Stop aiming for perfection and good feelings, if you keep on looking for comfort and shortcut then you will never start. The reason why people can't start is because they don't want to feel uncomfortable, they are always thinking about the results, they are always thinking about finishing it fast without a sweat that is why their minds are protecting them and stopping them form making the first move. If you want to become a fast starter.... just do it and never look for results, just do it and give everything you've got no matter what. The only person who can change you is you, nobody will do it for you, if you want change you must demand more from yourself. Don't feel bad if something went wrong, don't feel sorry for your mistakes, your mind can adjust to any situation, it can adapt, all you need to do is just be yourself and keep taking actions no matter what. Just move and never stop until you're done, perfection is for losers, it's for people who couldn't even get started because they thought that they need to get it done perfectly right away, they can't start because they feel entitled of being the best without exerting any effort. Thinking too much will never propel you to any sort of progress. You have to become a doer and then adjust later if you can, adapt to the situation and keep doing your thing no matter what. Remind yourself that everything is just a feeling. You wanted to win and become successful because of the feeling that it will give to you, you think you're going to become happy and satisfied. You don't want to lose not because it's bad but because of the negative feelings that you will feel, you feel so bad when people mock you, you feel so terrible when people blame you because you take risks, you like a loser when someone is better than you. The truth is... it's just a feeling, it's not even close to reality. If you can feel good despite of losing then you're already a winner, if you can still feel proud despite of missing a shot then you're still a winner. If you can still fight despite of being down or people are doubting you then you're a warrior. Feelings doesn't matter at all, it comes and it goes, success is just an illusion the same as defeat. If you can remove the external things and not base your success to awards, money or praises then you're already a winner because you have nothing to lose and a man who has nothing to lose has nothing to be scared of. You can do anything you want, you can become anything you want, nothing can stop you because you can always move forward and try no matter what. No external validation can ever change your vision, no problems can ever make you quit. If you want to become a fast starter... forget about your feelings just keep moving forward and eventually you will feel much better later. Never care about how you feel because it is the only thing that is stopping you, not the people around you, not the imaginary problems that you create in your mind.
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