If you have a dream, all you have to do is start and take the next steps that you can take. You are not suppose to know everything but if your vision is so clear and you're so determined to get it then you will get it. It's ok to get lost, it's ok to feel overwhelmed, you are not suppose to become so sure if you will win or not. If you know that you're going to win from the very start then you will not be challenged anymore, you will become lazy and you will not give your very best.
It's ok if you don't know where will the next money come from, it's ok if you don't know if you're going to win or not, it's ok if you don't know the best path to become successful, it's definitely ok. You need to fall in love with the unknown, you need to stay committed with the journey because at the end of the day, you will only know the answer if you will try and give your very best.
And so what if you don't know the future? you're not a wizard, you're not a fortune teller. It's ok if you totally get lost, it's not a problem because you will find your way back. Just be yourself and fall in love with the chaos, you can build your own rhythm and timing if you keep trying and push forward even if defeat is inevitable. You will get there, whatever destination you desire... you will get there if you will trust the process. It's a journey, you don't need to know how to make it right away, sometimes it's really a trial and error process, sometimes the process is brutal and really difficult but it is what it is, that's how life was designed. Life will become so damn boring if everything is so easy. So embrace the hustle, embrace the grind and simply keep moving forward all the time. You don't need to look perfect all the time, you don't need an easy path, all you need is a persevering mind and a relentless attitude to keep trying even if there is no chance to win. Because quitting and always complaining will become your attitude.
LEARN TO ADAPT AND CONQUER
Learn to adapt to any situation you are in. It can be a really bad situation, it can be a really hopeless place but if you will just appreciate where you at right now and simply give your best then you will make it to the top. You can conquer anything, you can climb the highest mountain, it all depends on what kind of mindset do you have. Learning to adapt and adjusting to the situation is the best skill that a man can have. A born rich spoiled kid will cry once he suddenly become poor for whatever reason but a kid who was poor since birth will never cry once he become rich and poor again because he already knew what it's like of being poor. I am not saying that the rich kid cannot adapt to his new situation, the point here is if you were so familiar with a hostile environment and you were able to adapt to that place early then you will never have a hard time for the rest of your life anymore.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS LIVE AND DO THE NEXT STEP
Just live because if you're living then you have a big chance of becoming successful. Just live and take it step by step, fall in love with the process. Never quit when it's hard, don't die when it's hard... push further when the going becomes difficult... that's how to change your life and become successful. Never care of what is happening, never care how difficult and painful your situation is... just do what is needed, keep living and surviving and try to do the next step all the time. Keep looking for steps that you can complete, keep looking for that space that you can occupy. Make yourself very close form what you are trying to accomplish. Forget about anything else, forget the obstacle, forget the difficulty... just do the next step and that's it.
ENJOY BEING SCARED
Enjoy your fear, enjoy not feeling alright, enjoy being lost, enjoy your psychology. Remember that every time you face your fears... you are becoming a better person, you are getting braver and braver. It's ok if you are scared, learn to enjoy it and it will go away anytime soon. Being scared is also part of who you are, everyone is scared but the most accomplished individuals are the ones who can move despite of being scared of what might happen. As the saying goes... "despite of your fear, do what you have to do". The key on how to enjoy your fear is be aware that you're scared and try to stay calm all the time. Forget about what may happen next and just go with the flow, learn to relax while moving, stay calm even if you are scared. Don't rush too much because that will only escalate your fears. Be in a slow motion if you need to and just keep doing your thing. Always remember that it's ok to become scared, what matters is you are moving forward and you're not freezing yourself up.
Execute the next step and you will have that momentum again. Most people were lost because they couldn't even do the next step, they were so scared because they feel that it's a big responsibility, they feel that it's too hard. Or maybe they were just too lazy. Always remember that hard work can outclass anything, if you don't know anything but you are willing to work hard then you can beat any competition you have. Just do the first step and you're already free, you already won.
YOU WILL LEARN AS YOU TAKE ACTIONS
You will learn as you move forward, you will learn as you take actions. So don't worry if you're lost as of now and you don't know a lot, you will learn in the long run, it's just a matter of sticking with the process and being confident that the knowledge will come anytime soon. The right skills will be learned as you go along, the right information will be absorbed if you're determined enough to get it.
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