Nov 6, 2022

YOU CAN ONLY GROW FROM PAIN


You will never grow when things are easy, that's the reality, you have to break every resistance, you have to move when you can't move, you have to force yourself to work hard even if you feel lazy. Confidence will only be felt once you do things that are hard and not doable by everyone. You will never become confident if all you do is scroll is social media all day long and inform yourself with the latest stupid Tik Tok dance, you will never grow doing that, it's an activity of a loser. Stop being a clown and do the right thing to have a better life. There's no easy path to greatness, you really have to pay the price, make sacrifices as much as you can and immerse yourself in pain. Meaning you have to work, study, practice and prepare hard. You have to practice delayed gratification in a very deep style, you need to be going all in and focus like a monk. Because you will never grow from comfort, that is the sad reality of greatness. Many people wanted to become great but all they do is play video games all day long and watch stupid influencers from social media. You will never grow by just staying comfortable and watching TV all day long, you will never grow with laziness and procrastination, you will never grow with easy ways. You really have to make yourself uncomfortable, you need to face the stress of change because every time you make sacrifices and stop doing your bad habits... you are changing, it's really hard but you are changing, that is the process of change... it's weird and uncomfortable, you will get bored, you will get tired but the reward is promising. 

THE REAL MEANING OF POWER

You persevere, sacrifice, practice delayed gratification, avoid the nonsense and focus on what you're trying to get no matter what.... that's the real meaning of power. Weak people are doing the easy things, they're so relaxed and comfortable, they're always asking for help and freebies, they're doing all the nonsense activities that has no rewards in the future. Real power is investment, it is belief, believing that all of your hard work and sacrifices will pay off one day. It's doing what most people are afraid o do, it's going to the extreme, it's rising every time you fall. Most people wouldn't even dare to try because they're afraid of failing, some people will try for a few times and will quit once they failed a multiple times. The real meaning power is sticking to something no matter what, it's believing that you will win no matter what if you work hard and push yourself to the limits. 

GET EXCITED WITH YOUR OWN ACTIVITY

Not the activity of others, not the activity of stupid influencers who teaches you stupidity and laziness but your own activity. Own your time, never give it away for free, people should be lucky if they were able to share some time with you. Get excited with your own goal, dream, ideas. Never let anyone distract you for no reason. Enjoy every step, enjoy every struggle, enjoy every grind, enjoy your journey and never compare yourself with others. Never compete, never get jealous with other people's success. Just be yourself and enjoy taking baby steps every single second. It is painful to be alone sometimes, it is really boring to stay focused on your grind but it is the only way to grow, it is the only path to success. There is no successful person that didn't made a huge sacrifice. There is no growth from entertainment, easy times and laziness. You can only discover growth if you will become bored with your life while doing the process. Don't worry because once you get use to it, once something is clicking a little bit... everything will become a lot easier. 

WHAT A REAL GRIND IS

Most people talks about grind, hustle or hard work but they don't know the real meaning of it. They're only good in promoting themselves or trying to look good on social media but they really don't know the meaning of it. It is a culture, it is a 24/7 focus on your dreams and not minding any stupidity around you, it's focus, it's willpower, it's pushing yourself even if you can't see any results in what you do. It's a discipline, you can't be working hard today and will rest tomorrow, you will do it for as long as you are breathing, there's no rest, there's no excuses... you will go all in every single day, you will never negotiate with yourself.... it's a forever commitment. You don't care about parties, you don't care about your stupid dog's birthday, you don't care about who is succeeding, you don't care about the trends... you just care about your grind, you have your own world, you don't mind other people's business. You don't care if they care about you or not, you're locked in and you will never stop until you reach the top. 

CUT ALL THE STUPIDITY IN YOUR LIFE

You're full of shit that's why you can't win in your life, you're full of stupidity and laziness, you wanted to win but your habits is all about losing. You will never succeed if you have a mindset like that, you should be excited with the process, you should be patient but always be quicker than yesterday. Your time is the most important thing in the world. Never use your time for laziness or nonsense activities that will never even help you to grow. There's no way you're gonna lose if you will cut all the stupidity in your life because what makes you slow and useless is your nonsense activities, you're full of crap, you need to get rid out of all of them now if you want to get to another level. Cut all the you tube, tik tok, social media, gossips, partying, drinking etc and your life will become different, as simple as that. Sometimes you don't need to do a lot, sometimes you only need to do less so that your life will become very straightforward to success. But the problem with you is you're too busy knowing what other people do, you're too interested with other people's lives that's why you don't have time for your own life, you don't have time for your own dream, you're giving your time for free and not getting anything in back. It's all about where you invest your time, are you investing it for yourself? or are you investing it for others? 

Remove all the excess, remove all the dumb shit in your life and you will get better. Focus on growing, be patient and believe that you're going to win in just a matter of time. It's on you if you want to become successful or not, it's in your hands, keep pushing yourself everyday and never stop. Every pain is good, every pain is making you grow. 

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