Listen to your fears, it's telling you something. It's telling you to never take the last shot but take it anyway. It's telling you to never take the risk but take it. Your fear is always telling you what not to do so listen to it and do it anyway. Fears is a signal to go, it's not a red light, it's a green light. Whenever you are afraid of doing something... do it no matter what. Fear is the compass fear is the way, it is a clue, it is a cue to start now and never care about what's going to happen next.
DON'T CHOOSE YOUR PROBLEMS
Don't duck any challenges, don't be scared of any problem, once a problem is there... face it like a real man. Once you are being challenged... face it and never shy away from it, never back down, never care if you make it or not, never care if you win or lose... just face it and do whatever it takes to solve it. You have to deal with it like a gangster, it's now or never, never let your fears grow because once you cower from something... you will be a coward forever, take the risk and use all of your power to win in the end. This is very easy, control your mind and enjoy the grind. Because at the end of the day you will do something, why not do something that will give you a better life? Because you can face anything, it's fear that is trying to stop you all the time. It's your fear against you and nothing else, you don't have any problem you just have fear, you're just being scared. If you're not afraid of it then it's no a problem anymore.
IS IT REALLY THAT BAD TO FAIL?
Definitely not, failing is part of your life. Fail as much as you can if you want to or need to, it doesn't matter. What matters is you don't give up, it's ok to fail because you will learn a lot from it. Not failing means you're not even trying, you have to start now and keep trying as much as you can. With all you might, with all of your willpower... just do it. never judge yourself for your failures, never think that you're not good enough, the most important thing here is you're giving your best and you have no plan of quitting anytime soon.
THE REAL CHALLENGE
The real challenge is controlling your mind. People will say a lot of nasty things at you because you're chasing something. They're just insecure so let them be and never take things personally. Never defend yourself, never explain yourself, stop saying sorry for expressing yourself and taking risks. The real challenge here is your mind, it is your way of thinking, it's what you think about yourself.
WHAT IF FEAR IS PARALYZING YOU?
it's too simple, just move, just try. Calm yourself for a few seconds and just take actions. Never wait for the right timing, never wait for the storm to be over and just move. Right now, start now and never stop until you're done. Don't be afraid to keep moving forward, don't be afraid to take matters into your own hands. take the first step now and never stop, keep doing something that will give you confidence, taking action itself is already giving you a boost of confidence, all you have to do is do more, repeat the process and never stop.
SELF CONFIDENCE IS KNOWING NOT COMPARING
it's knowing what you can do, it's knowing that you can persevere and what you can bring to the table. It's not letting everyone know that you are better than him, it's not comparing yourself, it's not being insecure, it's knowing that you can do something and you have what it takes to make an impact. If you are truly confident then you will never care about what other people are doing, getting or losing, you will just focus on yourself and do the best that you can do.
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