Most people will feel bad, feel depressed and worthless after failing, their confidence immediately goes down. They attached their confidence to winning and making the right decisions, they don't want to make mistakes, they don't want to look imperfect and flawed. This is a very strong skill that you need to master to make yourself a tryer that never stops so that you will win in the end. You should feel successful after trying, that is the trick to success, that is the trick to have an everlasting perseverance. Failure is nothing, what makes it valuable is because you are giving it power. You will never become a failure if you feel nothing about it, if you don't attached it to who you are, so stop being afraid of it because it's part of life, it's part of the game, real winners are the ones who are just playing and not caring if they're going to win or lose. Never care about who is winning or losing, never care if your enemy is winning, never care if the person you hate is mocking you because you are losing, at the end of the day the real winners are the ones who are just playing and not attached with the result because they are happy playing the game and they can express themselves freely. If you are not attached with the results or what will people say then you are the real winner because you will never feel bad, there is a high percentage that you will win too because you are so free and expressive, you will become creative and unstoppable, you will try again and again and not feel about anything that may happen. Freedom is much better than victory, in control of your feelings is much better than recognition. Because not all the time you will win, you will become chained with the results and feel depressed about it if you can't win. Just keep failing and keep trying and you will see that this life is nothing but a game, you can't lose here if you are enjoying the game. Most people are attached with the awards, medals, money that is why they need to prove and defend themselves all the time and that is a sad way to live life. You don't need to protect your identity, image or even prove yourself to everyone. If you know who you are, if you already gave your best then there is nothing else to worry
about. You don't need to think if they like you or not, you don't need to be scared of what people say because they are nothing and they are not even attached to your life, they are just commentators, critics and naysayers. You have to stop being involve in a discussion that you are something because that is just a waste of time and energy, only fools need to validate themselves. Just do what you need to do, play the game and enjoy every step of the way. There is nothing to lose and everything is possible if you don't need to win or look good infront of people.
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