Look at yourself, how do you feel? how do you think? are you confident enough that it will happen? do you have what it takes to get it? is your mind bulletproof from adversity and distraction? is your work ethic really on top? There's no need to worry, no need to check your progress every now and then, it will happen if it is already meant to happen but for now... keep working harder because that's all you need to do. It will happen in the near future, you just need to elevate your mindset and never thinking about failing just for once. If you really believe it, if there's no shadow of doubt in your heart then you will win, you will overcome any kind of adversity, you will never crumble during pressure times because you are prepared to win and in your mind you don't see any chances of failing.
HOW TO BUILD SOME CONFIDENCE
It's too easy, just stand up from your couch and work as hard as you can, you need to prove to yourself that you can push as much as you can. IF you can tame your old self, if you can do better than yesterday, if you can destroy your laziness then you will feel good about yourself, you will see some improvements, you will feel much better, you will have some confidence because you knew you can work during the difficult times. When it's hard, when you feel heavier then that's the time that you need to grind, as simple as that. You will only gain confidence through actions, you will never believe in yourself if you're lazy and always taking another day for granted. Some people thinks they're confidence but it will be shattered during pressure times because they're not working hard. It's called arrogance and not confidence if you think you can do something great but you're not working hard and making big time sacrifices. It's easy to build some confidence, just try, just give yourself a chance to win, always keep in mind that you can try again later or tomorrow if you fail now, you have nothing to lose here, you will keep growing as long as you keep on trying.
WHATEVER ROLLS INTO YOUR LIFE
Whatever the crap rolls into your life. embrace it, if you really knew that you're going to win then you don't need to feel sorry if somethin bad happens, you will still move forward and act like nothing happened, anything is not a big deal to you if it's not connected to your goal. Remember that your goal is to win and not to react on things that doesn't help you to become better. You have to stay confident all the time, don't worry, don't panic, don't rush and just feel good. If you can't feel good just stay still, relax your mind because your situation now is not your situation forever, you can still change it, you have to focus on what really matters and throw every distraction off the window. You have to create your own reality and you will only see what you want if you stop on looking at what you don't want. Don't give up, don't feel like a victim, don't lose hope, you have to keep moving forward all the time, this is the mindset of winners... they keep pushing all the time no matter what. What stands in your way... get rid of it or ignore it, the choice is yours if you will spend some time and energy on useless problems. Stop feeling insecure, stop feeling threatened, stop feeling weak... you have the power to do something great in your life.
WHAT DO IF YOUR CONFIDENCE IS GETTING SHATTERED LITTLE BY LITTLE?
There will be times when you will really doubt yourself especially if you can't make results. It's ok, it's too normal, just keep pushing forward, stay on your lane, don't change directions, don't change anything... just keep working harder. Most people will tell you to just do some other things. Well, it's their problem if they're a quitter, you're not a quitter, you will keep trying and trying and trying until you win, that's what it is all about. It's your own story, you're the director of your life, you've got to choose what you feel is much better. Quitting doesn't make anyone feel better, it will make you feel worse, you will feel weak every time you quit. So keep plodding, keep doing the same thing but do it harder, do it faster and better. Results will come if the right amount effort was already exerted, you can't win now because you're too weak, you're not giving your 100 percent, give everything you've got, use what you can use and you will see a different result, you will be able to manufacture some momentum. Your confidence will comeback only if you push yourself to the limits, so stop waiting, stop thinking too much and just work.
EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT CONFIDENT AT ALL
Don't worry if you don't have confidence, don't worry if you feel doubtful, just always remember that you need to take actions and that's it. Focus on moving not on feeling and thinking, because you will always feel doubtful in everyday of your life, you will always feel lazy, you will always overthink, that's the reality of your life, you will always feel hesitant, fear will never go away forever, it will always be at your side. But there is one thing you can control and that's taking actions. Never mind how you feel, never mind what you are thinking at the moment, just focus on moving. In just a matter of time your emotions, actions and thoughts will synchronize. You will feel more confident, you will be able to think clearly, you will never feel stressed and lost anymore. That's the power of taking actions, it will put your mind, heart and body into a right place. Because what destroys your confidence is inaction, you're feeling scared even more every time you stop yourself from moving. That's why you have to keep plodding, keep moving forward all the time and never stop. You have to live like a machine, you have to feel worse if you're not taking actions and feel better if you're moving. All you have to do is do the first step and don't stop, that's it, there's nothing difficult about that.
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