HOW IDENTITY CHANGE WAS CREATED

If you want an identity change you need to train yourself to experience discomfort one second at a time and never look back to doing your old and weak habits again. What changes a man is not opportunity, luck, help or fate. What changes a man is his ability to embrace the boredom and stress of creating a new identity that will match his goals and ambitions in life. The question is... are you becoming the man to get what you want? is your actions matches your aspirations? Are you for real? or are you just a fraud like everyone else that keeps on talking about how good you are and how hard you work but deep inside you're just faking and just trying to impress people? it is on you, if you want to become a writer you need to write everyday, write as much as you can. If you want to become the star player of your team you need to become the hardest worker and the most risk taker, if you want to become a mathematician you need to study math, if you want to become the best version of yourself you need to drop everything that weakness your mentality and that is laziness, junkfood, vices and being arrogant. Most people are arrogant thinking that they know everything and has done everything to become the best but the truth is number don't lie, they only did a few hours of work and called themselves great already. Don't stop when there are no results, don't stop when it is hard, don't stop when everyone is calling you crazy... stop when you're already done. That's it. You don't know who strong you are until being strong is the only option you have left. Until you're the only one you can rely on, people will doubt you, people will never give you any chance to prove yourself but that's useless, the point here is you need to prove yourself to yourself only, you will only love yourself if you can take matters into your own hands and do it your way. Stop thinking about what people say, stop feeling sorry if they can't match your pace, stop thinking that their opinions matters and only do what you think is right for yourself, that's it. There is no need to impress them, there s no need to match their vision and beliefs. You have your own and that is enough. You can live without them, all you need to do is dedicate yourself to what matters the most and that is your family and your goals. You only need to focus on the most important things and people in your life. Stop giving them energy, stop giving them attention and just focus on trying to build a new identity that you truly desire. You will only love yourself if you will build yourself and stop relying on people to make you feel worthy. You don't need them, you don't need their opinions, you just need yourself and the identity that you're trying to create. This is a second by second process, you need to watch everything you say, do and think and ask yourself... does it match the identity that you're trying to build? 

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