The process is very easy, success is very easy if you're not needy of results. The process becomes harder because you don't trust the process, you're not all about the process... you're all about results.
DON'T TRY TO LOOK PERFECT ALL THE TIME.
The number one reason why you can't make results is because you're always trying to look perfect all the time, you're trying to look cute, you don't want to get criticized, you don't want to get laugh at. Trying to look perfect will make you stuck. Always remember that you're not a celebrity, you don't have a name, never care about your identity because it will only make you stuck in one place. You are not here to have a perfect record, you are here to make your hands dirty and experience a lot of things. You will never succeed if you will always try to feel comfortable all the time, that's not the case, that mindset will never get you anywhere. If you're moving from one place to another it's uncomfortable right? but the potential for progress is every big. Same as trying to make an improvement in your life, it will always be uncomfortable if you're looking for an evolution. You will never learn anything or improve in some areas of your life if you're too comfortable surfing the web the whole day or watching TV the whole day, there should be a discomfort if you want to evolve.
MAKE IT SIMPLE, JUST BREAK THE BOUNDARY
If you want to make results, make it simple, just break a boundary, break one of your limitations, break your own records. It doesn't need to be big right away, just keep pushing and try to break your own record. If you have one thousand dollars now try to make it $1,100 or just $1,050. That's a result already. The best way to get your momentum back is to simple do something, give your very best and do whatever it takes to win in life.
Look for something you can break, it can be a simple achievement or routine. If you're always doing 20 pushup everyday and it becomes so easy and boring, it only means it's time to break that number, do 21 or 22 pushups tomorrow and stick with that number until it becomes too comfortable, then try to break it again.
ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT IT
The one thing that you can't live without is your family, that's it. Your heart will be broken into pieces without your family. So anything that is not on your hands... you don't need it. If you want to release the tension, anxiety or pressure then accept that you can live without it. Because sometimes wanting it so bad is stopping you, it's freezing you and avoiding you from taking actions. Because not expecting for anything is power, you will become free, nothing will bother you, it's easier to become successful because there's no pressure at all. All you will do is move and that's it, you don't care about the results, you don't care about getting zero, you're simply having fun with the process and you feel that it's the reward already.
RESULTS WILL COME IF YOU WILL TRUST THE PROCESS
How many times do you have to hear it before you believe it... always trust the process no matter what. Keep believing it all the time and never doubt it for a second. Always believe that everything that you are doing is making you one step closer from your goal. Always believe that big things are waiting for you. The harder you believe the bigger you will achieve. Just work and let the results come naturally, don't worry about it, don't think about it and just focus on taking actions, if you can apply this this style into your life then it would be easier to become successful.
Being ok getting zero, being ok getting nothing, being ok failing or simply being ok walking away... this is real power, you have nothing to lose, you don't feel bad about the efforts not getting any rewards, you are free to do anything you want, nothing can make you feel bad, the results is more creativity and freedom.
BE FAST SO YOUR MIND WON'T THINK
Go back to the plan as fast as you can, go back to the process, execute the plan and never stop. That's how to become successful, it's all about making yourself free and unstoppable. How are you going to do that? not minding other people's business and fully focusing on your own business. Do something right away, execute the first step. Regardless if you feel good or not... pull the trigger, never let your mind think. Because every time you procrastinate and overthink... you will lose your sanity, you will lose your momentum, don't let the mind overthink... that's the key, once you have an idea... execute it to the fullest, never give up, never stop... you have to move forward all the time.
Your mind is powerful, it can also become destructive, you have to control it or else it will control you. Direct your mind to your goals, focus on what you want and never focus on what you don't want... that's what it is all about.
THE WORST THING THAT IS STOPPING YOU
The worst thing that's stopping you is your mindset, you don't have the right mindset to get the results that you're looking for. Correct your mind and your life will be corrected too. You have to think of a goal or a plan that you must follow, you have to have references that you may use on different difficult scenarios that you might encounter. For example if you encounter a situation in your job that is really stressful what will your mindset would be? how will you react? what are you going to do? or if you lose your job or you got sick, what will your mindset would be?
If you have a strong mindset or philosophy in life then nothing can break you. You can survive anything, you can make anything succeed, you will become unstoppable, you can conquer the world.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN BUSINESS
Never let your mind be occupied with something that is not related to your own business. Subjects like a rumble in basketball, Lebron James being a Goat, Donald Trump having a fever or any stupid news that will only mess up your mentality. Focus on minding your own business and results will come faster than expected. Focus on your own business and it will grow everyday, it will become bigger and bigger.
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