At the end of the day, whether you like it or not, whether you accept it or not... your life is all about fear. Fear is controlling you, fear is manipulating you and you don't even notice it. But it's ok, you're just a human being. You have to deal with it. Fear is part of our lives and it's our duty or obligation to fight back. You're not normal of you're not being scared anymore once in a while. So be happy if you're scared because it's an opportunity to evolve mentally, it's a sign that growth is very near and all you have to do is devour the situation no matter how difficult it may seem. Embrace any situation and you will be able to create some power. Accept what may hap[pen with all your hear, free your mind from fear, but if you can't do it then be one with fear.
FEAR IS TAKING OVER YOUR MIND ALL THE TIME
This is the truth and you must be aware of it. Fear is taking over your mind all the time. Fear of getting tired so you won't work hard. Fear of getting rejected so you won't even ask. Fear of failing so you won't even try. Fear of getting left behind so you will do everything just to stay relevant. Fear of not bein accepted by the society so you will conform and do what they do. Fear of pain so you won't even retaliate. Fear of losing money so you won't invest. Fear of losing your job so you will submit to your abusive boss. Fear of not knowing so you will study everything even if it's only making you worried all day long. Fear of getting lost so you won't even go further. Fear of getting criticized so you won't even express yourself. Fear of confrontation so you won't speak your mind. Fear of getting bullied so you will follow orders. Fear of being alone so you will try to fit in even if you don't like it.
Fear of losing something that you really don't have. Always remember that you really don't own anything, just because you can hold it doesn't mean it will be yours forever, one day you're going to die and you will never be able to bring something with you. If you can accept that nothing is so important then you will feel so free.
HOW TO STOP BEING SCARED?
It's impossible to stop being scared. At any given time fear may strike you and stab your heart, it can penetrate your mind all the time and control every decision that you're going to do. But if you have a philosophy, if you always know whenever you are scared then it will be easier to neutralize fear. You can't be fearless, there is no such thing as a fearless man. But there is a man who understand fear. There is a man who is aware that he is scared, and this man always control the outcome of his life, it's because he will not make decisions based on fear. He will not let fear get the best of him. He is aware that he is scared and he will embrace it with all his heart and still do what he is suppose to do. He understand that it's just a feeling and nothing more than that. He understand that fear will soon go away.
Embrace everything, accept that you may lose, may get tired, may die, may lose everything, may get rejected, may go back from the start, may feel the pain, may lose your mind, may get secluded from everyone else, may get laugh at, may get humiliated or embarrassed. Accept defeat, accept the possibility that you are wrong, accept that you may struggle or suffer... that is the best way to liberate yourself from worries and fears. Look at yourself as someone who is willing to persevere and move forward for as long as you are still alive. Feel unstoppable despite of fears, never let anything stop you, or even if you can't do anything about it anymore, if there is no really chance then just let it be, accept it, it is what it is.
ALWAYS LOOK AT YOURSELF
Look at yourself, why are you lazy? is it because you don't want to get tired? you don't want to try because you're so afraid to fail? you think it's just a waste of time? it's never a waste of time to try, trying is the best thing you can give to yourself, giving yourself a chance to succeed and do something positive is so rewarding. Look at yourself, why are you making safe decisions? is it because there is something on the line that you can't afford to lose?
Why are you thinking that way? why are you selling yourself short? why do you think you don't have the skill and power to do it? why are you always looking for comfort? it's because you're so scared of something that hasn't happen yet. You are predicting the future based on your fear. You are creating an illusion that makes your body and mind weak.
If you always know what is going on with your mind then it will be easier for you to control everything. It will be easier for you to calm and reclaim your power. Be happy with what's going on with your mind and body and you will be able to create a power that you can lean on whenever you feel weak and scared.
YOU CAN LOSE EVERYTHING
If you have this kind of mindset then you will become unstoppable. You can lose your identity and reputation, you can lose your money, you can lose your business, you can lose your car, you can lose your peace of mind but you are still alive. You can still stand on your own, anything that you may lose... it will never kill you. It's your attachment from something that makes you weak and playing safe, it's your weak emotion that is stopping you from progressing. The truth is... you can live forever without even smiling or being happy. Happiness is overrated, chasing for happiness is inviting misery into your life. You don't need to feel happy all the time, if happiness doesn't want you so be it.
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