Getting better in forgiving people, getting better in letting go of the past, getting better with your mentality, getting better with your habits. Looking for a revenge with the people that you don't like or the people that hurts you in the past will only burn you, you will fail because you're not focusing on yourself instead you are focusing on them. Trying to impress them, trying to let them see that you're a better person now, trying to make them feel good by trying to look more superior is only setting yourself up for another failure. The best revenge is not feeling anything towards them, the best revenge is to simply be happy and get better everyday without being attached to anyone. You hate them right? so why give them any attention, why think about them? they're nothing, consider them not existing, simply ignore your thoughts when you think about them and try to feel nothing about them.
STOP GETTING TOO EXCITED WITH OTHER PEOPLE
You're too excited to see them, make them feel that you're stronger now, make them see that you are something now. You will never succeed in life if your life is all about forcing them to respect you. Have some respect on yourself, the real revenge is not being attached with other people's feelings towards you. The real journey is forgetting everything that hurts you in the past. Because you will never get better if you're still attached with other people's opinions against you. Never care about what they think, never care about what they do, never care if they're weaker than you, never care if they're doing better than you. Just focus on yourself, focus on being mindful of your thoughts and actions. Nothing else matters other than what you're thinking and doing. These people were irrelevant to your journey, they're just part of the process. Stop disrespecting them, stop giving them power and treat them as neutral, treat them as just ordinary people that just play a small role in your journey. The real journey is your mentality, no matter what happens you are alright, no matter what happens... you still choose to get better each day and enjoy the process of evolving and staying positive. Because the truth is you are the one holding yourself back, you are the one who is putting too much pressure on your shoulders by trying to impress other people. The funny thing is... you want to impress more the people that you hate, you want to show them that you're something and that's why you keep on failing in life.
The real journey is being free and not being too concerned with what other people think of you. It's being creative and expressing yourself no matter who is watching you. The real revenge is not letting anybody make you feel something, it's realizing that they're not in charge of your happiness or sadness. The real revenge is knowing that no matter what happens... you're still in control of how you feel and how you think. You can judge any failure or success according to your values, you are free to think the way you wanted to think and not letting anybody affect your mentality. Focus on trying to discipline yourself and giving only to things and activities that makes you better. Stop hating, stop trying to look superior, stop trying to make them feel that you're stronger now. If they don't want to respect you they will never respect you, it will never change no matter how successful you are right now. Stop trying to change the perception of people towards you by being arrogant, it's just a waste of time and energy.
IF YOU'RE REALLY GOOD
If you're really good then you don't need to convince people that you are good, you don't need to force them to look at you and praise you, you don't need to care about what other people think. The truth is you're trying to impress them, you want to look better than them that's why you want to have a revenge. This will back fire at you in the end, you will fail and will feel bad if you see that they're still not giving you any respect. If someone hurts you in the past emotionally... let it go, the one who wants to make a revenge is the one who gets burn. It's just a waste of time, you will never get happier even if you hurt them emotionally, it will never make you better, it will only make your life worse.
USE ALL OF YOUR SKILLS
If you want to feel better, focus on not making a revenge.... use all of your skills to win in life. Make it a game to go all in every single day, what you can show, what you can express, what you can use... use all of it and never hold back. Use your life for a better purpose, stop trying to enforce strength, stop trying to convince people that they can never touch you now. You need to be focusing on trying to improve more and focus on real purpose. Stop trying to look right all the time and let everything flow, use all of your time and energy for the people that really loves you and like you. Stop giving any time for anyone that will never like you even if you show them kindness. The people that you hate... ignore them and never give them any single second.. that's the best way to make a revenge.
Use all of your skills for a better cause, use it for something bigger than revenge. Use it to experience better things in life, making a revenge is the act of low people, you're better than that. Just let everything that hurts you in the past, make peace with it and never think about it anymore, don't speak about it, don't revive it and stop making dramas about it. Just learn to let go and live a happier life.
YOUR ENERGY WILL RUN OUT
Your energy will get depleted every time you think about the past or every time you think about the people you hate. Stop having that kind of approach in life, focus on the positive, focus on appreciating, focus on seeing the good things in people and stop focusing on what you don't like about them. Stop secretly hating people and start giving more love, give more appreciation, it's the harder thing to do but it will give you more energy and strength. So if you're stressed, feeling weak, always slow and feeling heavy then it means you're not loving your life, it means you're hating something, you need to check your thoughts and start focusing on being passionate and appreciative.
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