Oct 9, 2017

YOU DON'T NEED A MOTIVATION ANYMORE


Motivation is very overrated, you think that you always need it in order to move, take actions and achieve something, You think that you need it everyday and without it you will not be able to push further and finish the tasks that is in front of you. That is what you think because you count on it too much.

You don't need a motivation if you're disciplined. Discipline is more powerful than motivation. Even if you feel bad, you will still take actions. Improve your discipline and motivation will come naturally.

You're always looking for a motivation but did it really come? if yes, did it stay for a long time? Motivation will only stay with you for seconds it is not there to stay for hours, it will just make you feel good for a very short time and then you will feel lazy again.

Motivation is playing you, it is making you believe that it will change your life but the truth is it will not. It is only making you feel good for a very short time then you will feel bad again afterwards.

Don't believe in motivation because it will never work, it will not save your ass that is in danger. Start to discipline yourself now and do everything you can to change your life. It's all in your hands, it's all in your power. Once you decide that you're going to do it then do it, as simple as that. Don't let your thoughts dominate you and tell you what to do. Your thoughts will fool you, it will build excuses for you to avoid taking action.

It's all about starting it and never stopping it. If you can master discipline then you're already a winner.

You can have all the talents, all the gifts and support but if you are lazy and not willing to follow through then you will never make it. You will taste a little success in the beginning and that's it, nothing spectacular or amazing.

If I were you I will start now and endure the work until you finish. The good feelings will never come, it is elusive, it is an illusion. You will always feel bad before starting. Even the champion fighters feel bad before fighting. They were nervous, they have butterflies on their stomach, they were scared and has no idea what will happen next. But they start, they do their best regardless of the outcome.

And even if you are motivated are you sure that you are going to take actions? Some people who are motivated cannot even get started. They were so excited, they will make plans, they will tell other people what are they going to do but when the time for taking actions is needed... they will make a lot of shitty excuses, they are fooling themselves.

So stop motivating yourself, stop looking for a motivational coach... just do it. If you are working hard then that is the time when more motivation will come, you will never think about quitting because you've already done a lot of things. There is no more turning back now.

HOW TO BEGIN SOMETHING AND FINISH STRONG?

1. Just start and forget about what will happen next. Throw yourself out there and forget about being perfect. Just do something, free yourself from overthinking. Move your body and just make something happen. It is easy to make a baby step if you will focus on the baby step itself. Focus on the process and not on the success. Just think that simply moving is already winning, never feel bad if results were not showing yet.

2. Promise yourself that you will just give your best. No high expectations, no hyping yourself and trying to impress people. Just give your best and forget about doing it right. Do what you know and stay focused. Giving your best will make you think that you are free, it will make you forget what people will say.

3. Promise yourself that you're going to persevere. No matter how bad you feel you can always finish something, you can always do something better, you can push through no matter what. Forget about your emotions, forget that it is hard. Just persevere and you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. A lot of people were almost there, they can almost become successful but they give up in the end. Remember that if it looks so impossible then it means you're very close to it so keep moving forward and push until the end.

4. Try to look for an inspiration. Look for someone who did it. There are even some people who are less talented and skilled than you but they were able to make it. There are even some people with disabilities but are making it in life and succeeding. If they can do it so as you so never make an excuse. You are better than what you think of yourself, you can be anything, you can finish a wonderful thing.

Motivation is overrated, you will rely on it but it will never stay on your system forever. Successful people are the ones who can move despite of feeling bad and having a bad day. Remember that it's just a feeling, you can still take actions even if you are sick or you feel bad. You are unstoppable if you will not stop yourself. There is no reason why you can't move, you have a complete body, your brain is functioning, you can read and write, it just happens that you're acting like a baby who needs to be pampered. You're not a diva, you don't need a special treatment before you move, force yourself to take actions and never stop until you're completely done.

Focus on action instead of motivation, stay discipline and never cut your work. Once you start something... stay with it until it's done. Even if you are slow, even if it looks like you're not progressing... do something. 

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