The real reason for success is failure. Make mistakes and fail so you will make a progress. Make a mistake now, do something now and never care if you succeed or not, what matters is the philosophy and that is taking action and not waiting nor procrastinating. All the waiting does is make you a loser, it's not giving you anything at all so just keep pushing. Never care if you're tired, never care if you keep on failing again and again, what matters is you give your all and you did whatever it takes. Never feel anything after working hard and not getting anything at all, it's ok, so what if you fail. You're already making a progress every time you try because you are trying to change your life. This has nothing to do about winning or losing, this is about the experience. You will feel much better if you're giving your all rather than holding yourself back and acting like a chicken. Fight for what you want, it doesn't matter if you are perfect or not, what matters is you are moving forward and using every ounce of your strength for your purpose. You will only become unstoppable if you keep on trying so never give up and just push yourself to the limits no matter what. It is what it is, if you fail you fail, so be it, stop making drams about it, stop playing like a victim and just keep on going. Something will click in just a matter of time, you have to put in the work if you really wanted to win but for the mean time... focus on grinding, focus on the steps that you can take and never stop moving forward, that's it. Never care about the future, stop worrying and forget what may happen next, start taking actions now and do whatever it takes to get to the next level. Chase the work not the success and your result will be different. You're chasing success too much to the point where you're not giving your best anymore. You're so hooked with the outcome that's why you can't think right can couldn't even give your very best.
NEVER CARE ABOUT YOUR IMAGE
You care about your image too much that's why you're not free, that's why you're not loose and you keep on holding yourself back. You're so afraid to lose and make a mistake that's why you can't make a breakthrough. Remember that you have nothing to lose here, a person who is trying is already 100x greater than a person who is not. Make up your mind, become a doer not a thinker, the only thing that is stopping you is fear of failure, what if you are not afraid anymore? what do you think will you become? you will become bigger, stronger, happier and more successful. Success is the product of multiple failures and mistakes so if you are not losing now... you will never win, as simple as that. Success is the product of pain, disappointments, heartaches, rejections and fear. You have to endure these emotions and keep moving forward all the time. If you have the ability to move forward no matter what then you will become unstoppable.