If you can only give zero meaning to any negativity that is happening to your life then you will have more life, meaning you will love your life more and you will have an easier life. It is what it is, let it flow, do something if you can change it but if you can't.. . then just let it go.
The pain you are feeling now didn't mean anything, it's nothing. Don't worry about it, just feel it and it will go in just a matter of time. Ignore it if you can but don't dwell too much on it, if you focus on it then it will consume your mind, you have to protect your mind to protect your life and the dream that you are chasing. Just deal with it, never think about the past, never think what went wrong and never think about quick fixes, just deal with it and feel it. Life is so precious, life is a gift, don't ever think that it's bad luck, don't ever think that life is unfair, everything that happens to you is a gift, it all depends on how you open, receive and perceive that gift. It all depends on what meaning you give to it.
FAILING DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING
So what if you fail, at least you've tried. Failing is nothing, it's just another chapter of your life. Failing happens to everyone, failing is all part of your life and you don't need to feel so much bad about it. If you can smile after failing, if you can take it and still try again tomorrow... then you will succeed for sure. Those who can handle failing and never stick to the negative emotion that it does for a long time will attract success faster. Some people were making a lot of dramas once they fail, but the main reason why they really fail is because they lack the effort and commitment. Always remember that you will never fail if you keep pushing and keep trying again, you may not get the goal today but it doesn't mean anything because you will still get it tomorrow if your belief and commitment is still intact.
REJECTION DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING
So what if a girl rejects you, so what if you didn't get the job you applied for, so what if your idea was rejected and some people intentionally humiliate you. It will only hurt you if you keep thinking about it, it will only affect you if you give meaning to it. Forget about it and live your life, try again tomorrow, look for another opportunity, hunt another goal or another chick, the possibilities are endless for people who don't know how to give up. If you can enjoy getting rejected over and over again then you will become invincible, you can get what you want, this is just a numbers game, the more you try the bigger is the chance of becoming successful.
WHAT THEY SAY DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING
They can tell you everything they want, they can criticize you, they can pull you down, they can say the nastiest things to you but if it doesn't mean anything then you're still the winner, the ones who talk bad against you are the ones who get hurt. If you can stay still and calm then that is real power, they can never make you feel inferior anymore. If you give zero meaning to anything then that is true power, you will live life according to your rules.
What they say only becomes powerful if you will give them attention, their words will become weak if you know yourself and you don't show signs of getting affected by any of it.
SUCCESS DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING
Even if you become successful today... it still didn't mean anything, you're only successful today, if you think that you don't need to work hard anymore then you will go back to the rut you are in before, you will become stuck in a mud again. Always remember that success is hard to maintain so never let it make your head big, never think that you will become successful forever. You're success today doesn't mean anything, it's just another day... an ordinary day. So stop celebrating, stop being arrogant and bragging about your success, stay humble and chase a bigger goal.
ANYTHING IS MEANINGLESS
The disrespectful treatment from other people is meaningless, the hurtful words were meaningless. The bad situations and happenings were meaningless, it's only you that give meaning to different things. If you focus your energy into negativity and give something a bog meaning even though it can be ignored then you are only making your life difficult. You are only wasting your life if you're focus on the dramas instead of focusing on the possibilities. So stop giving meaning to anything that you don't want to stay in your life, just ignore what you hate, ignore what irritates you and never show that you're affected with those useless things. Focus on the better things in your life and you will become much much happier.
THE GREATEST STRENGTH IS SHOWING THEM THAT YOU'RE UNAFFECTED
If you're not affected with pain, if you're not talking about it, if you're not making any excuses, if you're not needy and if you can shield your mind with any form of negativity or ideas that scares you then that is real strength. You don't need to look bully, powerful, dominant or popular to look powerful. All you need to do is stay calm and focus on your own life, you can make yourself even more powerful if you can create your own path and keep pushing forward no matter what.
At first you will feel bad but you need to be mindful of what might happen next. If you will let your emotions control you then you're in big trouble.
EVEN RISKY MOVES WERE NOTHING
You can make a move even if it will make you lose everything. So what if you lose everything? you don't own anything from the very start, you have nothing to lose in life, you have everything to gain and everything to experience. So keep taking risks because it is good for your mental health, it is good for you because your mental toughness will go to another level.
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