Nov 21, 2019

ASK YOURSELF WHAT ARE YOU SCARED ABOUT?

Why are you scared of something? why are you scared to talk and express yourself? why are you so scared to move? why are you scared to do it by yourself? why do you feel inferior? why don't you give yourself the authority?

YOU ARE HERE TO FACE YOUR FEARS

Life is all about facing your fears, facing your fears is fun, it will turn you into something, it is exciting and will make you evolve. Most people who can't evolve anymore were not facing their fears. Fear is part of your daily life, it is normal to get scared but what makes you fail and make wrong decisions is you're not facing your fears, you're always going to your comfort zone even if you already knew deep inside your heart that it is wrong. Face your fears because that is the right thing to do.

Keep in mind that when you're afraid of something then you need to face it, that's where growth happens, that's where progress occurs. Be afraid of it but still face it, still do your thing.

Speak in front of a crowd, ask a hot woman for a date, say I love you to your crush, ask for a big raise from your boss, say sorry when you hurt someone, be the best that you can be, work the hardest and chase your dreams. You want what you're scared of but you can't pull the trigger because you let fear run your system, you're obeying your fears instead of conquering it. Be scared but don't believe in your fears, don't believe that you're going to fail and just keep trying.

YOU WANT YOUR FEARS BUT YOU'RE AFRAID OF IT

You want to take the last shot of the game but you're afraid of it, you want to buy a big house but you're afraid of it, you want to chase your dreams but you're afraid of it, you want to resign in your stinky job but you're afraid of it. The truth is... you want something else but you're afraid of it. Admit that you want your fears, admit that you need to face it. So look at your fears and go towards it, if you want big money then go for it, if you want to build a new business then go for it, if you want to try a new lifestyle then go for it, don't be afraid of the discomfort that fear brings to your life, when it feels uncomfortable then it means you're on the right path.

YOU CAN STILL TAKE ACTIONS EVEN IF YOU'RE LOST

So what if you're lost, so what if you lose your mind because of fear? you can still make a comeback, you can still find your way home and bring success with you. Being scared is normal but not doing something about the situation is the stupidest reaction you can ever have. Always remind yourself that you can still take actions even if you're lost.

FEAR WILL SUBSIDE

No matter how scared you are right now always remember that fear will subside, it is not there to stay forever, it will never forever scare you or threaten you, it can only scare you for a few seconds and it will be gone. Some people feels that it stays forever because they were focusing on their fears, but if you will just ignore it and focus on your strength alone then it will never scare you anymore.

DON'T HIDE FROM YOUR FEARS

Look for it, don't hide from it because by doing that means you're hiding from winning. Don't hide from your crush, don't hide from the ball, don't hide from the money, don't hide from the opportunity, don't hide from the risk. Expose yourself to danger, humiliation, embarrassment and failure... that's the best way to become successful in life. What are you being scared about? this is just a game, this is just life, you need to have fun with it and play it the right way. 

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