Nov 15, 2020

FORGET ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN'T CONTROL NOW!

Right away, do it, stop making your life anymore difficult, let go of what you can't control... NOW! Set it free, set the pain free, don't make your life miserable anymore. Let go of what you can't control, you know these things, you know what makes your life a struggle. Your expectations, what people think of you, success, perfect condition, a perfect life, trying to win all the time, trying to please people, trying to stay dominant, trying to get respect... these things will not be yours. You may get some, you may control some things that are hard to control but you can never control them forever. The only things you can control is your mind and your actions, your reactions and perspectives. You can never control everything because by doing that will only give you a very stressful life. 

YOU CAN'T CONTROL LIFE

Life is full of surprises, it is full of randomness, today good things are happening to you and tomorrow is a little bit bad. Today is shining and tomorrow is raining, it is what it is. Life will surprise you all the time, it will stun you, it will bring you down on your knees. You just have to face it, you just have to accept it and never let it defeat you, keep fighting, fight back no matter what. No matter how big the challenge is in front of you... always learn how to fight back and never let life destroy your mind. Let the challenges make you grow, let it make you stronger and better. Life is so unpredictable and you must get use to it. Sometimes you even feel that you're in charge and you're in control of everything then suddenly something will shock you. And you will feel like a little puppy who's so helpless and weak, you will freak out in just a blink of an eye. 

YOU CAN'T CONTROL SUCCESS

You may win or you may not. Success will only be yours if you're 90 percent in control of everything but most of the time you are not. But if you place it in the hands of other people, appreciation from other people, judgement of people, perspective of people, definition of other people then it will never be yours. That's why you need to define your own success. Me my personal definition of success is if I've give everything I've got and if I go to the extreme... for me this is success. The best thing to do is just give your very best and that's it, no need to worry if you will become successful or not. Most of the time, success will come into your life naturally if you're simply focused on giving your best and not giving lesser than what you can give, give your all and big things will come into your life. 

ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW

Life is happening now, it's not happening tomorrow or in the past. Be happy because you still have now, you can still do a lot of things. Appreciate the now no matter how ugly it is, because this is where your life resides... in the now. You can never transfer your life to past or move it to the future. All you have is now, it's what you can control, it's what you can appreciate or hate but it's much much better if you will just appreciate because it will make you feel much better. There is an endless possibility on the now so never take it for granted, you can become happier now, you can attract better opportunities in life now, there is so much in the now so never waste it, never waste your time thinking about what you don't want and can't control, use the power of now to make yourself happier and better. 

MOVE FORWARD EVEN IF IT'S HARD

You will get stronger and will be able to forget weakness if you will just move forward even if it's hard. Life is hard and you have to deal with it, but it will only get harder if you will get lazy and blame the things or people that you don't want all the time. 

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