LEARN TO DEFINE YOURSELF BOLDY

If you can only learn to define yourself boldly then you will never get lost again. If you know where you are going, if you know your goals, strengths, weaknesses and be truth to yourself then you will have lesser problems in life, your life will become more fun and easier.

The problem with you is you don't know yourself, you don't know who you really are and what you want in life. You are totally lost because you are not defining yourself.

If you're a chef then just cook, don't sing, don't dance, just cook the finest meals in town and enjoy doing it. Know what you love to cook, know your specialty, the reason why you can't win in life is because you don't know where you are good at. You can be a baker, you can be a writer, you can be a strip dancer but the point here is you must give your very best in your chosen profession.
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Define yourself, believe in yourself, never let them define you. Create your own path and look for the territories that were navigated yet, look for space where you can still grow.

If you think that you're the best so be it, but what it takes to be the best? if you think you're the best but you're not doing anything nor working hard then you're completely delusional. Your work ethic should be paralleled with your own definition of yourself. If you think you're a champ but you're so stupid and lazy then you better check your meds because your doctor is not prescribing you the right medicine, you better hire a psychologist because there is no such thing as something for nothing, you have to sweat for it if you really like it.

If you're doing a lot of things, if you're trying to do something because most people were doing it then you're in the right path my friend. You better do something new, learn to use a different approach if you don't like what is going on with your life, it means you don't know where you are headed to... as simple as that.

If you think you're great... be bold about it, be strong, be the hardest worker in the world. Do something that they can't do, do something great that if they see the work you put in they will become scared like a motherless cat.

Be bold with your dreams, know what you really want, know how you want to be treated, know what you can do and do it with full maximum effort. Stop doing something that you don't like, only do the things that will make you happy, because you will always feel bad every time you do something that is against your will and dreams.

Create the life you wanted, attract the friends that will push you to the top. Never associate yourself with people that can't even make your life better. If somebody is pulling you down... get rid of him right away, stop him, trash him.

Make them know who you really are and what you mean to this world.