YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO LOVE ANYTHING

The truth is life is you can learn how to love anything, you can control your emotions, you can study how to feel good on something or someone. You can even fall in love with an ugly person, you can love an ugly shoe, you can appreciate your place even if it stinks, it all depends on how you control your mind. Loving what you need to love will make your life easier, it will make you feel much better and you will become more productive and creative. Just like your job, I know you hate it a lot, I know you're so sick and tired of it but what if it's the only job you know? what if it's the only thing that gives you money? you have no choice but to love it, accept everything about it and never curse it, never hate it, never tell people how bad it is. It all depends on your perception, you can appreciate anything if you will just think deeper. 

APPRECIATE IT LITTLE BY LITTLE. 

You don't need to live it with all your heart right away because it won't happen. Just take it slowly, decide that you are going to live it no matter what and study all the angles, study why you need to love it, give it a chance. Look at it, feel it, look for something you can appreciate on it. Because if you will keep on hating it then it will never help, it will only make your life a hell. If you can't leave it then love it, if it's the only thing in your life then love it to the fullest without condition. This is the only way to make your life easier. Just like in your work, if you will just learn how to love every step of it, every moment then you will become good on it, it will become easier and faster. Appreciate it little by little, a little love can go very far. Small love can become big by nurturing it and doing things that will even make it stronger day by day. 

TOO MUCH HATING WILL ONLY MAKE YOU WEAK.

Thinking about your enemies, thinking about your problems, getting jealous with other people's success... this stuffs will make you weak. Too much hate will make you sick, you need to fill your life with love and appreciation, that's how to make a progress and become successful. Hating will make you procrastinate even more, hating will never go anywhere. So stop hating and just focus on trying to love everything about your life. If you can't love someone or something then just ignore them instead of hating them because it will only ruin your day, it's not good for your health, it's not healthy for your mind, you need to focus on the things that you want instead of giving attention to things that doesn't really matter in your life. Hating will make your body paralyze, it will poison your mind, you will even imagine negative things that are not even real, your mind will always look for something to hate, it will become your attitude, it will become your reality. 

ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE

The Beatles were right, all you need is love. If you don't know what to do, if you're lost, if you're depressed, if you're failing... all you need is love, love is all you need. Love your work, love your environment, love everything about your life, you don't need someone to love you, if it's not there then it's not there, you can give love without asking for a return, giving love feels much better than giving hate. Look for something you can love and place your energy on it. Don't ask for something in return, love unconditionally. If you can't be appreciated so be it, because the real meaning of love is loving without rules, loving without bragging, loving without guarantees. Love is so powerful, it can make anything grow, it can make anything big, all you have to do is trust it, give more love and love will come back. 

You can command your feelings, a hate before can become a love now, an anger before can become a happiness now. It all starts with your thoughts. You need to control your thoughts, you need to control the way your mind behaves, it will be easier to create positive emotions if you're aware of what you're thinking of. So learn to love now, try to love now and never let fear or anger enter your system. It's possible, you can love your enemy or simply ignore him, ignore the thoughts that reminds you of him. You can ignore any kind of difficulty, you can love your struggle. Once you learn how to love your struggle and suffering... everything else will become much easier.  

LOOK FOR SOMETHING YOU CAN LOVE

So if you can't find a way how to succeed or just be a little bit happy... look for something you can love. It could be your job, a goal, a process, a hobby, a dog, a partner, a collection, a way of life... look for something where you can place your time and energy. Look for a positive something, look for something that you can love so that you will have a direction. It can be art, it can be music, it can be an impossible dream, it can be anything. For as long as you're not doing something bad to love it... you are right, you will grow with it, you will make the right decisions in life. It could be your car, design it. It could be your younger brother, teach him the best lessons that you can give. It could be your parents, give them back some love for caring about you when you were young. It could be anything that will make you love. It's better to love than to hate, it's better to be giving than to just getting all the time. 

LOVE CAN HEAL YOU

It can heal your sick mind, it can heal your chronic disease, it can heal your bitterness and trauma. Use love because it's free. It's easier to hate than love but love has more benefits, it will give you a good life. Love is positivity, love is opportunities, it will open up the opportunities for a peaceful mind and productive life. With love you will become stronger, faster and younger. With love there will be less pressure, there will be lesser anxiety and fear, with love you can conquer everything in life. So just try using love, try focusing on the things you love, stop feeling it an applying it in anything that you do. Trust me, you will never regret it. Love is so powerful, nothing can stop it. 

Love can give you anything you want, it can make you learn any new skill you want by simply loving the process. Love can make you rich by loving money, love can make you stronger by loving the pain, love can make you faster by loving hard work and being relentless, love can show you the way by loving being faithful to your belief. Love is the only way to your freedom, if you are stuck or jailed right now all you need to do is love your place and you will feel free again. Love can happen in the mind, once you entertain thoughts of love then you will manifest love in reality.