3 STEPS ON HOW TO BECOME UNIQUE WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING

Being unique, interesting and attractive is what everybody wants. Being unique will create a lot of attention, it will make you popular but sometimes striving to become unique will make you look stupid, it will make you trying hard.

I have a classmate back in high school, he was so needy, he wants attention so he tried everything he can to look unique but it back fired on him, people were mad at him because he was so annoying, he is doing a lot of things just to look cool but the reality is people think of him as an attention seeker.

I have here the three steps to become unique without doing so much, try this and your life will change, people will like you, people will see that you are something special.

1. DON'T TRY TO FIT IN. Just be yourself, never try to fit in, be in the moment, do what you want and never do something just to make yourself look good or be one of them. You are what you are, you don't need to prove yourself anymore, make your life simple, stay with the basics and just be true, be honest. Don't be afraid to tell them that you don't have money, be practical. Don't be afraid to tell them that you don't know it. The truth will set you free, admit your weakness at something and people will even love you even more. Just impress the people that are really close to you like your mom or dad or your siblings. Don't try to impress people that are not even close to your life because you will look inorganic by doing that. If you were to impress someone make sure it's worth it. You will look unique if you will not try to fit in because they will see something in you even if you are quiet.

2. NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS. Don't look at their clothes, don't look at what they are doing, don't look at what they are trying to accomplish, don't compare your life with them. The more you look at other people... the more you lose in touch with yourself, stay focus on your own life and you will discover what you really want, you will become more confident if you will trust that you're on the right path and you don't need to copy their clothes, style, life style, the way they carry themselves etc. Trust that your decision is right and you don't need their approval. You will look unique if you will just follow your heart and trust every small action that you are doing. Always remember that this is a journey, be ok if you are at the bottom, be ok if you're not standing out, what matters is you really know who you are and what are you going to do.

3. PURSUE A DIFFICULT GOAL. Once you have a goal and you are fully invested with it.. their opinions doesn't matter anymore, and that will make you look unique. Most people are trying to look unique because the are trying to impress other people, they were not fully invested with themselves, they were invested with other people's comments and reactions. They were so weak, they feel bad if nobody is appreciating them.