Having self pity, looking for a sympathy, trying to look like you're in pain, trying to make someone emotional by pretending to be suffering, trying to get your ex girlfriend back by posting pictures in social media about you drinking everyday, playing the victim role, having that victim mindset, looking for someone to join your misery... these dramas won't help you at all, you will only look like a clown by doing that. You can never get your ex girlfriend back by trying to look miserable, she will never change her mind, someone is already touching her tonight and there is nothing you can do about it. If you want attention... WIN, as simple as that. Make yourself successful, make yourself big, ignore all the people that doesn't want you anymore and make yourself big, that's the only way. Learn to love yourself, don't drown yourself into drinking and thinking about depressing thoughts.
SO WHAT IF YOU'RE IN PAIN?
Everyone is in pain, everybody is hurting, so what if you're suffering? it's normal. It's life, life is hard, if it is not hard then it is not life. That's the price of living... you have to endure and fight, you have to stop being soft or else you will suffer even more. It's all in the mind, if you will activate the victim mode in you then you will have a hard life even more. Some people are suffering more than you do but they're not complaining, who are you to complain and act like the world is unfair? you're no special, you're just an ordinary human like us, you should stop feeling entitled of living a comfortable life because you did nothing at all, you did nothing spectacular, you're just living like a bum everyday so stop complaining, stop making dramas and just take actions. DO what is best for you so that you will experience a better life. Dramas will put you down, it will make you weak, it will make you look like a fool looking for a sympathy and help. Nobody will help you, nobody will join you, nobody likes a needy person. You have to fix your life and build the best version of yourself, that's the only way to attract happiness.
FOCUS ON HARD WORK INSTEAD
People love someone who is working hard. People love someone who is independent. If I were you I will be focusing on working hard right now instead of complaining and whining like a man who lost all of his fortune... work hard and make yourself better. Make yourself faster, work harder, experience more, fail more. That is what it's all about, if you're not afraid to fail then success will fall in love with you, success loves the risk takers and the tryers, success loves people who are willing to give their all. So do whatever it takes to get to that next level and never stop, it's all about not stopping, it's all about putting yourself on the best position to succeed and you can only do that through working hard and busting your ass all day long. No excuses, never entertain the idea of quitting, never look for what is missing in your life, never look focus on what you can't do and always focus on your strengths. Hard work will make you something special, it will make you attractive, you don't need to become needy anymore, you don't need to look for sympathy anymore if you're working hard and doing whatever it takes to succeed. It's too simple... just give your very best every single day while chasing your goal and success will fall into your hands.
WHY ARE PEOPLE MAKING DRAMAS?
Because they want an easy life, they will blame somebody for their misfortune but the truth is they're not even trying. It's their fault but because they don't want to take the blame, they will make dramas instead. They want to look good, they want attention, they want to get something fast by just talking and making negative comments. They're playing the victim role so they will get sympathy and help. The truth is dramas will make you look funny and weak, it will never help. It's because you're letting other people do something for your life, you're relying on other people's reactions instead of taking actions and forcing a new experience. Stop making dramas, stop being lazy and you will experience a new life. Remind yourself that dramas is for the losers, it's for people who can't make progress with their lives that's why they're just focusing on opening their mouths and acting like a loser, it's the easiest thing to do, it's what most people do. Dramas will kill you, it will never make you improve so stop dealing with it and focus on moving instead.
MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE
Earn more money, learn new things, study yourself and make yourself better, force a little improvement everyday. Improvement can happen mentally, if you can't improve in your skills then improve mentally. Believe in yourself even more, train your mind to just pull the trigger anytime you need to without procrastinating, think bigger, believe stronger, never back down to any challenge, never delay something that needs to be done now, in this way you are improving already. It all starts in your mind, if you can make your mind powerful and healthy then sky is the limit for you. Start improving yourself now, start making yourself better and do whatever it takes to get to that next level. It's too simple, stay consistent, grind everyday and make yourself useful, don't do something that will only squander your time, work as hard as you can and invest on yourself, don't invest on other people, focus on grooming yourself.
NEVER WASTE YOUR ENERGY
Where the focus goes the energy flows. Never waste your energy on subjects that will only poison your mind. If you're focusing on problems then you will get more of it but if you're focused on winning then you will become a winner, as simple as that. Never waste your energy for subjects that will not elevate your mindset, never give time to toxic people that are making dramas too, never focus on complaining because it will drain your energy, being bitter will make you stuck and unproductive. Focus on moving and doing something better for your life, focus on trying to upgrade your skills and thinking. Never waste your energy for things that will downgrade your life. You better pick the right activities and thoughts that will make you a better specimen of a man.
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