Nov 21, 2020

YOU THINK IT'S TOO EASY THAT'S WHY YOU DON'T WANT TO START

You're becoming too arrogant now, you think it's too easy that's why you don't want to start. You think you can do it just like what everyone did, you think you're better than everyone else and you think you should get rewarded with the ideas that you don't even execute. If it's too easy then why not start? why not do it? why not put yourself on a position to make some progress? why not enjoy the tiniest progress that you can make? It's the journey not the destination, as corny as it sounds but even if you're already successful... you will still look for something to do, you will still look for a challenge, destination is overrated and journey always overlooked but the truth is you will become more happier if you're moving instead of just waiting or celebrating for your success. 

Because you will get bored, let's say you already have all the money in the world... you will get bored, you will look for something that will make you struggle a little bit. Look at those children of wealthy people... they have everything that's why they don't know what to do with their lives anymore, they were lost, they were making a rebellion because they want something to challenge them and they couldn't find it, that's why they're creating problems on their own. 

STARTING IS THE MOST DIFFICULT THING

Starting is the most difficult part because it's the time when your mind wanders and worries the most. It's the stage where your mind is entertaining a lot of fears and useless information that destroys your courage. You have to force yourself, and once you start... keep following through, always remember that once you start you can finish, once you try you can win. So stop looking for excuses why the process won't work and simply give your best no matter what. Create a mindset of just moving forward and looking for solutions every time the going gets tough, there is a way, all you have to do is find it. Stop thinking that it can't be done and just do it. 

So develop a habit of just starting it and following through, develop a mindset of forcing yourself to take actions no matter what. Don't be afraid of having a hard time, don't be afraid of making mistakes and starting again, start again if you have to but don't ever stop yourself from taking actions and doing the right thing. 

HOW TO START THE RIGHT WAY?

There is no right way to start, you just have to start and that's it. Face discomfort, whatever you can do... do it, whatever positive thing that you can start... start it, stop questioning yourself, stop questioning everything, thinking too much will make you suffer, it will make you do nothing. Focus on moving and not on thinking, just start and always think that there is something you can do, dissect the steps, take it one by one, little by little move forward and never think about finishing it fast, never think about succeeding so fast because you will never be able to follow through if you keep thinking that way. Always think that it is a process and the only way to succeed is to take consistent baby steps, one step at a time, one day at time... inch by inch make a little progress. Forget about taking shortcuts, forget about hacks or cheats... you can't escape the process, you really have to face the pain of moving or else you will never going to win in life. 

ENJOY THE SMALLEST PROGRESS YOU CAN CREATE

You can only get to where you want by starting where you are. You have to start where you are with what you have, stop thinking about the future and focus on the now, you have to dominate the now and enjoy whatever you have in your hands. Whatever you can do, you need to be proud of it, you need to enjoy it and try to make it better everyday. Try to improve day by day, discipline yourself, watch yourself evolve, watch your thoughts and actions and focus on trying to improve all of it. Because you have no other choice but to enjoy it or else you will never win, enjoy the struggle, enjoy the conflicts, enjoy the chaos, enjoy the stress. It's possible to have fun while you're uncomfortable, this is what separates the greats from the mediocre. Allow yourself to take actions whenever you need to, push yourself to work hard. 

Keep grinding, enjoy the grind, enjoy the hustle, if you can train your mind to do this then you will become unstoppable. Because it's all about the work and nothing else, no matter where you look at to see the right and short process you will never find it because it's all in the grind, you already have what you need and that is your body and mind. Develop a strong mind to become successful, invest in your body, take care of it because you need it to be strong to do a lot of work. Because it's going to become bloody and messy, it's not going to be easy, you will really have to crawl and face the most difficult situations in order to become successful. So take care of your body and mind because these are the most important things you need to become a winner in life. 

STAY HUMBLE ALL THE TIME

The problem with you is you think you can do it, you think you're a genius. You think you're entitled of getting more by giving less, you think you're so special that's why you couldn't even get started. You're criticizing other people, you think you're better than other people, you think you can do much better but you couldn't even draw the first blood, you don't have the power to pull the trigger. Stay humble, be quiet and focus on taking steps. Never think that you know everything, never think that you can do it right away and make it successful so fast. Accept that you have to grind it out, accept that you will also struggle and never get jealous with other people who are not working hard but making it in life, it is what it is, you have your own timing, you have your own journey. Never compare what you do to other people because that will ruin your journey to become successful, comparison is the thief of joy, focus on your life, focus on improving everyday and that's it. 

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