If you are working hard, if you're really going to the extreme, if you're consistent and you're not stopping then you deserve to believe in yourself. You deserve to take the risk, you deserve to think big and dream big. You deserve to do extraordinary things, you just need to have a very strong belief in yourself, you just need to develop your willpower and perseverance to keep going until the end. You are entitled to overcome anything, you are entitled to reach a level of success that you though is not possible. You deserve to have a confidence in yourself especially if you're going all in and giving your all.
KEEP FAILING
You're not succeeding because you're not aiming to fail. If you really want it then you will give your all even if you fail a million times. You will believe yourself even more if you keep on failing simply because you will get sick and tired of it so you will work harder and better. failing is nothing, it's just an ordinary event in your life. Most people doesn't want to fail, they mock failures, they're so scared to become a failure that's why they're not progressing. If you want to progress fast then you need to fail fast, the goal is to keep failing again and again and never stop until you finally win. Just take one action at a time, go for the kill and fail with dignity, keep failing everyday, chase a small or big goal and do whatever it takes to get it. It's not about winning or losing... it's about giving your all and not giving up. If you keep on failing you will be able to mold a very strong character that is needed to become successful. You will become mentally and physically tougher, you will be able to do the impossible, you will be able to go to the extreme and do something that not all people can do.
THE ADAPTER
Adapt to any situation and believe that you can win no matter what. Adapt to it no matter what, go hard and never let anything stun you, adapt even if it is uncomfortable, adapt even if you don't know anything. All you have to do is learn and accept what is going on around you, fight if you need to, be faster and adjust to your environment's pacing and rhythm. Stay calm while the chaos is going on and remind yourself that it will be over in just a matter of time. Not all the time you will feel overwhelmed, not all the time you will struggle, adapt to the situation and never give up, that's the only thing you need to do... never quit. You don't need to win like them or dominate like them, you don't need to become great right away, just adapt to any kind of situation and do whatever you can do to survive, just trust the process, you have your own timing, you just need to get better everyday and you will be able to overcome everything and thrive in the end.
LOOK FOR THE PROCESS NOT FOR THE RESULTS
Don't try to change everything around you, don't look for an easier path, focus on changing yourself, focus on trying to get better and stay committed to the process. If you are changing then better results will come naturally, you don't need to force it. Go hard and you will feel good about yourself. Confidence will come from making sacrifices and doing what you don't want to do but is important. You have to force yourself to take massive actions so you will feel that your life has a purpose. Take it one step at a time and never give up, enjoy the process, enjoy working hard and never look for results all the time. It's ok to expect but don't ever get disappointed every time you fail or didn't get what you want. If you're really good in doing the process then you will attract better results, as simple as that. The reason why you're not getting what you want is because you're lazy, slow and half ass committed. You need to take it seriously, take it to the next level or else you will become stuck forever.
THE REASON WHY YOU CAN'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
It's because something is controlling your actions and your actions were nonsense and useless. The social media, messenger, reaction from other people, other people's comments, news, useless entertainment is controlling you. You want to do something but you're letting your vices manipulate your mind, you're letting a weakness make you weak. You should start controlling your mind and behaviors if you want to go to the next level. Don't get too excited or aroused about something that is not making you better at all, don't get easily tempted by something that isn't help you to go up. Success is simply doing what you don't like, if you want to have more confidence then be ready to practice delayed gratification all the time, keep delaying it, delay it over and over again until you finally reach the top. Reject all the invitations, reject the party, reject the useless posts and you will feel much better about yourself. Give all of your time for yourself only, try to improve every single day and never look for people's appreciation, keep using your strength, keep using what you've got and never care about anything else that is only making you slow. It's all about the speed, you will become faster if you can reject everything that is not giving you a boost. You need to be mindful of your actions, study yourself carefully and watch yourself if you're doing a lot of stupid things that is making your life worse. Become a speed addict, become a monk, lock yourself in with your goals and never mind the people that's trying to eat a lot of your precious time. have no regrets if your life is boring, the greatest way to live your life is to discover your true potential and you can never see it if you keep on minding other people's business. This is your business, this is your life, you've got to do what you need to do in order to become successful. Stop letting something makes you create bad decisions, stop letting something or someone influence your mind or else your confidence will be shattered. Because if you really believe in yourself then nothing can excite you other than making yourself better for today.
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