So many people were acting like new year will change them. They're so excited and feeling great, they're posting on social media their plans and new year's resolution, they're acting like their lives will change in an instant, they think that they can prosper in just a blink of an eye. The truth is... New year's day will never change you, your habits will. You can start the change on january 1 but it doesn't mean you will see the results immediately. Start the change by building the right habits. You will never see the result in just one week or even in one month but you can build the right habits to dominate the whole year and grinding like you really mean it. You need to start now, even if it's not january 1, start no, build the right habits and never look for immediate results. Because wanting it fast is what makes you fail, the moment you can't see the result you are expecting you will quit right away and make excuses, you will think that what you're doing is not working. How can it work if you're not giving your very best? how will it work if you're not pushing yourself to the limits? you need to go all in, you need to stop the stupidity now and do what is best for you.
BUILD THE RIGHT HABITS TO BECOME AN ACTION TAKER
Don't build a habit to become successful rather build a habit to become an action taker. Stop thinking about success right away, it will come on the right time but you need to become fast first. Speed was so attracted to success. If you can move fast, fail fast and then move on fast, try again fast and you will become something special. It's the one who can take massive actions that will become successful. It's not about the idea of becoming great, it's the concept of just doing what will somehow make you a little bit better. To build a habit of becoming an action taker is easy, just get rid of your old habits and old patterns of thinking. You need to be mindful of what you're doing now.
AVOID THE INSTANT GRATIFICATION
Rewarding yourself with a purchase, food, party, rest even though you haven't done anything good yet is only setting yourself up for a failure. Why will you drink a coca cola if you haven't run for a week? why will you buy a Gucci if you haven't paid your credit card yet. The bills are piling up and you're still acting like you have millions in your bank account. Success is simply composed of small right decisions at the right time. Don't start saving money if you're already in huge debt, start saving it when you still have an extra money, stop rushing to cut your weight if you're already severely obese, start losing weight now while you can still run a little bit. Stop studying when it's already 2 hours before exam, study now while you still have a lot of time. And even if you're already too late, just start and never stop, that's your only chance, if you already wasted a lot of time, if you're really drowning with your problems then you better start now and never stop, that's the only way. You always have a chance, opportunities will never run out but you can't afford to waste time anymore. You need to go all in and stop living like a punk, stop being a coward to actions, it's just one step at a time, do the best thing you can do now, go hard and never stop, as simple as that. You know how to make the best decision, you know what will never make your life harder, do it, stop thinking and just do it. Stop buying, stop consuming, stop eating too much, stop wasting a lot of time. All you need to do is stop what makes your life harder and you will become better.
CHANGE REQUIRES A LOT OF PAIN
If you really wanted to change then you need to start now and that is really painful. Most people will say tomorrow, next week, next month and the year was already over and they haven't start anything yet. Stop being a chicken, it's just a simple action. Face the pain of taking actions, face the pain of making sacrifices. Cut your netflix subscriptions, cut your credit card, cut your access to food delivery and start making sacrifices now. Fight your vices which is really painful, stop getting amuse with stupid entertainment that is only wasting your time, if you want to become better then be better, as simple as that. It's not being smart, it's not being talented, it's not getting the right support, it's not living in a perfect environment, it's doing whatever it takes to become a little bit better than yesterday. If your life was too easy right now then it means you're not changing, it is suppose to be hard, you need to feel like hell in order to make a significant change. That's why you need to be patient, you need to trust the process and never stop until you get the results that you want.
STOP BELIEVING IN NEW YEAR
New year doesn't mean new life, it's just a date, if you really wanted to change then you are suppose to change last year in any month of the year. Stop believing the hype of new year, stop fooling yourself, how many times you said to yourself that you're going to change but you haven't? you need to wake up, build the right habits, start now, no matter what time is it of the year... start and never stop, that's how to force the change. Change is hard, change is painful and you need to accept it, you will really feel the stress not because you need to work hard but you will feel the change in your system because you're already avoiding to do the stupidest things. It's too simple, just give time for good habits and get rid of your old bad habits, if you don't know what to do then don't do anything. Don't eat donuts if you're obese, don't buy useless stuffs if you're broke, don't party if you don't have a job. It's really that simple but most people who are broke are acting like they have a lot of time and energy to change, they thought they can do it tomorrow like magic and that's why they're broke forever.
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