A change of feeling is a change of direction. Don't focus on the results because it is making you depressed, weak and slow. If you are focused on the process you will feel much better and confident, you will feel alive, you will feel good about yourself because you knew you are giving your all. Giving your all will give you strong confidence, it's the best feeling in the world because you are using all of your strength, you will feel powerful and sure rather than exerting a mediocre and weak effort because you're too worried on winning and all of your energy and time goes on worrying. If you believe, if you really trust yourself then you will never doubt the process, you will go all the way and push as hard as you can no matter what. You get better and better every time you push, you have nothing to lose here you have everything to gain so own the process, do whatever it takes to get to the next level and never stop taking actions every time you fail. This is a lifestyle already, this is a culture, stop comparing yourself to other people who are winning and focus on yourself. Let them win, let them live their stupid lives, they will lose power over you if you're not watching them. Watch yourself, watch your own journey, this is hard to do because you are too distracted but you can still change, you can still discipline yourself. Most people were unhappy because they're watching other people's lives, they can't watch themselves grow because they're too lazy to work, they don't believe in themselves anymore because they're too addicted watching other people's lives. This is stupid, this is the highest form of stupidity because it will never make them grow, it will never teach them anything, it will only make them envy and bitter. If you want to feel happier, stronger, faster and younger... watch yourself, take care of yourself and make yourself better by working hard and learning something. Practice, develop a new skill, never compare yourself to others because by doing so will only make you weak and slow. If you want to progress fast then focus on you, this is not about being a narcissist because narcissist doesn't work hard, they feel like a winner and special but they're too lazy and feeling entitled. You have the right to dream big if you're working really hard and taking the process seriously. So stop checking fore results, stop checking other people's work and focus on your own project. The best project is taking yourself seriously and being the best version of yourself.
HOW TO EJECT FEAR
Feel it and take actions anyway, you will only feel good if you are moving because your mind will keep on overthinking if you keep on checking everything, stop trying to control everything and focus on taking actions... that's the best way to immobilize fear in your system. Accept that it is normal, you will get scared every now and then but don't ever let fear stop you. It's all in the mind, stay calm and never think, focus on giving your best and doing whatever it takes to win.
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