Changing your life is not that hard, you just need to be strict in following your game plan, make a plan and never break it regardless of how uncomfortable you feel. Keep your word, you told yourself that you're going to change... keep your promise, never change direction when the going gets tough. Change can be done in just one month, all you have to do is be dedicated and stay committed with the process, never give up, never think that you can't make a change in your life, here are the top thirty greatest tips to change your bum life.
1. Look for what you want to happen. Change will not take place if you don't know what you want, you must be specific. If you want to become rich then focus on becoming rich, if you want to become healthier then focus on becoming healthy, do something that is positive and will help you to become one step closer from change. If you know where you want to go and you're taking actions then you will get there no matter what, there will be challenges along the way but you will be able to overcome all of them.
2. Never look back. Once you start the process of changing... never look back, never quit, never start something new that you think is easier. Once you're there... don't change direction. Make a stand to change your life, always remember that the more you get uncomfortable... the more you are changing your life, process will become faster if you will face the pain.
3. Copy some life. If you don't know what to do with your life and you have no idea how to change... copy some life, make sure you're copying the life of a successful person. Copy his moves, copy his work ethic, never miss anything. That's what Kobe Bryant does to his career, he copied the lifestyle and mindset of Michael Jordan that's why he get almost the same results, it may not be the exact results but he became successful too.
4. Never tell people what are you doing. This will become the biggest mistake of your life if you do it... They will stop you from changing, they will make comments about your plan and you will not like it for sure, you will feel bad about their comments because those comments were all against your belief.
5. Work hard and never ask for reward. A lot of people were working hard but they will look for reward as fast as they can, they will work for a day and will always check if their work is already blossoming. If you're always looking for reward then it means your life will never change, it's because you will quit if you can't find the fruits of your labor, you will do something else, change will never take place.
6. Just enjoy the process. You will never really notice if you're changing or not. That's the reality, it will happen naturally, your goals will change you gradually, it will change your life if you're serious about it. Enjoy it just be consistent and never build the habits that you think will change your life. If you can't enjoy the process then you will never change, change is a painful transition, you will really have to cry if you want it to happen, you have no choice but to enjoy what is going on.
7. Choose another level of problem. Choose a problem that has benefits, choose a problem that will give you something in the future. Like pursuing a big goal, it is a big problem right? you don't know how will it happen, instead of thinking about your noisy neighbor, why not choose a bigger problem instead? something that will push you to another level.
8. Do something that you never heard of before. If you're a you tuber and you can't make any progress in your channel... do something that you never heard of before, have you heard someone posting 20 videos a day? if not then do it, have you heard someone doing a video about a person eating his own shit? if not then do it, let's see if you can't see something different. Look, you want change right? then you have to do it no matter what. Do whatever it takes to make the change happen, if you will not do something different then your life will be the same as yesterday.
9. Leave your job. You don't want your life right? you don't want your boss and your co-employees, why not leave them? don't be afraid that you will never get another job again, of course you will, just make sure you have some money saved before you leave your job because you will regret it, have some funds that will support your needs while looking for a new job. Some people already left their job but did come back again because they think it's the wrong decision especially if they can't find a new one, once you leave your job... never come back, have some pride left in your body. Don't think that your job is the last job on earth, there are better jobs than your job all you have to do is look for it.
10. Leave your toxic friends. Your toxic friends are stopping you from being successful, you know who they are right? you can name them. Leave them because they are a burden to your life, leave them if you want to move forward and be headed to the right direction. Accept it that some of your friends are making your pace slow, they are using you, they are veering you off to the wrong direction. Be aware of what is really going on with your relationships. Just because he's a friend doesn't mean he's really a friend.
11. Stop watching TV a lot. It's eating a lot of your time, you just don't know it because you're having a lot of fun. Spending most of your time on television is like setting yourself up for a trap that you can never escape, once you get addicted to it... it's game over for you. You will never be able to change that habit again, you will become lazier, you will become heavier. It's ok to watch tv but never spend countless og hours for it. Use it while you're resting, never use it for luxury.
12. Have peace with yourself. Stop belittling yourself, stop getting mad at yourself, that will never get the job done, love yourself and never compare yourself to others. Loving yourself and being proud of the skills and possessions that you have will make you change faster, the resistance will become less powerful and you will become more inspired to take actions.
13. Exercise. Do a simple exercise everyday, be consistent and never stop. Just 15 minutes will do, do it for the first week and gradually increase the minutes, exercising will make you happier, it will make you feel good about yourself. A simple jogging can get the job done. Try it and you will discover that I'm not lying, me myself every time I feel bad I always run on the tread mill and it suddenly makes me happy.
14. Focus on what you can control. If you keep on focusing on what you can't control like wanting your boss to increase your salary then your life will never change, as simple as that. You don't have your boss' power so why wish that your boss will give you an increase? it's hoping, it is unlikely to happen because hoping is for the weak, hoping is for people who can't move. Why not look for another job that pays better than your present job? In that way you are focusing on what you can control and that is looking for another job, your life will change easier because you are moving not hoping, you are using your own power instead of wishing for other people to use their power and give you a blessing.
15. Enjoy taking actions more than you enjoy looking for results. You need to be focused on taking actions instead of looking for results. Taking actions is the key, you can look for results all day long but will it give you anything? will it make you progress? of course not. People can't change because they were so focused on results, they don't want to work as hard as they can, they want it right away, they feel frustrated if they can't get it. Always remember that taking actions is more important that results, you can get the results you desire in a very fast time frame but after that what? your work ethic is not yet developed so you are likely to lose grip with your success. But if you already have that strong work ethic then even if you fail a lot of times you are still ok, you can still make a huge come back.
16. Push further. Push as hard as you can, never stop pushing, that's the best way to change your life. People can't get what they want because they are not pushing themselves to their boundaries, they are ok getting mediocre results. For sure you're stronger than what you think about yourself if you will only force yourself to take actions and do something that you haven't done before.
17. Still work even if you are sleepy. You need to force yourself to work even if you're sleepy. Some people will never work anymore just the moment they feel a little sleepy, that's why they can't become great, that's why they can't take their lives to another level. If you want to change your life then you really need to fight sleep, you need to work more and sleep less... that's the most simple formula to success. Some people loves to sleep more than they love to succeed and in the end they will complain about their lives. A cold weather should not make you sleepy, a slow day should not make you rest, you need to be on a different level if you want to change your life.
18. Move fast. Don't hesitate just move, move faster than before. Change your pace, you're so slow before that's why you can't even make a significant progress to your life, you need to become faster than before, push yourself to the limits, aim to be faster than anybody else. It's really hard but you have to endure the hardship or else you will never change your life, you will become the same person that you hate... do you like that?
19. Focus on your own growth. Never mind if they are doing better than you... just focus on your own growth, focus on developing your own skills and sharpening your tools to make your life successful. Focus on your own life, never mind the lives of other people. You have your own life so you have to focus all of your time for yourself and be the best that you can be.
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