3 TIPS ON HOW TO HAVE THE ABILITY TO APPRECIATE ANY UGLY SITUATION

Some people will freak out when they experienced an ugly situation, some people will feel bad and will start to blame a lot of things, some people will easily quit and go for an easier path. The truth is... you will ever win in life if you will always look to go back every time you experienced an ugly situation. You need to appreciate everything that is going on to have a better life, you need to do it so that you will see the path of least resistance.

1. ALWAYS THINK THAT SOMEONE HAS A WORSE SITUATION THAN YOU. Stop thinking that you're a victim, stop acting like you need a help because you've been untreated fairly, stop thinking that the world is unfair and that you're being punished for unknown reasons. There are some people who has no legs, no money, no anything at all but they can still manage to become hopeful and courageous. You are complete, you have the means, what's your excuse not to become happy? If your situation is so ugly now, look at the people who have worse life than you and you will begin to appreciate what you have. Stop having the victim mindset, stop thinking that you're so unlucky... always feel that you are blessed, no matter what problems you have... the reality is you're still lucky, you just don't feel it because you're so full of dramas.

2. REALIZE THAT YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. You're so unappreciative because you don't know that you only have one life, you always think that your life is unlimited. If you will only know that life is so short then you will never complain anymore. Always think that you have only one life so you will be able to ignore the small problems and just focus on what is good in your life. It's true, this is not a joke, life is so short and you have to be aware that you're wasting a lot of time dwelling with those things that really don't matter at all. You only have one life so enjoy it, even the ugliest part of your life... still enjoy it because it is still part of your life, it is part of who you are.

3. NEVER COMPLAIN AND JUST KEEP MOVING FORWARD. You don't feel good because you're not moving, if you will only take it one step at a time and feel the moment then you will enjoy your life even more. Stop complaining, it will never do anything good to you. Move forward and you will be able to enjoy the ugly situation, you will learned that it is not really a big deal. Your situation will become uglier if you will keep complaining about small things, small problems become bigger because you're focusing on it. Just move forward and that's it, take an action and never stop until you become successful.   

Moving forward is fun, just stop looking to finish fast and you will enjoy every movement that you're doing.