It's very simple, I will never make an intro and stupid flower words.... it's this... DELAYED GREATIFICATION. That's it, if you can master delaying gratification then your life will become amazing. Delay rest, delay eating, delay celebration, delay spending, delay showing off, delay the laziness, delay the impregnating your girlfriend, delay the anger, delay the shopping, delay everything that pleases you and your life will get better, it's the most effective way to fix your life. Because most of the time you're rewarding yourself with rest that you didn't deserve, how many hours did you work? I mean real work. You're rewarding yourself with food even though you're already fat and that's why you're already obese, stop making excuses that it's in your genes that's why you're fat, you will never get fat if you're not eating. Stop rewarding yourself with new things that you don't even need just to show off, that's why you are broke, that's why your credit card is always on the limits and banks are calling you and threatening you. Stop rewarding yourself and family with a stupid birthday party if you're broke and in huge debt, you're only setting yourself up for a miserable life in the future. Stop rewarding yourself with a new shoes or anything that is expensive if you don't have any extra money in your wallet, this kind of mentality will make you borrow money from other people and you will become their slave.
STOP TRYING TO LOOK RICH, FLASHY AND GREAT
Every time you try to impress people you look fake even more, you're not impressing them... you're showing them how fake you are. If a person likes you you don't need to impress here anymore, your energies will co exist and will mix well. If a person hates you he will hate you no matter how rich you look. There's no need to impress people, it can be seen through your actions and how you carry yourself. Most people will try to look rich, speak rich all the time, they don't know that it's not helping them, it's only making them weak because they cannot be themselves, if you cannot be yourself then how can you become strong? your real power is within you. You don't need their opinions of you, you just need to be yourself and give your best every single day, that is enough. The only person you need to please is yourself. You don't need to become popular, you don't people to like you, you just need to accept yourself and be yourself all the time, some people will like you or more people will like you if you are true to yourself and not hiding anything.
WORK HARD AND SAVE MONEY
Work hard, do any kind of work that will give you money and save or invest. It's so much better if you have a savings because it will give you a leverage and different options, you will have the power to make bigger decisions and take more risks if you have money, in other words... you are in complete control. Saving money will give you a good direction, at least your life will be much better. Unlike someone who is broke... he is powerless and always worrying about the future, if you have extra money you will become more confident. You can resign in a job that you don't like, you can walk away from a negotiation that doesn't give you more, you can have a lot of options, you can control a higher percentage of your daily life. It's a simple hack to fix your life. Most people who doesn't have a good life were broke and drowning in huge debt so if you can just learn how to invest and save money then you will have a much better life. It's really that simple, if you want to change your life then learn how to take care of your money, it's better to be keeping it rather than spending it. If you really love money then why will you throw it away for nothing? you need to learn how to multiply it.
THE REAL JOB IS YOURSELF
The real job is not your job that gives you money, it's yourself. You make yourself better everyday, you need to find a way how to improve a little bit. It's not about getting your job done, it's about you looking for small edges that you can use to put yourself on a better position in the future. It's about you studying yourself, it's about you pushing yourself to the limits and forcing the changes. Trust me, you will never change if you're not guarding yourself, you need to watch your actions and thoughts all the time and eliminate the bad thought patterns and bad habits that is making you slow and negative. Understand that the journey is about you, it's not about the people around you... it's about being mindful and making the right and best decisions all the time. It's about stopping yourself from being negative, it's about choosing the best thoughts and actions that will make your life a little bit better and happier. If you're not happy then it means you're not taking care of yourself, give yourself more time, watch your thoughts and actions all the time and your life will change fast. You need to stop all the BS, stop all the nonsense, there is no shortcuts to change but you can change faster than expected if you will only practice delaying gratification. Watching yourself is hard, it's a lot of work and discipline but trust me... it's really worth it.
SO starting today be the change that you want to see from others, start changing yourself. Stop focusing on them and start focusing on your own life, remember that the real job is making yourself better. Change your mind, change your attitude, build a new character that will make you happier and more fulfilled.
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