Use the power of reverse psychology, every time you fail... you should believe yourself even more because it's the only way to success, you should enjoy failing and never consider it as a failure, always believe that you're getting closer and closer to success every time you didn't get anything from hard work. It's not about succeeding, it's about not giving up and using the same process over and over again. It's about making it work even if it's not working at the moment. Every time you fail you should get stronger, you should get up and try again as fast as possible. Never feel bad about it because your real privilege is not success, it's unlimited tries, you can try as much as you want and not get executed for it. It only means anything is possible for you, you can become successful, you can become big, it all depends on how big your heart is, do you have the will to carry on?
Record it in your subconscious mind to try again whenever you fail. Once you make this as your mindset then you will become unstoppable. Have no time for whining and being despair, have no time for depression and always think that it's an urgent to take actions now. Just do the next move and never mind if you're going to fail again, make this as your habit to keep trying again and again until you succeed. Just push forward no matter what, don't be specific, don't be technical, don't be to sure, don't over calculate and just push. No matter what happens keep in mind that whether you fail or not you can still try again, there is nothing to lose here, you're just taking your chances and trying to win through hardwork and dedication. You're just trying to get lucky by being fearless and decisive.
FAILING IS NOT THE END OF YOUR JOURNEY
It's not the end of the world, it's not the end of your journey, you can start again and this time you will be smarter and better. Never feel bad every time you fail, get addicted to trying, every time you fail and got rejected... look for another opportunity, if you can't find an opportunity... try to make one. You can always try again tomorrow or alter, nothing can stop you if you will decide to feel unstoppable. You can try a million times, you can become creative with your process or you can simply follow the basics. Which way you want is allowed, you will not be executed for trying so hard. The game plan should be fail as much as you can and never be afraid of trying again, that's the only way to corner success, that's the only way to assure yourself that you're going to win. Because at one point in your life you're going to have a break through, the challenges of life will no longer going to intimidate you, it will no longer affect you. At one point in your life you will be able to figure out what works, it's only just a matter of time before it happen.
BE AWARE IF YOU'RE WASTING YOUR TIME
Life will become much easier, enjoyable and success will be easily conquered if you will not waste your time. Every time you fail you're going back to your old habits, you will watch TV, gossip in facebook, eat a lot of junkfood, entertain yourself with nonsense things, you're not aware that you're wasting a lot of time. By doing this you are losing control. Every time you waste time you are setting yourself up for a miserable life. Wasting a lot of time will make you unproductive and depressed, wasting time will only drain your energy. You have to do something positive and useful, you have to put yourself back on track and never kill the momentum that you have, always follow through no matter what, always push yourself to choose actions over procrastination. Always stay productive and disciplined, if you're not wasting time then you will take control of your life, you will be happier and stronger, you will have more peace of mind, you will feel in control and confident.
BE DECISIVE ALL THE TIME
Your belief in yourself, your confidence is getting weaker and weaker because of your indecisiveness, you're always hesitating, you're always overthinking. If you need to do it just do it, just start and never judge any of your actions, if you need to finish it then finish it... never stop. You have to take control of your mind and never let it worry all the time because that will stop you from taking actions. Always believe in your work, believe in the power of taking actions. Don't waste your time over analyzing thing, don't calculate too much, don't plan too much, just focus on the execution because time is running and one day you will have no more time so you better take actions now and stop wasting your energy for nonsense activities and stupid habits. You can become anything you want to be, you can get anything you want if you will be decisive and bold.
IMPROVE YOUR FOCUS
The number one reason why you always fail is the lack of focus. Something that sounds interesting, negative and dirty is making you interested. These gossips, nonsense tv shows, nonsense information, trending useless topics are destroying your focus. Always remember that every opportunity to fight temptation is an opportunity to grow. You become mentally tougher, wiser and productive every time you catch yourself about to do something stupid and didn't do it. It's hard especially if you're about to start it and feel like you're going to have a lot of fun, but that temporary fun or pleasure is setting you up for failure. You have to be mindful and always aware of what you're doing. Never let any nonsense activity stop you or derail your progress. Always focus on your journey and always filter the thoughts that will go nowhere.
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