If you are worried, if you are anxious, if you are threatened, there is only one thing you need to do and that is to work hard, it will give you a peace of mind, it will give you confidence and bravery. Students are afraid to go to the day of exam because they didn't study. An unemployed person looking for a job is afraid of an interview because he is not prepared, he didn't research the company, he didn't ask for the direction of the company building, he didn't iron his clothes, he didn't review his lessons and that is why he is so hesitant to go to the interview. A man who impregnated his girlfriend was so afraid to marry his girl because he knew he can't raise a family, he is so lazy and he doesn't want to make sacrifices that is why he was so scared and wanted to hide from his pregnant girlfriend. A fat man was so scared to go out on a date because he is fat, he is so lazy to go to the gym, he is so allergic to a small run or walk and now he is losing his confidence because he wanted to eat more than to sweat. An aspiring basketball player was so afraid for a tryout because he knew he didn't prepare for the last few weeks, all he does is play video games and scroll on facebook. And when the tryouts was done and he was not selected he will make himself believe that the coach didn't like him even though he was loaded with talent.
If you want a peace of mind, if you want to stay calmer and more confident... work hard, focus on trying to improve yourself a little bit. Believe in something, believe that you can win, believe that preparation will put you on top and nothing else. Believe that hard work and doing what is needed is the only formula to success. Most people will try to act like there is a shortcut or magic pill or something to avoid the grind and that is why they struggle forever. This is not about how talented you are, it's how bad do you want it. The question is do you want it bad enough? or are you pretending like you want it just for the sake of trying to feel good better about yourself? stop pretending that you're grinding if you're just working for 2 hours a day, you need to stay busy, trust the process and never give up. Keep going like a bull, never stop until you get the job done. It is what it is, it's going to get harder and harder each day but you will make it if you persevere from the beginning to the end. It's easy to get better, all it takes is focus and making sacrifices.
IT'S OK IF YOU FAIL
Some people are so afraid to work hard and give it a try because they're so afraid of failing. They're so afraid of pushing themselves to the limits because they don't want their efforts to get wasted. They don't know that they already grow once they exert a very strong effort. You are getting mentally and physically better every time you go all in so you have nothing to lose. Keep pushing and never give up, do what it takes to make yourself better and always focus on the grind itself. Never focus on the results because it will come naturally if you are not cheating on your work. It's ok to fail, keep repeating the process until success can no longer run away from you.
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