If you did something stupid again... forget it right away and forgive yourself, go back to the habits, the right habits that you are trying to build and focus on it. The key to live an easier life is to forgive yourself every now and then and forget the past, you have to stop getting hard on yourself, love yourself by praising yourself and telling yourself that it is ok and that you need to move on right away. Keep moving with your bad habits, just make sure you are doing something positive, do more positive than negative. You need to tell yourself that it's ok to procrastinate a little bit and once you find yourself doing it again, stop it right away and do the more important activity. You have to be aware that you're already getting lazy too much and stop the laziness right away and go back doing what is best for your life. You need to have control, you need to wake up right away and pick the right choices. Because most of the time you're always sleeping, you know that you're sleeping and super lazy but you're not stopping it. Stop the laziness and procrastination by forgiving yourself and telling yourself that it's alright, you're just a human, move one.
NEVER LET OTHER PEOPLE MAKE YOU FEEL SOMETHING
You're so slow, weak and always thinking because you're allowing people to make you feel something. You're letting them dictate your emotions. Never let them affect your mentality, you need to setup your thoughts, you need to have your own philosophy and use it every time you are confused and distracted. You need to be ruthless and cold, you need to feel nothing about everyone, let them disrespect you, let them do their thing but never let them affect you for a second. Never let them make you behave unnaturally, never let them change yourself. Just be yourself all the time and focus on enjoying your life and own style. You will become unstoppable if you will not allow people's opinions about you affect you. You need to be yourself all the time and just follow your own values, follow your own philosophy and never let them coach you or command you about how to do things. It's your life, the more you follow your heart the stronger you become. All people's opinions doesn't matter at all, remind yourself about this if you want to experience real freedom.
THAT'S USELESS
Opening that facebook account, that's useless. thinking about the person you hate, that's useless. Thinking about what people say, that's useless. Procrastinating and worrying about the future and past, that's useless. If you want a better life then you better stay productive and do something that will make your skills, character or mindset better. Just do something that will give you something a little bit, don't do something that will only make your life worse. If you want to become successful you simply need to cut all the BS in your life, if you can't cut it then just move forward and do what is more important, do what will give you an edge. Keep moving with your bad habits but you need to cut the time you use for those bad habits, you need to drag yourself into something that is more meaningful and useful for your life. Cut all the useless things, cut it all now and endure the pain for doing it. You have a lot of stupid stuffs in your life, it's alright but if you can just control yourself and pick the best thing to do then you will go to a different level within just a short period of time. Detect the useless in your life and throw them away forever, if you can be honest with yourself and get rid of everything that's slowly destroying you then you will become something special.
THE SLOW TRANSFORMATION
You need to check yourself all the time and stop yourself if you're about to do or already doing something that is nonsense and will never make you better. Changing your life is a slow transformation, you need to be ok seeing zero progress everyday but still giving your all. It will never happen overnight, you have to make yourself understand that it's going to be a long journey. It's a step by step process, you can never take shortcuts because it's not real, you have to feel the pain of changing, embrace the stress and stick with it no matter what. It's going to be slow, if you want to make it faster then sharpen your focus, focus on your destination and do whatever it takes to get closer and closer from it. Stay calm while changing yourself, don't rush it, stop being impatient. It's ok if you're slow but stay consistent and dedicated, get serious with the process and believe it with all your heart. The cheat code here is to stop looking for results and fall in love with the process, make yourself believe that the process alone is the reward.
MAKE YOUR BODY MOVE AND STOP THINKING
Move now and stop thinking, don't you know that success is just a matter of takin actions, sometimes you don't even need to think about the next step, all you need to do is allow yourself to move and do something positive. Your willpower will find a way, the universe will make a way for you. Stop thinking too much, stop overthinking, stop over analyzing and just do the work. Life will become so much easier if you will just do it. At the end of the day your knowledge is very useless if you didn't move, all of the information stored in your head is nothing if you will not execute. Just move now, do something and never think about the future, focus on the now, focus on the present moment. Stop acting like a punk, stop acting like a clown and just do whatever it takes to get to the next level. Blank your mind, block the negativity, think about nothing and just do what you need to do. Just breathe and relax because the right step will be unfold if you trust yourself.
DRAG YOURSELF IF YOU NEED TO
Don't just stay in one place forever, you know you can improve, don't allow yourself to get stuck for a long time. There is something you can do, you just don't want to do it because you're afraid to fail and you're afraid to get tired. You don't want your efforts to get wasted. You have to drag yourself into taking actions and stop acting like there is an unlimited tomorrow, you have to start now, do your best and never hold yourself back. It's hard, it's heavy but it is what it is, you really need to drag yourself into taking actions if you want a different result.
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