Aug 15, 2018

11 MOST UNDERRATED TIPS TO BECOME BRAVE, A LIFE CHANGING ARTICLE JUST FOR YOU

Being brave is not that hard, it's easy if you will just follow these three undiscovered tips to become brave. Always think that fear is just a state of mind, if you are aware that fear is not real then you will be able to conquer it easily and you will live a better life.

1. Just do it, never worry, never let your mind get worried. If you will do it fast then you will become brave, never worry, never think about what will happen next. Be in the moment, forget about the results, forget about failing or winning, just do it regardless of what might happen. Just do it and let your mind and body be free. The more you avoid taking actions, the more your fears will grow, it will scare you even more. Do it even if part of your brain says no, you can force it, just face the pain, it feels so heavy because you're always thinking, never let your mind work, let go and carry one. Trust that everything will be alright, as simple as that.

2. Always remember that your fear doesn't come from the situation itself. It comes from the people around you. You are so scared of what people say, you are so scared of what people might do to you. Free yourself from what people might say, never mind them, always look at what you want and not on what you don't want. Always remember that your happiness and your goal for today or for tomorrow is what matters, forget about their emotions. So if you feel fear, think what is the root of it, it's not the situation right? it's the people around you. Just like a basketball player who is so afraid to shoot the free throw because the fans are booing him. It doesn't matter if he is a good free throw shooter or not, what matters is are you letting yourself get affected with the crowd booing you.

3. Use the power of mind. What you put in your mind is your reality. If you are always thinking about your fears then you will become scared even more, but if you're focused on what you can do then you will become braver. Visualize that you can do it. If you can program your mind to focus on what you want to happen then it will happen, trust the power of mind, the more positivity you put into it the better your life will become. Mental toughness, being optimistic and enduring... never underestimate the power of these things. Mind is your number one weapon, it is the most powerful tool to succeed, if you use it the right way then nothing will be impossible for you.

4. Fail a lot of times. If you are ok with failing again and again then you will no longer be afraid of it anymore. What most people don't know is that failing will make them tougher and smarter yet they were so afraid to face it, it's only painful in the beginning. Once you get use to it then it will never give you pain anymore, fail now and then fail later, defeat will get sick and tired of you and it will leave you, success will be the next sequence of your life.

5. Forget your identity. Never treat yourself as something special, don't be a diva, don't be soft. Always go hard, always do what is needed, if something terribly bad happens... treat it as a normal thing. Remember that you haven't achieved anything great yet, who are you to complain? who are you to make dramas? you're not successful yet, you don't have any name yet, who are you to cry and whine about little things? forget your identity and do what you are suppose to do, as simple as that. Your identity should not be permanent, it should be flexible and always changing.

6. Remember that you don't have anything to lose. What is there left to lose? what will you lose? you don't have anything from the very beginning, all you can do is gain, all you can do is become successful so don't ever be afraid to try.  Trying is all you can do, it is the logical thing to do in your life. When you were born what do you have? nothing right? so it only means that you have everything to gain, it's only a win win situation for you.

7. You only have one life, you only have one chance. Never let go of the moment, once it is there face it, remember that you only have one life so never take anything for granted. You may never have another chance again so do it now, never hold yourself back and do what you want. Life is so important so never waste it, try as much as you can, experience as much as you can. Don't worry about what people say, don't worry about what people might say, just be yourself and make things happen.

8. Have fun. Don't forget to have fun, it's like you're just playing and you don't care if you win or lose. Have fun all the time, don't worry if you fail, the most important thing here is you give your best and you're having fun. Have fun every second of your journey, forget all the worries because it will never get the job done. You can find a way on how to have fun in something, all you have to do is adjust your attitude. Don't be afraid to make mistakes because it's part of life.

9. Fake it till you make it. This has been said a million times, if you want to be something then you need to fake it till you make it. It means you don't feel confident in the beginning  but you're still taking actions, you are not brave in the beginning but you're acting like a brave till you finally become one. The more you fake it, the more you will feel real, you will become better and better at it till you finally become confident that you're already the real one.

10. Just accept the situation. Embrace it, accept it and never try to curse it. Change it if you can but if it's already impossible to change then just let it be. Accepting any situation is already a bold move, it's already something that is hard to do and doing something hard is something that not most people can do so it's a form of bravery. Move on, forget the past, most people can't forget the past that's why they were so afraid to face the future.

11. Don't be afraid of confrontation or tension. If you know that you are right, if you know that you have the right then go for it, fight for your right, don't be afraid of any tension or confrontation. You will get scared but you have to face it if you really want to become brave. Always remember that if there is a friction then there is growth, don't be afraid to face any tension because it will make you a better person.

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