slowly but consistently, try to enjoy your senses. Enjoy your movement, enjoy everything you see that is related to your task. Even if the current step is hard... you can still enjoy it by slowly moving forward and doing what you can do. It is all about finding the small step that you can execute and doing it. Any process can be really fun if you will have a positive attitude towards it.

2. Think about the reward after getting it. There is always a reward after finishing a particular activity. You just need to look for it, it can be money or a simple development in your personality. You get better when you finish a task, you just need to appreciate it and really feel it. Every time you force yourself to do an urgent task that you don't like... your mental toughness becomes better, you become a better person, you become more responsible and trustworthy.

3. Make it fun. Put a playful side on it. If you're at the office and you're really bored doing your work... make it fast, be faster than anyone. Do more than anybody else, it's not that your competing with them, you just want to play and see how more can you do. Look at them, they were all bored because they are not pushing themselves, they all hate their job because they can't play with it. Anything will become easier if you will treat it as a game.

4. Reward yourself after doing a boring task. Make sure that you will not get the reward if you haven't finish the task yet. Reward yourself with a delicious snack or a simple playing time with your video game after finishing the task. The reward system will make you more productive because you know that there is a pleasure waiting for you.

5. Strive to become the number one. If you're just a janitor and you are getting bored with your job... strive to become the number one. Have the most number of toilets you clean in one month, have the most number of floors you clean in one month. Be the hardest worker, be the number one. Of course it is tiring, of course you will burn out but the good thing is you are having more fun. And one more thing, don't expect for promotion, just let it come naturally. If your boss can't see it, the universe will see it, you will be rewarded in the right time. Just work hard and rewards will come to you, just have faith. 

WHY PEOPLE GET BORED?

1. They are doing the things that they don't love. They were forced to do the things that they really don't like from the very beginning. They do it just for the sake of money, they thought that money alone can make them happy and satisfied only to find out in the end that not doing what they love is making them sick, doing something that they don't want is making them stressed, weak and unmotivated.

2. They don't want to look for the enjoyable moment on a specific task. Every task can bring joy to you, it is up to you to look for it. It is up to you to add spice in what you're doing. You can become creative, you can imagine things, you can make tweaks but you're not doing it because you're bored and you think that there is no more hope, you think that there is nothing you can do with your situation. 

3. They're too lazy. If you feel so lazy, if you want to finish your work fast then you will really get bored. Lazy people are rushing, they want to go home early, they want to get their salary early. They want to fast forward the time that's why they can't enjoy the moment. If you want to enjoy your work then simply try to enjoy every second of your life, enjoy every movement that is happening. Never look for the finish line because that will bring stress to the process.

4. They don't have a reason for doing their work. If you have a reason for doing your work then you will be able to love it and value it. Some people will just work to get money and then repeat the cycle over and over again, they don't have any direction. Some people love their work because they use it for some other reasons, they have a goal with it. Some people work because they are sending their children to school, some people work because they will use the money they earn to build a business on their own, that makes them enjoy their work even more because they know that their work will serve as an instrument for better things.

5. They are thinking about anything else while working. Their mind is flying, they are not focused. They are doing something but their mind is not there, that is why they are making a lot of mistakes and they get frustrated because they have to repeat their work. If you are doing something, be totally engaged with it, stay focus and never let your mind wander to different places.

If you are not having fun with your work then don't do it, if you have no choice but to do it then look for some ways how to make your work enjoyable. Having fun should be the number one priority because it will make your life easier. Forget about anything else, just be concern with you emotions, always check if you're having fun or not.

If you are stressed with your work, pause a little bit and find a thought, find a way that will make you have fun a little more. The control is always yours, you can push the button of happiness and enjoyment anytime you want to. It's all in your hands, it's up to you how are you going to make your life harder or easier.

Because life is all about having fun, even if you're just working... you still need to have a lot of fun. You only have one life so why are you going to use your time for more stressful activities? why are you going to let stress take over if you have the power to make your life more enjoyable?

Do what makes you happy, engage with the thoughts that will make life easier for you. It's not a hard task, everybody can do it. What most people don't know is they can control their mind and emotions, they can study how they feel and manipulate it to feel much better. It's your obligation to become happier every second of your life, you are only wasting your life if you can't feel good right now. What is the purpose of your life of you will just feel bad every now and then? Life is so short, life is too fast, always try to have fun right now in anything that you do.

NEVER COMPLICATE FUN

You can always have fun anytime you want, you don't need to complicate it, you don't need to give a deeper meaning to it. All you have to do is accept it and don't get too much picky. Have fun in simple things, have fun in simple movements. You can set the rules in what is fun and what is not, you have the power to put fun into anything.

If you will not control your emotions then your emotions will control you. You will have a hard time doing things, it feels like you're dragging something. It feels like time is slow and everything you're doing is hard, you will make a lot of mistakes, everything is a mess.

Don't get too deep and just try to make it simple, appreciate that you're still living and commit yourself to hardwork. If you can go all out then that is fun already, forget about what they are trying to say, it's none of your business to listen to their comments. Just have a lot of fun and let success come to you naturally. If you can only have a simple purpose why you are doing something then you will never get bored, ask yourself why are you doing it. Is there a bigger benefits in the future for doing it? are you going to get better? if not then why still do it?

PEOPLE SAY THEY DON'T HAVE MONEY THAT IS WHY THEY CAN'T HAVE MONEY

How many times you heard this phrase before from different people "I don't have money" but when it comes to spending for their luxuries and bad habits, they have something to pull off from their wallet. They keep on saying they don't have money and that is the reason why they can't become rich in life, if you keep on saying that you don't have it then you will feel that you don't have it and that results to manifestation of reality. What you always tell about yourself will become a reality, it will become your life.

Don't say that you don't have money if you have one. Even a single cent in your pocket is considered as a money, it is literally having a money, is single cent not a money? So if someone ask you if you have money and you only have a single cent in your pocket... answer him yes.

Words are powerful, the more you say something about something... the more it will become a reality. Muhammad Ali keep telling himself that he is the greatest that is why he became the greatest. But of course you still need to work, you can't be just speaking words without working, that is fooling yourself.

If you can't say that you have money because you think that people will call you arrogant then just shut up, but don't ever say that you don't have money because that will condition your mind that you really don't have one, it will become your life. Look at those people who keeps on complaining that their salary is very low... even if it is already Christmas and they have a bonus, they feel that their money is still not enough. Their money just flew away for nothing, they can't even hold it for so long.

Money is very magical, if you know how to play with it then it will give you a very good game. If you know how to take care of it then it will take care of you. Money will give you back how you treat it. If you disrespect it then you will never get a lot of it, if you save it then it will save you. If you speak abundance about money and work for abundance then your life will become very abundant. You get what you give for money, if you work hard for it then it will work hard for you. So don't ever speak scarcity about money because it is a mortal sin if you want to become rich. If you don't want people to borrow money from you then just shut up and never tell them that you have money, but also don't tell anyone that you don't have money because that thought will be attracted to your life.

MAIN REASONS WHY PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL THAT THEY DON'T HAVE MONEY:

1.They don't want to look arrogant. There is nothing wrong in telling the truth, if someone ask you if you have money then just answer yes, because it is the truth. Even poor people have money, it just depends on how much money they have in their wallet. Telling the truth is not arrogance, it is being honest. Be honest with yourself that you have money so you can have more.

2. They are afraid that some people will borrow money from them. No one can borrow money from you if you don't allow them. Even if you don't have enough money, people will still borrow money from you. Don't be afraid to tell someone that you have money because you really have. It depends on you how will you spend it and if you're going to let someone borrow it.

3. They simply don't have the abundant mindset. You can even have an abundant mindset even if you don't have a lot of money, you can still feel good having only 20 dollars in your pocket.  But the reason why your money is not multiplying is because your words are not abundant. You keep on talking about less, you keep on thinking about scarcity.

4. It is real that they really don't have money. It is their reality, it happens because they keep on telling other people and themselves that they don't have money. It's is their reality and it becomes even worse because they keep on telling it.

5. They are simply afraid to admit to themselves that they have money. They are scared for no reason, their mind is simply program that way, I don't know but maybe their parents thought them how to think about money or maybe they learned it from someone.

6. It's their strategy. It's their strategy, it's their way so that people will have sympathy for them and give/lend them some money. Sometimes it works but most of the time not. If you will keep on telling yourself and everyone that you don't have money then that will become your cycle, you will never be able to escape that rut forever. Do you know someone who always tell everyone that he has no money? he is annoying right? he has a bad energy. His life never changed, he remain as a bum forever who can't find success.

7. They always feel less. They can't be appreciative of what they have that is why even if they have a lot of money... they still feel that they don't have. They can't be happy and satisfied. They feel like poor forever, I don't know if they're just trying to look humble or maybe they really have poor minds and poor thoughts.

Money is sensitive, it is emotional. If you always say that you don't have it then it will never show itself to you. It will hide from you forever. So always be aware of how you talk about money because money can always hear you. It is guarding you, it is watching your words and deeds.

WHY NOT TALK ABOUT ABUNDANCE INSTEAD?
Instead of talking about scarcity, instead of talking about small money then why not talk about abundance? talk about millions instead of hundreds. Talk about prosperity instead of scarcity. It is easy to do yet a lot of people don't want to do it, maybe they were afraid of money, maybe they don't really like money, what do you think is true? If you can't talk about abundance then don't talk about scarcity. Better not to talk at all than to talk about negativity and weakness. You can talk about abundance with the closest person in your life, someone whom you know will never laugh at you.

But of course you also need to work super hard if you talk about abundance. If you're talking about riches and you're just lying on your sofa while eating some burgers then you're completely lying to yourself. You are only wasting your time, you're only setting yourself up for failure. You need to pair abundance visualization with hardwork, real work not just make believe work to impress people.

TRAIN YOURSELF NOW TO SPEAK GOOD ABOUT MONEY.

Don't curse money, don't tell everyone about your money problems. If you have problems about money... don't broadcast it, solve it. If you keep telling everyone that you're having financial troubles then those troubles will only become bigger. Train yourself to talk about the possibilities of money, how it feels like to have a lot of money. Ask experts about how to make money on your own. Align with people who are experts in making money and has proven records that they can bag big cash every now and then, ask them... they will give you advises because they have the state of abundance. You can tell if a person is rich or not, a real wealthy person is not afraid to share his knowledge to everyone, he is not afraid of competitors, he is not afraid that you might compete with him. For him, making money is for everyone and success is to be shared not to be hidden.

YOUR PERSPECTIVE ABOUT MONEY WILL CHANGE YOUR WORLD.

If you think that money is hard to get then you will have a hard time getting it, but if you think that it is always there and all you have to do is feel good about it and work hard then money will come to you easily. Don't ever think that it's hard to earn money, yes it is hard but if you will pair it with a weak emotions and thoughts then you will really have a hard time getting it. Manipulate your mind, always think that earning money is easy as 1 2 3. You can always control your thoughts about money. You can still think that you have a lot of money even if you only have less. It's all about conditioning your mind for success. Rich people can earn money easily because their brain is wired for making money easily. All they do is think about it, plan how to get it and work hard as much as they can. The formula is very simple, all you have to do is follow your plan and think positively. Never think about failing, always be on the thought of winning.

NEVER DO ANYTHING THAT WILL MAKE YOU SAY BAD WORDS ABOUT MONEY.

1. Never borrow money. If you always borrow money from other people then you will not feel abundant, you will even say bad words about money. You will say that earning money is hard that is why you are borrowing it. Avoid borrowing if you can and create your own money instead. Borrowing money will only make life even more difficult for you. It's just a temporary reliever, it will bring a lot of pain in the end.

2. Never gamble. Gambling is a big mistake, it will avoid you from speaking about abundance. Because if you feel abundant and satisfied then why are you still gambling? Gambling means you don't have enough money and if you are always losing... you will tell yourself that you don't have money anymore.

3. Never lend someone who is known to be a bad payer. It comes to this, when you are already having a hard time getting your money back, you will make dramas and tell the person who borrowed money from you that it is hard to earn money that is why he must pay you. You will make a lot of dramas about money. Never lend someone so that you will not come to the point where you have to talk about scarcity and difficulty of life.

It's alright to speak about big money, it's alright to dream about big money. Just make sure that you will work really hard and you will give everything you've got to get it. It's better to dream about big money rather than to think about the small ones. It's better say something good about money and appreciate it rather than cursing it and feeling bad about it. Your words are really powerful, money will believe everything that you say about it. If you say something bad to it then your financial status will not be in good condition, if you always say something good about it then it will be attracted to you even more.

Don't be like others who keep on complaining about their money because that is their attitude from the very beginning, if they complain about small money then for sure they will still complain even if they have big money already. It is your attitude towards money that you must change not the amount of money you have and willing to have. Change your belief and treatment about money and your life will change, change positively and you will get positive results. Money is easy to earn if you will treat it right, work hard and never speak anything bad about it. You can let it flow into your life, it depends on your perspective on it, it depends on how you talk about it. Watch your mouth and thoughts about money and also your actions... it is your barometer of becoming rich.

MAKE NOTHING AS YOUR DEFAULT

What is your default? because your default plays a major role in your life. Your default can harm you or help you. Some people.. if they are trying something, if they are pursuing a goal... their default is always perfection, they expect perfection, they are waiting for instant success. That is why if things didn't turn out they way they expect it... they feel really bad, they will quit so fast and they will make excuses.

There is nothing wrong in giving your best and hoping for the best but if you are expecting too much and always dreaming of a perfect life then you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. Keep in mind that when you come into this world, the first time you breathe the air of earth... you don't have anything in your hands, you are not holding anything, you don't own anything. And in the end, that is the same thing that will happen... you will leave this world holding nothing so what is it to get mad about if you don't get what you want?

Your default is not success, you should realize that, you came from nothing. Success is just a bonus, getting what you want is just a bonus and an extra part of your life... it is not your life. So don't ever think that your life should be perfect, don't aim for a perfect record because when it's all said and done, when your not in this world anymore... people will still forget you. Even if you're the richest man or the most successful man, people will still forget you. There is no such thing as legacy, it is just an illusion. And even if that's real, are you still going to see your legacy when you die? nothing will remain, people might talk about your life for seconds but in reality... you don't exist anymore.

So always make nothing as your default, if you try and didn't succeed.. it is nothing, if someone is succeeding and you're not.. it is nothing. You will feel good if you will remember that you have nothing in this world, you don't own anything. You are just here to experience life and if you will use your precious time looking for the things that you don't have... you are just wasting your life.

You can be happy anytime you want, you don't need to look for the things that you don't have. You don't need to feel bad if you're not succeeding, you are here to experience life and experiencing life means just living and embracing all the things that are happening around you. Just give your best and if nothing works then try again, it is nothing, it is not your responsibility to become successful. Because the truth is... if you're happy and using all of your skills and gifts then you're already successful. Define your own success, make it simple, if you want to push then push but if you fail... just laugh at it. Forget about what other people are trying to say. Remember that you define your own success and nothing can manipulate it.

IT'S YOUR EGO THAT IS FEEDING YOU THE WRONG INFORMATION

You think that you need to become better than everyone, you think that you need to have this or have that to become happy. Happiness is simplicity, the more simpler you are the more it will become easy for you to become happy.

Even you only have small amount of money, you still have more because your default is nothing. So you still should be happy and not become needy, you should still appreciate that you have something in your pocket. But if you have debts then that is the time that you should be ashamed of yourself. Remember that zero is your default and anything lesser than zero is unacceptable. You don't have debts when you come into this world so you should leave this world without debts also.

There will be lesser pressure on your side if you will always think that you really have nothing and every gain should be appreciated. Feel happy if you achieve a little success because you are really not successful before. You are nothing before. It is only a win win situation for you if you try because you are giving yourself a chance to have something else. You can never lose because you have nothing before, you're not a winner before, always remember that.

But it doesn't mean that you can afford to become lazy and do nothing with your life. Of course you still need to work hard and be the best that you can be so you will be able to experience life even more. The point here is... try to achieve perfection but don't feel bad if everything is not perfect, don't cry like a bitch if you can't have what you want because you already have a lot in your life. All you need to do is appreciate it. You just think that you have less because you're always looking for people that have what you don't have, you're a jealous son of a bitch that is why you can't be happy with your own life.

LIFE IS VERY EASY IF YOU WILL NOT PRESSURE YOURSELF TO BECOME NUMBER ONE.

You don't need to compare yourself with others, if you think you're the greatest and you're really working hard then you are the greatest. No need to prove this narrative to others, no need to tell them that you are the greatest. Just be yourself, never compete because it's just a waste of energy and time, you only need to compete with yourself. Always see to it if you're not doing better than yesterday. It is already given that you should match your work from the past because you already did it, working lesser than your true capabilities is not acceptable, it's laziness, it's not living your life to the fullest. Because you can always do better than what you did from the past. You can always improve and achieve a little bit better.

JUST SIMPLY LOVE LIFE AND YOU WILL BECOME HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL.

A lot of people were so frustrated because they can't love their life, they were complaining a lot, they are always looking for what is missing in their lives. Nothing is missing in your life if you will appreciate and accept your life. Just be yourself, be honest, sincere and true. Be happy with what you have because not all people can have it. Some people have lesser than you but they manage to become happier than you. Why is that? even if you feel proud because you have more than what they have, you're still a loser because they're happier than you. The key here is to love life, embrace anything that is happening with your life, don't think too much, just move and enjoy living everyday. Who can love his life more is more successful, he is more happier and satisfied, he feels that he is fulfilled and nothing is missing in his life. And that is why it is easier for him to become successful and do extraordinary things. Loving your life will open opportunities for you, it will welcome the blessings, you will feel good everyday, you will feel motivated, secured and blessed.

Even if you're on a bad position right now... still love life because you only have one life, don't waste it like everyone else who is focusing their time and energy for dramas and shits. It is too easy to live, just always give your best, endure the hardships, enjoy the process and never become needy... ever. Being needy is like poisoning yourself, you're looking for attention, appreciation and rewards that you don't deserve. You are wishing for something that will never be yours.

Just live naturally, always remember that you have nothing, you have zero properties and you are very lucky because you have clothes, a house or apartment, small amount of money, etc. And even if you don't have those things... you are still lucky because you are living, some people can't live anymore, some people were already gone and completely forgotten.

You're so lucky, you just don't see it because you're full of jealousy, hatred and neediness. You're full of dramas and shits. Life is hard, it really is but you can always make it easier with your perspective in life. If you will only think that everything will become alright, if you will just think that all you can get is experience then life will become easier for you. You will never lose in life, even if you lose in a game or you didn't get your goal... you're still a winner because you try and you experience a lot of things. Winning and losing doesn't exist, it is only another experience in life, you will see this when you get old, when everything has no meaning to you anymore. Look at the old people who were about to die... they don't care anymore, all they want is to become happy for the last second of their life. They don't care about things, achievements etc. All they want is their family and a little love.

That is what most people forget these days, they think that they can live forever. They think that they all have the time to become mad at something, they think that it is ok to waste a day not feeling good. They waste most of their time thinking about their problems. They think they are going to live forever.

JUST ENJOY WHAT IS GOING ON IF YOU CAN'T DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

You can enjoy everything in your life, even if your neighbor is playing loud music... you can still enjoy it by listening to it. It sounds weird but the truth is it is possible. You cannot control everything in your life but you can control how you think and feel. Don't focus on what you can't control because that will only make you feel bad and weak. That will feed your ego, you will try to prove yourself to others which is not needed.

Good or bad, it is still part of your life so don't feel bad about it. Just be appreciative of what is going on because you are so lucky because you can still experience it. You are still living and there are lot of good things that may still happen. It is always a win win situation for you because you are always ready to experience another different experience.

Don't be too picky, don't be too choosy, just accept what is presented and try to appreciate it. If you can't appreciate it then just try to make it better, try to improve it, don't curse it because it is what it is. You can only do something, sometimes you don't have a choice in what will come into your life.

PEOPLE HAVE HIGH STANDARDS BUT THEY ARE NOT WILLING TO WORK FOR IT.

If you have high standards then you should be willing to pay the price. Don't look for something that is not paralleled to the equivalent of your work.If you work lazy today then don't expect huge amount of success. You only have the right to expect something big if you really work hard and beat your own ass. But if you are too lazy then it's fine but always remember that you will only get what you deserve. But always keep in mind that you don't own anything so whether you work hard or not... the default is still nothing. If you can get less... be happy about it, if you will get more... then be happy too. You will only gain regardless if you work hard or not because just like what I said... the default is nothing. You will never keep something forever, everything will be gone in just a matter of time so don't pressure yourself too much, don't look for perfection but at least try to become the best version of yourself.

STAY AGGRESSIVE

If you can stay aggressive your whole life then you will live a totally different life. Success has no time for people who are shy and cannot make decisions right away. You need to stay aggressive but of course aggressive in the right way, not something who is like a raging bull that is out of control.

Staying aggressive will make you stand out. Just like someone who is trying out for a spot in a particular basketball team, a coach will be impressed with someone who is more aggressive than someone who is not.

Just use all of your energy while doing something, give your best every second. It is not hard to do, all you have to do is become bold and use all of your strength. Never rest until you get what you want.

Just like courting a girl... you need to stay aggressive because if not... the girl will get cold, the momentum will die and the girl will be turned off at you. She will ignore you because she will think that you're not serious, she will even think that you're a gay. So stay aggressive and release all of your pick up lines, even if you feel shy and uncomfortable... you need to let her feel that you want her and you're willing to take her home. Stay aggressive but still act like a gentleman, remember that even though you're aggressive... you still need to act with class.

Staying aggressive will produce results, it is far way better than just waiting and wishing for something to happen. You need to show them that you want it, you need to keep making motions that will put you on a better position.

The more you become aggressive, the more you will become lucky. You will get different opportunities, people will feel you, people will see you. They will give you a chance and they will appreciate your tremendous usage of energy.

You can give people different emotions by simply being aggressive. Your opponents might get scared of you, your clients will become very happy because you can finish tasks faster than expected.

HOW TO BECOME AGGRESSIVE EVEN IF IT'S NOT YOUR PERSONALITY?

1. Don't think. Don't think about how are you gong to do it, just be spontaneous, keep moving and keep pushing forward. Execute actions that you know will produce results. Just do it and never stop until you become successful. Thinking is a mortal sin if you want to make results, it will only slow you down, it will make you worried and make mistakes. If you will not think and just do it then you will go further than expected. Don't think and just keep enjoying taking actions, making a move is more better than just planning to become perfect, planning will never get you to anywhere, it is just giving you an idea but it's nothing more than that. The truth is... you can think while you're taking actions but you can't take actions if you're just thinking and worrying about every single detail that is not even important.

2. Think about your failures by being passive. Look at yourself in the past, what did you get by staying passive? what did you get by not going directly to your dreams? did you become a winner by staying quiet and wishing for the opportunity to come into your life? You keep on failing by being conservative and soft, you need to man up, be a wild warrior and go for what you want regardless of the possible outcome.

3. Think about what you want. Always think about what you want, what do you want? your goal right? it can be a girl, a car, a particular amount of money, a house etc. Those are the things that you want. So it's time to stop thinking about what people say, stop thinking about the problems, humiliations, embarrassment and any other things that is not even connected to what you want. You don't want what they are telling to you so why keep focusing on those things? you don't want people who is bringing you down and making you feel bad so why are you still talking to them and thinking about them? just focus on what you want and be aggressive in pursuing it.

4. Destroy your identity. You're not even popular so why are you so afraid of failing?  you're not even a millionaire, a celebrity or a person with a big name so why are you afraid of trying? destroy your identity so you will become aggressive, forget about your name being tarnished because you really don't have a name. Just be yourself and give your best, go for what you want, be near with it and do everything you can to get it... period.

5. Accept that rejection is part of your life. If you got rejected by someone then just laugh at it and stay aggressive. It's ok to get rejected, it will not even harm you, it can hurt you emotionally but once you are through with that emotion... you become a better person, you are stronger than yesterday. Don't be afraid of getting rejected because it is nothing, it doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean that you're weak, ugly or unksilled. It happens to anyone, just have fun with it and don't forget to learn the lesson.

6. Program your mind that the harder it gets the more you become aggressive. Fight force with force, if the situation gets harder then that is the time that you must work harder. Never give up, you have to push no matter what, if you have to die getting your dreams so be it. Because you will never die, you will get it when you're about to die, your goal will give up on you once it sees that you have no intention of giving up. 

7. Be alone if needed.  Sometimes you have to do it on your own because no one is willing to help you. If you need to do it on your own then do it, people are so hesitant, they are so scared as fuck that is why they can't achieve anything. Do it even if success is not guaranteed. You don't need help if you really want to do something, all you have to do is move your feet and hands and use your brain a little bit. This is a journey homie, if you will rely on other people's help then that will stop your aggressiveness. A lot of people were so afraid to do it on their own because they were so afraid to get criticized when they fail. But you are different, you are willing to leave it all on the line just to get what you want. Don't be afraid to go alone because most people that are alone are the ones who become successful in life.

8. Accept that you might fail. If you can openly accept that you might fail without having any regrets then you will become more aggressive, you have nothing to lose because failure is your default, all that is waiting for you is victory. If you fail..so what, if you win then good for you. Accepting that you might fail will lessen the pressure on you. Don't be a sore loser, accept failure so that it will be easier for you to win. Failing is just another day in your life, people are so scared to fail because they think that failing means being a failure, failing only means you are brave and you are not scared of the emotions that failing might give you. If you get embarrassed so be it, accept it and try to move on as fast as you can.

9. Just fall in love with the idea of trying. If you will think that simply trying will make you a winner then you will become aggressive even more. You will feel free and loose, you will think that the more you try the more you become a winner. Just fall in love with the idea of trying, there is no harm in trying, all it can give you is chances. You will have a very big chance of bringing it all home if you try. People were so afraid to try because they think that it's not free, trying is free and you can try as many as you can.. that is the beauty of it.

10. Celebrate little success. Even if the success is so little, celebrate it. If it gives you happiness then it is already a success, don't be shy if you are just getting little success every now and then. Be proud of it, celebrate it and multiply it as many as you can. Little success will give you motivation, it will make you more aggressive, so record all of your little successes and celebrate all of them.

11. Have a little pride. Use your ego, are you just going to live your life not getting what you want? are you just going to let them win and you are losing? have pride, you can do better than what you're doing now. You can push a little harder, you can work a little longer, you can achieve more results. Have pride in your work and let people know that you can do better and produce better. 

In this mean world, you need to move faster and decide bolder. Always stay aggressive so that you will be able to give yourself a better chance of winning. Never wait because that is only a waste of time. Forget about the people who were telling you that you are not good enough so stop trying hard and stay on your lane. Some people were just jealous of you, they can't do what you can't do so they will try to make you feel bad.

There is nothing wrong in being aggressive and assertive, it is your life, you can decide what type of pace to follow, you can be yourself anytime you want and dictate the momentum of your journey. If you're not aggressive in following your dreams then you should think again. Time is running out, you think you have a lot of chance and you can do it better next time? you are only fooling yourself, the right time is now. The right time to tell a girl that you love her is now, the right time to make a bold move for your career is now, the right time to shut down a bully is now, the right time to end a bad friendship is now. No one can stop you if you will not stop yourself.

You need to make a bold move now or else you will end up getting the things that you don't like. If being aggressive is the only choice you have then take it. Even if you're only a shy type of person before.. change your identity and make a bold statement of what you want. If you can't do it... then quit and start pursuing something else that is more comfortable.

Accept that what you want is hard to get, it is uncomfortable, you need to fight for it to get it. You need to take matters into your own hands and make things happen. If you will act like a gentle baby then nothing will happen to you. Sometimes you need to get mean and nasty, sometimes you need to become super aggressive and offend people, it is what it is, this generation now is full of mean and bad people, if you will stay kind and gentle then you will never get what you want. Somebody will steal your dreams and you will just cry somewhere in the corner blaming other people, blaming that the world is unfair and it owes you something.

You don't need a special treatment, you need to treat yourself right, think right and grant yourself the things and opportunities that you think you deserve.

WHAT IS DONE IS DONE

No matter how hard you cry, no matter how you promise to become a better person if you can bring back the past... you cannot bring it back anymore. What is done is done, what happens from the past stays with the past. You cannot change it anymore, you cannot do something about it even if you cry so hard or pray so hard. You cannot manipulate past, all you can do is change your present and prepare for the future.

You can hate your past, you can remember your ugly past but how does that help you? are you going to progress by doing that? all you can do is have peace with your past and bury it forever. Be happy even if your past is ugly because it's all you can do.

You are still alive, you can still experience a lot of nice things. There is no need to dwell on the past because real life is happening now. There is no life in the past, it is all just memories and thoughts. You are only making your life difficult by remembering past and giving it some life. Kill your past and never try to remember it anymore. If it is still playing on your mind then just think of some other thoughts that are happier. Overwrite the ugly memories with good memories. Create happy moments now and get rid of your past forever.

What is done is done, if you made a lot of mistakes yesterday then you can do a lot of great things today. 

HAVE NO REGRETS. Regrets will only make you slow, it will only make you stuck in the past. Just forget everything if you want to start again. Starting is very easy, all you need to do is look for a direction and relentlessly go for it. Never change your chosen direction anymore, live for it and die for it. Regrets is for the weak, it is for people who thinks that they can't change their life anymore. What is done is done, just accept that you made a mistake, accept that you'e been bad in the past and try to change your situation now.

No matter what your age is... even if you're too old, all you can do is be happy with your life now and try to make your life a little bit better and better each day. Even the young ones too, you still have a lot of time left in your life. There are more good things that will happen so never get too hard on yourself and forget all the bad memories from the past.

HOW TO FORGET THE PAST QUICKLY?

1. Pursue a goal. It doesn't matter what kind of goal it is, what matters is you pursue it relentlessly. Goals will give you a direction, it will give you a reason to wake up early and start your day with a blast. It can be a small goal or a big goal, it really doesn't matter, you just need to be serious with it and give your all so that you will be entertained and do the right things.

2. Talk to the right people and tell them about your dark past. You need someone to talk to so that you can tell your stories. Telling your past to the right people will make yourself free from it, once you tell your story... forget it and if they have good advises to you... take their advises and move on. Never tell your story repeatedly because you will only look like a moron by doing that. You are also not freeing yourself by doing that, once you tell it once... forget it. Make sure that you will tell your story to someone who will listen to you sincerely and will not make fun of you. It can be your closest friend, mom, wife, father, sibling. If you don't have someone to talk to then find free consultation online, there are lot of it. All you need to do is be courageous to talk about your dark past and let it go once you told it to someone.

3. Make yourself great. Make yourself gorgeous, make yourself rich, learn a skill where you can really be good at. If you can make yourself great then you will love yourself even more and you will be able to forget the past. You will enjoy living and you will understand the real meaning of live. It can be about business, arts or any knowledge that you can share to the public.

4. Don't ever have self pity. Never compare yourself to others, never think that you are weak. Never engage with stupid dramas because you will only get worse by doing that. Always think that you are strong and you can free yourself from traumas and bad memories. Remember that you are still living and anything is possible to your life. If your life is not doing good now... just work hard and stay strong, everything will change in just a matter of time.

5. Just persevere until you finally reach the top. All you have to do is persevere, endure the hardship of life and keep moving forward. Once you set your goal... never stop until you finally reach it. It only looks hard because you're looking at the finish line already, if you will take it one step at a time then you will find out that it's is easy as 1 2 3.

6. Move to a different place if needed. If you were so affected by the people around you... move to another place. Sometimes experiencing a different surrounding will give you a different feeling, you will be able to start fresh and forget the people that is making you feel bad.

7. Just focus on the positive. If you can make it a game to simply focus on the positive then you will really feel different. Your life will change, positive things will happen to you. Even if people are mocking you or not treating you right... if you can focus on the positive then you will have a different world. This kind of approach will make you forget the ugly past quickly. 

8. Build a new self identity. Choose an identity that you wanted to choose and live it everyday. If you were being bullied from the past because you were so passive, be aggressive this time, be assertive. Make them feel that you're a different person and you are not joking around. Be serious, they are making fun of you because they think you are soft. Choose the hard identity this time and make them know who is the real boss. 

9. Have time for yourself. Focus on yourself, make yourself grow everyday. Be alone if needed, understand what you really want and what you really need. Pick the things and people that are contributing to your life and giving you happiness, strike out the things that are making your life miserable. Choose what you really need in life, make your life simple and focused on positivity.

10. Take it one day a time. Don't force things, live your life second by second. Enjoy each moment even if that moment is not fun nor happy. Live your life slowly and progressively. Have the mindset that everything will turn out well in just a matter of time, if you are feeling bad right now... hang on, that emotion will change one day, you will become happier and you will live a better life. Situations are not permanent if you are doing something about it.

11. Join some activities or programs that really attracts you. Don't do something just for the sake of trying to look cool and impressing other people. Don't surf on the ocean if you're just trying to impress chicks because you will not do it for so long, you just wanted it in the beginning. Join activities that makes you passionate, it can be any activity for as long as it is contributing to your growth.

12. Try something new. Try a new process, try a new technique, test a lot of things and find out if it can make you happy for a long term. Try a new relationship, try a new food, reinvent yourself and just try to have fun everyday. 

Your future will only get destroyed if you will keep on thinking about past so what you must do is enjoy the moment and just try to put yourself on a better position. No one has the ability to change his past, it is what it is, if it happened already then simply let it go. Stop being bitter, stop whining, just try to produce the best life that you can ever produce.

Never use pills. Never use anti depression pills or any drugs that you think will help you. It will only help you in the beginning, your pain will subside but your life will become miserable in the end. If you get so dependent on something, you will lose your power. Never trust pills that it will save your life, you are the one who can change your life.

FOCUS ON BUILDING YOUR MENTAL TOUGHNESS. This is achieved through experiencing a lot of negative emotions. Negative emotions that has benefits. Join a marathon, exercise everyday, you should feel the stress and pain so that your willpower will go to a different level. Do the things that scares you the most, embarrass yourself, challenge yourself. Experience a lot of failures so you won't be afraid of it anymore. If you are mentally tough then you will surpass any challenges in life. Being mentally tough will make you forget your past easily. And if anything bad happens to you in the future... it will not affect you big time, you will treat it like an ordinary problem that you can handle.

Mental toughness is a great asset that you can have, if you are mentally tough then you can go further, you can achieve a lot of things, you can become successful. You can laugh at any problems that is giving you bad emotions. You will feel like invincible and extra ordinary. Being mentally tough is what everyone needs in life, not appreciation, not riches, not support... just being mentally tough will make you do better in life.

Look at the celebrities who take away their life, look at the rich people who become crazy... why did those tragic things happened to them? it is because they are not mentally tough, they were so soft and fragile. They can't handle any negative emotions. Their emotional immune system is very weak, all they want is to be happy and when they can't have those good emotions... they become depressed, they were acting like shits and becoming needy. They want attention from other people, they want sympathy and approval. They don't know that the secret in life is simply growth and endurance. If you know that you can grow from pain then you will no longer be afraid of it. Just endure it because it will go away in just a matter of time. It is not the one who is the happiest and richest that will survive, it is the one who is ok feeling the pain and understanding the benefit of it.

Life is a process, you need to make your life better each day or else you will lose your balance. You will get jealous with other people's life and you will become a needy person. Someone who is needy of help, appreciation and sympathy. You need to do it on your own, become better on your own, become stronger on your own. Embrace every kind of stress because it is a blessing, it will make you a hard person, it will make you mentally tough and capable of adapting to any kind of situation. What is done is done, have no regrets, don't complain, don't make dramas, don't make excuses... just live your life and focus on self improvement.

FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOUR WORK

You need to feel good about your work even if you're feeling bad. That is the best way to become successful. Any kind of work is enjoyable if your attitude towards it is positive. People can't become successful because not only they don't love their work but they also don't want to love it. You can love any kind of work if you will work hard to learn how to do it. It is simply conditioning your mind and appreciating that you can still move and do something about your life.

You really need to feel good about it because if not... you will only quit in the middle of your journey. You will look for another work and you will feel the same way, you will only get excited in the beginning but you will become bored as the time goes by.

You can find a thought how to feel good about your work. My style is simply having the mindset that I love my work and it makes my life better every time I do it. It makes the task easier, even if I don't like what is happening... every time I remind myself that I love my work then my emotions follow. My emotions is following my brain, i am feeling good little by little.

Because if you will not feel good about your work then you will not be able to finish it fast, the process will become full of stress. You are only making things even more difficult. You will get frustrated, your timing will be off and you will only make a lot of mistakes.

Even if your work is so difficult... just do it, make it a game, have fun while doing it. Be appreciative that you can still do a lot of things.

Even if you're just a garbage collector... you can still have fun doing it. You have no choice not to have fun with your work because if you will not do it then your career will be in big trouble. You will get bored, you will look for some other things to do. And that cycle will repeat over and over again because your perspective about work is not changing.

Treat your work like a blessing, treat it like your bread and butter and you will never get bored with it anymore. Treat it like the most precious thing that happened to your life.