If pain can subside so as fear. Fear is just there to scare you and manipulate your mind. It can never kill you nor make your situation worse. All it can do is poison your mind and make you make bad decisions by believing in it. Fear is a liar, it is a traitor, it is making you believe that you need to make a decision based on it and then you will regret it in the end, you will feel regretful after deciding to not follow your own beliefs and instincts. Fear is manipulating you but the good news is you can manipulate it too, you can ignore it, you can laugh at it, you can take actions and make big decisions that is in favor of you even if you're scared.
DON'T BE SCARED TO BECOME SCARED
If you can't become fearless then be scared. Don't be scared to feel fear, don't be scared to let fear run into your system. It's ok to be scared but always try to remain calm and be aware that you are scared. Most people were not aware that they are scared, once they feel the fear... they will panic and just freak out without even trying to stay calm, they will go with the flow but they don't have control. They let the fear control their minds and decisions, the worst thing is... they don't even want to think anymore, they will just let themselves be scared and will never try to analyze the situation first. It's because they were resisting fear, they don't want to feel it that's why they feel it even more. If you don't want to become scared then you will become scared even more, that is the number one rule of fear.
So if you think that you are scared of something... be scared even more. Do it, face it, feel the fear. Don't pretend that you are scared, don't tell everyone you're not scared, just ok being scared and then face it, still give your best, stay calm and collected and you will see that fear is starting to stay away from your life. Fear will subside, it's not invincible, it's not permanent, you can defeat it by feeling it, you can become courageous by simply being in the moment and letting fear run into your system.
ACTION IS THE KEY
Whatever you are feeling now... take action, that is the key to beat fear, keep the blood in your body circulating, the only way to do that is by pulling the trigger and taking the first step. You are becoming scared even more if you're not moving. Every time you procrastinate and overthink your fear is eating you alive, it is controlling your nervous system and destroying your motivation to move. So whenever you feel stuck, lazy and scared... all you need to do is move, never stop moving, never stop taking actions. Action is your number one weapon, you have to take matters into your own hands, allow yourself to move and being scared will never become an option anymore.
YOU NEED TO POWER THROUGH AND SEE WHAT IS REALLY BEHIND THAT FEAR
Greatness, success and change can only be achieve if you face your fears and power through. You can never evolve if you're focused on fears, you can forget fear by simply taking action and doing whatever it takes to get to another level. So force yourself to move, the good thing is... you can still move and do something despite of your fear. You can fight back, you can take one small step, you can speak, you can express yourself, you can apply for a work, you can cook your food, you can say sorry, you can just move forward... you can do anything despite of feeling scared. Don't ever count yourself out, don't ever think that just because you're scared then you already lost and can't do something anymore. Most people were defeated by their fears because they just let it take over, they don't even want to try. Just try, just give yourself a chance to win or make a little bit progress. Fear will lose its power once you take charge and never hold yourself back. It's ok to feel it, it's ok to become a little bit scared but stay committed to taking actions, stay loyal to what you really want to happen. You maybe scared for now but if you just keep moving forward and do whatever it takes to get what you want then fear will evaporate.
TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL FOLLOW YOUR BELIEFS NO MATTER WHAT.
Even if you're so damn scared, even if it looks so impossible to win or escape the situation you are in... always tell yourself that you will believe in yourself no matter what. Stay calm and poised even if you're scared, always be loyal to your own philosophy and make judgement and decisions based on what you really want, always follow your heart, never let other people or scary situations influence your mind or alter your ability to decide for your own good. Just because you're scared doesn't mean you can't think right anymore,of course you can still make wise decisions, just go back to your philosophy, go back to your belief system and make decision based on who you really are. Always follow your instincts, always follow your gut and heart and never have any regrets no matter what the outcome maybe.
Always go further, always follow your intuition. Forget about what people say, it's your life, it's your right to make decisions on your own. No decision is wrong if you really believe that it's going to work.
FEAR IS A NORMAL FEELING
Everyone feels fear, even the most notorious terrorist was scared. But the most successful people always knew that fear is a normal feeling, they move despite of being scared, they don't care about their emotions, they stay loyal to their goals and ambitions, they stay committed to what they really want to happen with their life. Being scared is just another day in your life, it is nothing, it is so common so never make it a big deal, never give your fear a special treatment by believing on it, just ignore it and focus on your visions, sooner or later that fear will disappear.
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