The reason why you're always stuck and depressed is because you're always trying to know what they think. You care too much, you want to know what they think and feel. You are wasting your energy and time trying to know what they think, they have their own minds, you can never control it, the only thing you can control is your thoughts, think the right way, use your mind the right way to gain some advantage in life. Stay in the present moment, thinking about what they're thinking is only making you weak, it's thinking about the future because you are worrying, you are losing your strength every time you worry, worrying is for losers, why worry if you can be happy. Choose to be happy, choose to be positive, choose to get stronger each day by fortifying your mind and protecting it from harmful thoughts and wrong way of thinking, the best way to think is to think for yourself, think about what you're thinking, is it making you better or worse? Stop trying to know what they think because you can never control them ever, you can never force them to like you, you can never force them to stop thinking wrong about you. Focus on yourself and you will become happier and stronger, you will only get weaker every time you think about other people. What they think of you is none of your business, you can never control nor stop them, all you can do is move forward because that is the best choice, that's the best thing to do.
ENJOY MOVING ENJOY MAKING A SMALL PROGRESS
The power of small actions is real, if it is towards your goal you will feel much better and stronger. Small progress is still a progress, whenever you are moving you're already making a progress even if you can't see it yet. Just like in lifting a weights, you're already making our muscles bigger even if you can't see it yet, just keep doing it everyday and you will see results in just a matter of time. Be patient and never rush, this is not a race, this is a marathon, stay consistent and you will win, you don't need a special formula here, you just need to force yourself to do it even if you don't like it.
THE BIGGEST LESSON AFTER AN EMBARRASSMENT
The biggest lesson after an embarrassment, after failing to please people or after failing in front of other people is not caring about what people say, it's learning to accept yourself despite of what the result maybe, it's becoming true to yourself no matter what and still giving your best, it's trying again and showing up. At the end of the day the most important thing is to become free and feel free, you will never achieve freedom if your actions were always based on what people say.
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