If you can get results then people around you will support you but if you can't get one... they will never give their 100 percent to you, maybe they will pat you on your head for the sake of trying to show their affection and sympathy but if you're failing all the time... expect the worse, they will never support you. Even your wife, bestman, mother, any person close to you, friends or even your dog or iguana... they will never support you. That's why you need to become tougher, man up because you are on your own. If you're trying something especially if you're chasing a big dream... nobody will support you. That is facts, enjoy the path of being alone, enjoy the path of doing it your way because you can never get their full support if you're not giving them something to believe. Get use to that
If you can't generate money, if you can't make them believe, if you can't show them a little progress then they will never support you that's why you have to become mentally tougher, be stronger because sometimes they will even try to stop you, they will even try to discourage you and become practical. They will tell you to stop dreaming and become a bartender or something, they will tell you to follow the norms and stop chasing that "entrepreneur dreams" of yours. They will tell you to stop what you're doing because it's not getting anywhere. It is what it is, you will be labelled as a bum, you will be labelled as a pretender or someone who is delusional. That's the biggest challenge when you're pursing an impractical dream, it's not the difficulty of the process but worrying about what people will say. What if your wife is getting mad at you because you can't buy the mil of your daughter? what if your mom is shooing you away from your home because you can't even give a small share for the bills? what if your friend doesn't listen to your dreams anymore? what if nobody is there to listen to your stories? what if everyone is telling you to stop and live a normal life?
JUST KEEP QUIET AND CONTINUE
Stop explaining yourself because they will never understand you, they can't feel the fire in your heart, they will never see your vision because you're the only one who sees it. Just keep quiet and never argue with them, just keep quiet and continue what you've been doing. Even if you're hearing a lot of hurtful words, even if you feel you can't take it anymore... just stay humble and continue. Because the resistance will even become stronger if you're arguing with somebody, your mental game will be messed up if you're trying to prove yourself all the time. Just keep quit and continue, don't stop, stay relentless and never give up. Let them speak, let them put you down, let them kick you while you're down but don't ever stop. Time will come and you will shine, time will come and you will win, you just need to wait and be patient because what you're dreaming of will arrive on the right time. So keep grinding while waiting, focus on the things that really matters.
IT'S OK IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF ANYMORE
It's ok if you don't have confidence in yourself, it's ok if you're always scared and doubtful but never forget to do the process. Just do it even if you're scared, just work hard even if you don't feel that it will work. Don't worry if you're not confident because you will feel it later if you're working really hard and executing the process. You don't need to feel good all the time, you just need to move, as simple as that. Feelings are so overrated, most people care about how they feel that's why they can't move. They feel they were entitled of being lazy when they feel tired a little bit, they believe that they have the right to just rest when luck is nowhere to be found. It's ok if you don't believe in yourself but never stop working hard because you are suppose to execute the process all the time. Your job is to work as hard as you can and see what you can achieve by making sacrifices.
CARRY YOURSELF
You're the only one who can carry yourself, you're the only one who can make things happen for you. Nobody will be there to help you, nobody will give you full time support and love. You have to love yourself and infuse strong beliefs in your mind that will push you to keep pushing. Nobody will give you a helping hand, there will be no freebies, there's no rescue when you're drowning and you've got to get use to it, adapt and learn how to become resourceful.
THERE'S NO REASON TO BE AFRAID
You only have one life, you have no reason to be afraid, you should use your life to enjoy chasing your dream. Create your own journey, stop being too practical, stop being too emotional and getting hurt easily with the words of other people. Know yourself, know who you are, know what you can do. You have nothing to lose, there's nothing wrong about being alone in your journey, there's nothing wrong about chasing an impossible dream. It is your dream, you have to protect it and make it real. Don't be scared to fail because all you have to do is try for one more time and that's it, keep trying until you finally make it.
SOMETHING WILL HELP YOU TO SURVIVE
It can come form an unknown person, a stranger, a sudden opportunity, something will help you to survive, some money will come, some job will come, don't be afraid to chase your dream because if you're really serious about it and working hard everyday... the help will come in unexpected way. It's because the universe conspires. So don't be afraid if things are really getting harder and harder, the help is on its way.
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