Oct 17, 2019

HOW TO BE THE BOSS OF YOUR OWN LIFE

Being the boss of his own life is what everybody wishes to be. It's really hard because you're clueless of how are you going to do it. But it is possible, it's up to you which side are you on, are you going to be the boss of your own life or are you going to follow like others. There's nothing wrong about being a follower, it is good too, if you're ok with that then that's totally fine. But if part of you is itching to become a boss then you need to follow your heart.

1. Pursue your passion. Once you pursue your passion... everything else will follow, it feels like everything is connecting the right way. Pursue your passion and never let it go, do it even if you feel like not doing it, give your best. You will become the boss of your own life by doing this because you will feel what is right or wrong, nobody can command you because you just knew what to do. Once you become passionate and you become really good with your passion... people will follow you, they will be impressed, they will choose you as a role model or leader, a lot of opportunities will come into your life.

2. Set Goals and relentlessly pursue it. Set goals, once the goal was set... never back down, never quit, keep getting it, keep making yourself closer from it. Get that goal no matter what, never stop until you get it. You will become the boss if you chase your your goals because you will become blind, you will get addicted with the process and you will choose your own process, nobody can command you, nobody can choose a life for you, you will create your own life, your life will revolve around your goal and you will ignore everything outside of it.

3. Earn money as much as you can. Earn more money so you have reserve when you quit your job, save as much money as you can so you can create your own business and live the lifestyle that you really want. More money equals more control, if you can pull something during emergency then nobody can control your life, you will live according to your rules and demands, nobody can just push you or get leverage on you.

4. Be the hardest worker. Work hard, hard work creates success, hard work will make you a boss because your value will go higher and higher. You will have a lot of confidence to do it your way because you just knew that hard work will save you. A boss that doesn't work hard is not a real boss, that is a fake boss. So if you want to become a real boss in the future then learn how to work super hard now, make hard work as your passion, make it your habit, make it part of your culture. Once your brain and body got used to working hard... everything else will become easy. You will become the captain of your own ship, you will hold the steering wheel and go wherever you wanted to go.

5. Never listen to what other people say. Nobody knows better than you, of course people will always have something to say. They will criticize you, scrutinize you and will try to make you feel bad especially if you're chasing something great. It's non e of your business to listen to what they say. Keep being yourself all the time and keep pushing hard towards your dreams. So what if you fail, so what if you're wrong, at least you're trying and giving your very best. Not too many people can give their best, most people were scared to follow their dreams and that's why other people were just using them, they become an accessory for other people's dreams, they just follow and follow even though they were completely against with it.

6. Never listen to your fears. You will be scared every once in a while but if you really want to become the boss then never feed your fears, feed your courage by moving forward and taking one positive step at a time. Inaction creates doubts and fears, movement creates momentum and confidence. It's ok to be scared but never amplify it by procrastinating and not doing anything at all. Do something, move make a stand for your dream, chase your dream life, be the boss, never let your fear dictate your fate.

7. Always be willing to fail. If you really want to become the boss then you need to endure a lot of failure, that's how it is, you can never escape failure. Don't worry because it's just temporary. 

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