Creating a new life is hard but too simple, all you have to do is stay consistent and stay away from your bad habits. It's simply about making sacrifices and then those sacrifices will be ingrained in your system and it will no longer be a sacrifice, it will become a culture. It will become easier as time goes by, if you want to have a new life you have to make an inventory of yourself and make a list of your bad habits and get rid of them right away. Trash them today, not tomorrow, not next week... remove all of them now. That's why you have to guard your thoughts and actions 24/7, you have to be mindful of what you're doing and never quit. Because it's hard in the beginning, you will go back to your old habits whenever you're feeling stressed but you have to persevere and use your willpower.. that's how to change your life. Change is hard but it is too simple, you only need to stick with the basics, make your life simpler by doing only things that will give you a better life, as simple as it sounds. The reason why it's hard to change is because it's too simple and basic, you will get bored, you will feel weird and unentertained. Most people loves entertainment and comfort and that's why they can't change, they will choose to watch TV and spend most of their time lying on their couch instead of walking outside and running a little bit. They will choose to gossip and scroll on social media all day long instead of trying to improve themselves a little bit. If you want to create a new life then you need to accept that your life will become boring, you have to be strict on yourself if you really wanted to experience something new. You need to embrace the unknown and make yourself unpredictable because for the past few years all of your actions were so predictable, you already knew what's going to happen before your day start, you knew you're not going to give your all, you knew you will get satisfied of being a mediocre. Greatness is simply stretching yourself a little bit and giving yourself a chance to get more, you will do what is uncomfortable, you will do what you haven't done before, you will take risks, you will try something new and stick to it no matter what.
CONFIDENCE COMES FROM MAKING SACRIFICES
It comes from preparation, it comes from making sacrifices, you will get more and more confident if you are training yourself to get better everyday. In any field this works, you can prepare mentally and physically in any field. Challenges will no longer be threatening if you are prepared and fully equipped with mental affirmations that will help you during the toughest hours of your life. If you're doing something hard then you will become confident, more and more confident than your old self. You will feel proud of yourself, you will feel stronger because you're hardened with those difficult experiences, you just knew that you can overcome anything and can finish anything through hard work and making sacrifices.
If there is an opportunity to make sacrifices do it, if there is an opportunity to delay gratification delay it. Not all the time your mind works subconsciously, sometimes you will be aware of what you're doing, once you find yourself about to do something stupid or unrewarding... stop it. Never start, and when you started already... have the strength to stop it, prioritize your values and goals, never let a fun activity make you worse and undisciplined. Make yourself a beast through discipline and commitment, if you're committed to something and you really believe in it... you will become something special, your confidence will sky rocket.
Making sacrifices is not that hard at all, you will just think what is right and then do it. It's harder because you're too addicted to comfort, you have to remind yourself that change will never happen if you're too comfortable being lazy and giving your 10 percent effort only. You have to learn how to embrace uncertainty and get use to it every single day. Always think that an uncomfortable situation is making you grow, it is giving you an opportunity to get bigger, smarter and stronger. So whenever you need to do a task that is really important... do it without making excuses, do it without having to think if you can do it or now, just do it and shut your mouth. Stop looking for reasons why it is hard, stop looking for an easier task and just do it. Once you're done you will feel good and confident, you will feel relieved, you will feel proud of yourself.
MAKE A COMMITMENT TO PUSH FORWARD
Commit yourself to pushing forward every single second, no thinking, no making excuses... just push forward and stay consistent. Follow through all the time without judging the situation. May it be hard or easy... do it, don't judge yourself, always think that what you're doing is right. Never care if you're getting results or not... just commit to pushing forward every single second and you will become a different animal, you will become a different beast, you will attract better opportunities, your life will change. Just seek and you will find, if you can't find something then you need to seek harder.
INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF YOUR ACTIONS
Einstein once said that repeating the same process again and again and expecting a different result is insanity. I say he doesn't know what he is talking about. If you keep hammering a hard wall a million times then you will be able to break it, if you keep practicing everyday then you will get better. If you don't like to change your process or technique then just increase the intensity, do it more, do it harder, be faster and more aggressive. The results will change for sure, you will create an impact, you will see that something is moving. Don't believe other people even if they call themselves a genius, you have to trust your own instincts, trust yourself and never doubt yourself for a second, that's how to become great in life, that's who to create your own path.
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