Are you sick and tired of always holding yourself back? Are you sick and tired of stopping yourself? do you want to create something or try something but you can't even draw the first blood? The real answer why you can't have a freedom is your mindset and decision making skills. You don't have the right mindset yet and your decision making skills is very poor.
THE PHILOSOPHY OF HAVING NO REGRETS
In everything you do... have the philosophy of having no regrets. Even if you fail, even if you disappoint somebody... always feel no regrets. But make sure you give your best and give everything you've got, if you can just go all out but still fail... have no regrets. Sometimes victory and success is not for you at the moment. But if you will regret all the decision that you made then that will block you from moving forward, there is no freedom anymore, you will be jailed in your own mind. If you really want to feel free then feel free after every decision that you made. When you do it you do it, when it is done it is done... as simple as that. Have no conscience in making decisions and live with the consequences, thinking about it too much when it's already done is only punishing yourself mentally, you are not free to move forward by doing that because you will feel that there is a burden on your chest.
UNLIMITED PUSH
Always push yourself to the limits. If you want to gain freedom then you need to practice the unlimited push. There is always something you can do, all you have to do is do it. Push yourself to attain your goals, stop being lazy because laziness only feels good in the moment, you will feel bad after a few months. Push yourself so you will see what is possible for you. If you will not push yourself then you will always wonder what you could have done or achieve, and that is another for of mental slavery. Push yourself, you will feel free every time you do it because you will discover how good you are, you will get what you really deserve.
Force it, push it, sometimes you really have to use force in order to attain freedom. Taking it easy is like taking your life for granted, you have to feel uncomfortable if you want to become successful and achieve freedom.
SET UP THE RIGHT LIFESTYLE
Choose the right friends, right circle, right job, right place, right timing. It's all about picking what is best for your life and nothing else. Because if you have the toxic job, people, place around you... that is making you feel like a prisoner, there will be a lot of stress, you will feel that you deserve more but you are not getting it, you will always look for some better things.
Set up the right lifestyle now, choose what you really want and do whatever it takes to sustain it or even evolve it.
PRACTICE DEALING WITH YOUR OWN TERMS
If there is a business deal, if there is an agreement, if there is a transaction... learn to deal with your own terms. If not then at least 80-90 percent should be in your favor. Don't ever let someone control an agreement because that will give you absolute no freedom at all. You will always worry, you will be manipulated, that will give a lot of stress on your side. Living in your own terms will make you feel superior and free, you will feel that you can command people too and not just follow them. It's ok if they reject your proposition, just try again next time and you will see that someone will follow you and will obey your rules.
DISCIPLINE YOURSELF
Do it whenever you don't want to do it. Just do it, take the first step... that's the easiest way to achieve freedom. Because were can't feel free every time we procrastinate, we feel jailed every time we don't want to do what is needed to do. Discipline yourself to prioritize the tasks that are urgent. In this way you will feel free, you will feel really good after finishing it, your confidence will go up, it's because you will feel proud of yourself that you were able to finish what is hard. Difficult things will give you so much self esteem because not all people can do it.
Do it now, stop waiting and do it now. Movement and taking actions will give you freedom. It will clear your mind, it will remove all the stress that procrastination give. A man who's always on the move feels more free than a man who is lazy and just waiting for things to happen.
PRIORITIZE YOUR GOALS FIRST
If you have a goal then it's easier to make a decision, especially if that decision is big or mind boggling. Ignore what is stopping you. Forget the entertainment that is making you weak like watching TV a lot, playing video games or gossiping. Because these form of entertainment were fun but useless, you will get sick and tired of it in the long run and you will become bored with your life, you wouldn't know what to do anymore.
Another example is when someone is borrowing money from you, and that person has a reputation of not returning what he borrowed. You're thinking twice right, you are hesitant and that feels no freedom to decide at all. But if you will prioritize your goal like buying a house or a car then you will have an excuse not to lend him, you can decide easily without feeling guilty. Prioritize your goals and you will feel so much free because your goals is protecting you and covering you.
NEVER CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY
Never seek for approval, never try to impress other people. If you really want to become free then decide what you really want to get and how are you going to get it. You will only feel bad and disrespected every time you follow what other people say or disobey yourself because other people were saying that you are wrong. Follow your heart, this is the number one key to freedom. They can say whatever they wanted to say, that is their freedom. But it's your freedom too to ignore them and just focus on your own journey.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO FAIL
Accepting that failing is inevitable is absolute freedom. If you're so scared to fail then you will never be able to express yourself, fail as much as you can and never regret that you try. You can try forever, don't be afraid to fail over and over again, and even if you don't succeed... at least you try with pride.
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