You think you're special, you think you are not allowed to make mistakes. You think everybody is looking at you, the truth is nobody cares, nobody knows you, stop feeling that way because it will only stop you from moving or trying again every time you fail. Stop feeling entitled of any attention, stop feeling like you're cut from a different cloth. Your ego is the one that is stopping you, who do you think you are? you haven't done anything special yet and you're already acting like that. Stop being a diva, stop acting like a spoiled child, you need to work, you need to be yourself and do what you need to do. You think everyone is watching your actions? hell no! they don't know you, they don't even care about you stop quit trying to be conservative and push yourself to do something to win.
THERE'S NO SPECIAL IN THIS WORLD
Even your idols, even the politicians, even the richest people in the world, even the smartest people in the world... they were no different from you. Nobody is special in this world, they're going to die to, the reason you think they're higher than you is because they're doing whatever it takes to succeed, they're living their life to the fullest and they never hold back. You too can become like them, you can make your life special too, you're not special and gifted but you can make your life special by pushing yourself to the limits and not being afraid of failing. You can become great too if you will destroy all what's stopping you and focus on achieving something. Everybody will die, you will die one day so what is the point in holding yourself back. You are free to do anything, it's up to you if you will let insecurity stop you.
THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU
You got rejected, you got embarrassed, you fail, you lose, you humiliate yourself, you have dirt on your teeth, you're not good looking, you're looking like a fool, you're acting like a clown... so what? they don't care about you, you don't care about them. If you will just focus on yourself and give your very best then that's enough. You're not special so don't get insecure easily, don't feel shy and keep expressing yourself. Even if you're badly embarrassed infront of the crowd, remember that what happens cannot affect you if you have a right mindset. It's not about what happened, it's about how you feel. If you can feel nothing about something then that is power. If you can easily move on and move to the next chapter of your life then that's power, real power. They don't care about you, they just notice you because you suck, they will not even remember you, nobody cares about a loser so why will you feel so insecure and scared to continue? why is it affecting you too much? and even if they really care or they remember the bad things that happened to you? so what? it's not up to them, it's up to you if you will allow yourself to get affected with those things that doesn't really matter at all.
YOU DON'T NEED ANY VALIDATION
You can't move because you're always looking for validation, you want to be sure, you're always looking for approval, everything you do was attached to people's reactions. You are too concerned about how they feel. You're always looking for an appreciation, you're looking for somebody to treat you special and say that you're special. Stop thinking like that, you are here to be yourself, you are here to feel confident but humble. Just do it, just show up, stop comparing yourself to others, stop being too conscious, stop being too concerned about how other people feel. Just move whenever you want to, if you're wrong you are wrong so be it. But just stop acting like a soft diva that was so scared to express himself. If you need to do something and you're shy... just do it, remember you're not protecting any identity here, don't worry about your name, don't worry about your face, just do it and feel nothing when you fail or embarrass yourself. Be fast in moving on, be fast in changing your emotion, you feel a little bad but you need to entertain a new thought so that your feeling will change.
LEGACY IS NOT FOREVER
You can become popular now, you can feel dominant and great now, you can achieve a lot of things now but that legacy is not forever. You may have all the awards, you may have all the followers but one day your legacy will be erased, it will be forgotten. It only means don't worry about your identity, don't worry about who you are and just give your very best, as simple as that.
DON'T TRY TO LOOK CUTE
You're trying to look attractive, smooth, rich, elite and great all the time and that's why you can't win in life. Stop trying to look cute, stop trying so hard making your image attractive. You have to grind like hell even if you look so tired and dirty, make your hands dirty, destroy your image, remember that taking actions is the most important thing than anything else. Just move and do something, just push forward even if your feelings are against it. It's ok to look ugly, it's ok to look struggling, it's ok to look dirty but just get the job done. You don't need the appreciation from other people, you don't need to look perfect, you just need to get the job done and that's it.
STOP BEING SOFT
Stop having that diva attitude, stop worrying about what people say because they don't really care about you. You are nothing, you're not special, you're not an artist or a politician, you're not even on the top list of forbes, who are you to feel entitled of protecting your identity? who are you to feel that way? you're only making yourself suffer. Being shh is different from being soft, you're too soft, you couldn't even stand up for what you want to happen, you're too passive, there is no hardness in your heart. You're harder than that, you can move anytime you want to but you choose not to because you think you're special. You're so afraid to lose, you're so afraid to look weak. But the reality is you're really weak because you couldn't even pull the trigger.
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