Jan 5, 2023

USE THE POWER OF "NO"


You don't need to make an extravagant makeover, you don't need to create an explosive process to change your life. It is too simple, if you want to change then stop doing a lot of things. You've been doing a lot of things lately and most of it are not working because most of your activities were all crap and useless. It's only an entertainment, you're doing it just to stimulate your brain. But the problem is you're doing the wrong stimulation, you're setting up yourself for a failure. Always use the power of NO, say no to yourself all the time. No to useless entertainment, no to something that is slowing you down and making you weak. It's simply about the discipline, the more you discipline yourself the more powerful you become, as simple as that. The more discipline you are the more you will have time for yourself and your goals. 

STOP REWARDING YOURSELF ALL THE TIME

You don't deserve it, you don't deserve the reward. You don't deserve to have a drink because you didn't do something spectacular. You don't deserve a new shoes because you're badly broke. You don't deserve a pizza because your health is not so well. You don't deserve a rest or sleep because you didn't push yourself to work hard or at least do something outside of your comfort zone. You feel like you're entitled of comfort that you didn't work for. Stop looking for entertainment and pleasures all the time because it's only making you weak. You are suppose to make sacrifices. Say no to everything that is giving you pleasures and entertainment but is making you slow and lazy. Say no to junkfood, mobile games, 

THERE IS SOMETHING RIGHT WITH THIS DUDE

PEOPLE will notice that there is something right with you, not wrong but right. They will feel the power, the aura is very strong. That's what hard work can do to you, it will make you more confident, powerful and sharp. Hard work will turn you into a different beast, they will sense that you're not just an average joe who can easily be push every time they want to. They will know that you're a real deal and not something who can they mess up with. All you have to do to have a better life is work hard. There is no shame in working so hard, it doesn't matter if you're getting lesser than what you deserve, what matters is you keep on pushing and you have no plans of stopping anytime soon. Just grind, it will make you feel much better if you grind. 

Make them feel that you're on a different level, make them know who is the real king. Live the way you are suppose to live not the way you wanted to live. You want an easy and comfortable life but that's not how you are suppose to live, you need to work hard and push yourself to the limits. You want all the shortcuts and instant pleasures but that's not the way you are suppose to live. You are suppose to feel the pain, grind like hell and fight for what you want. Because at the end of the day, easy and comfortable will never give you anything, it will only make you a spoiled brat feeling entitled of something you don't even deserve. 

NO TO LAZINESS

Your life will change if you will say not to laziness. How many opportunities had passed because you choose to to try? If you will just make yourself a hard worker then you will become super unstoppable, as simple as that. Say no to laziness because it's the most disgusting thing in the world. It makes you weak, it makes you slow and dumb, it makes you stupid, nothing good is going on with your life if you're lazy and unproductive. What you do with your time is what you will become. It's just a habit, if you can develop a habit of just moving forward all the time then sky is the limit to you, you will be able to go further as much as you can, any time you want. Have fun taking actions, it should be your attitude, make it as your culture, feel bad whenever you're lying on bed doing nothing, get disgusted with yourself every time you skip the process that you are suppose to do today. No to everything that is not giving you something in return. All the instant gratification does is give you a failure mentality. You're avoiding taking actions by numbing yourself with comfort and nonsense entertainment. It's time to wake up and get better, it's time to make yourself stronger by working harder and doing whatever it takes to get to the next level. 

Laziness is next to ugliness. It will make you fat, broke, stupid, poor and unhappy. If you're not moving you are failing, as simple as that. If you want to get out of the rut you are in... just move. Say no to procrastination, say no to activities that are fun but useless. The truth is you have a lot of time, you're making an excuse that you don't have a time that's why you are failing but the truth is you're wasting a lot of time and you hate to admit it. If you really want to do something you will give it a time, you will use your energy on it. 

SLOWLY BUILD YOURSELF UP

Once step at a time, there's no need to rush, you just need not to stop. Stay consistent, do something that will make your skill a little bit better. This is not a race, it's a marathon. Keep pushing and keep grinding, do whatever it takes to get to the next level, as simple as it sounds. The power of being slow is real, don't worry if you're last on the race, just keep going and never stop until the end. You have a lot of time but you're not allowed to waste it. Just do what is needed and slowly build yourself up, keep going even if it is hard, don't worry about the challenges because it will soon be over if you keep plodding and pushing until the end. Don't be a drama diva and just take the first step and then follow through as much as you can. It's not about winning or losing, it's about the continuity, it's about surviving everyday and hustling to make your dreams come true. It doesn't matter if you lose in the end, what matters is you give your all because that's the only way to know the truth and have peace with yourself. 


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