Dec 30, 2018

COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS WILL MAKE YOU SLOW


Comparing yourself to others is just a waste of time, why? because you will not focus on your own life, you will never focus on your own progress, you will focus on other people's lives. You will doubt your skills because you don't believe in yourself anymore, you are more impressed with their skills rather than trusting yours. You are always guarding them, you are thinking if you are right or wrong.

Stop comparing yourself to others, even if that person is great, even if that person is popular, you have your own path. You can do things according to your own style so stop comparing yourself to others. It's like insulting yourself, it's like belittling yourself. Your confidence level will go down every time you do that.

You are something special if you will make yourself special, stop the nonsense comparison, it will never help you to succeed. What you need to do is make yourself better each day, focus on making a little progress each day and every thing will be fine, you will become successful too. Give success your own definition. Define success like how you want to define it. Never let others define it for you. Never let the market, the government, your parents, siblings, the mainstream define it for you. Set your own standards. For me success is like having the freedom to do whatever you wanted to do, success to me is being my own boss, never working for anyone but still getting paid decently.

Never copy someone's success, you are just insulting yourself and your power. Ignite fire inside of you by doing it your way, not other people's way. You can do it if you will have some confidence in yourself.

Just focus on getting better, focus on gaining small progress every now and then. Never stop, it doesn't matter if you're slow, it doesn't matter if you're not doing it perfectly, what matters is you are doing something. Always keep moving forward and never stop until you're done. Respect yourself by working hard and claiming what is rightfully yours. Never listen to anyone because that will make you slower, listen only to your heart, believe that you can do it, believe that you will do it no matter what. Success may take time to come into your life but for sure you will have it if your dedication is real.

Forget the past, focus on the present, be kind to yourself and never blame yourself if you're not making results. Love yourself, believe that you can do it. Gain a lot of confidence by taking actions and making mistakes.

Use your willpower and you will have it. Use a tremendous willpower but learn to let go if it's already painful, learn to rest a little bit and then push forward again once you already have that strength.

Know who you are, know what you can be. Stop getting impressed too fast with people who were no greater than you. Use your own power, use your own style and never compare yourself to anyone.

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