You're always available, people can invite you fast, you're tempted fast when there is fun activity that doesn't serve your goal. You're more interested in going to parties rather than improving yourself and doing something that will put you on a better position. You're so excited when someone invites you, you can't fall asleep when there is an outing tomorrow. You're always available when someone ask you to play, you can't say no and that's why your time was always divided to activities and people that only pulls you down. You're easy to get, anyone can get you. A playstation can eat your time, a birthday party can get your attention so fast, a sexy image on the internet can get your eyes so fast and you spend a lot of time on it. A critic or a hater is making you feel bad so fast, in other others they get you so fast. Anything or anyone can get your time so fast and that's why you don't have time for yourself anymore. That's why you're always tired and lost.
LEARN TO SAY NO
If you can't say no then you will never have more time for yourself. Never care if you reject somebody and he got hurt. Never care about the feelings of others, learn to say now, learn to reject an idea or proposal, learn to reject an invitation. You will grow mentally if you're practicing not to please everyone. Saying no is hard, you don't want to hurt anybody but you have to learn how to do it to have more time for yourself. Say no and mean it, say no and never change your mind, never let anybody change your decision because she is being sweet to you, don't bite the trap of people, always make a stand for your decision and never let yourself get manipulate by others. Saying no means you're serious in your journey, it means you really want to win and succeed. Because at the end of the day success means sacrificing, it means you're not letting anybody waste your time, you're too focused on your own journey and you don't want to waste any of your time.
IT'S NOT EGO, IT'S CONTROLLING YOURSELF
It's not that you think you're better than them, it's not that you think you're special, it's just that you're practicing to control yourself and you're not letting anything control you or make you decide in an instant. It's not that you're full of ego and thinking that you're above than others, you just want to focus on chasing your goals and giving more time for your journey. Because fun will always wait but success will never, once the opportunity is there... forget having fun and grab it. Control yourself to say yes, stop pleasing other people, stop being available all the time, stop being an easy to get person. Remind yourself what will make you better, remind yourself that you don't need to say yes to everyone just to please them and avoid being labelled as arrogant, let them think what they want to and focus on your life, focus on getting better everyday. You need more time for yourself, you need more discipline and focus. Learning to say no and sticking to it is the best way to control yourself. Say no to BS, say no to everything that is pulling you down, you know what are these things... say no to them all the time.
YOUR VALUE WILL INCREASE
If you're not someone who doesn't agree fast, if you're not someone who is always available, if you're not someone who can they push around whenever they want to, if your mind is very heart to penetrate, if something powerful cannot influence you so fast... your value will increase. Don't disagree so fast just because an offer is attractive or looks fun, you have to know what is really best for you. You have to know what will work for you in the long run, your value will increase if you're not someone who agrees easily. It means you can stand up for yourself, it means you are willing to be alone just to win in life, it means you believe in yourself and you are ok not getting anything.
Never let money, excitement, desperate offer, instant pleasure control your mind. You need to be in control here, never say yes that fast, if you need to make a decision now talk to yourself and ask yourself if what you're going to do is going to help you and make you a better person. You have the power to choose what is best for your life, nothing can stop you from making a decision, it doesn't matter if someone get offended, it doesn't matter if someone get disappointed, you have to do what is best for yourself even if it means rejecting everything.
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